Message from Ms. Chen in WeChat parents group
Senior two girls were told to play with their mobile phones in class. Mom "hates iron and does not produce steel" and took out pliers to crush the mobile phones in public. Unable to persuade, the class teacher uploaded the selfie video to the parents to prove innocence, but it was rumored that "the class teacher asked the parents to do so".
Rumors on the internet
The teacher asked parents to cut students' mobile phones.
Recently, a video titled "A student in Hanzhong is playing with his mobile phone in class, and the teacher asks his parents to cut it" went viral on Weibo and WeChat official account platforms.
165438+1October 3, the reporter saw this video, which seems to have been shot in the school office. A woman in a red coat is talking with a mobile phone with pliers. Because of her great strength, she made a "click" from time to time, and the screen of her mobile phone was cracked. A man's voice also appeared in the video: "Today, in class, she played, asking the girls next to her to play together, really calling me ..." It can be clearly seen in the video that two girls stood with their backs against the wall in the distance, watching the women holding their mobile phones with pliers.
In the video description, he wrote: "A high school student in Hantai was found playing with a mobile phone by a teacher. On the spot, he called his parents to let them hold the mobile phone with pliers, and took a video and sent it to their parents, saying it was an example."
Subsequently, the reporter made efforts to learn that the incident occurred in Hantai No.2 Middle School and contacted the parents, teachers and students involved in the video. Through the investigation, it was found that the incident was not "the class teacher told parents to do this", but the girl Tingting (pseudonym) was called to play with her mobile phone in class. After her mother arrived at school, she "hates iron and does not produce steel" and crushed her mobile phone in front of the class teacher with her own pliers.
Children's parents
Destroy your mobile phone just because you hate iron.
"I hate iron and don't produce steel. I didn't expect this result. " 165438+1On October 4th, Tingting's mother, Ms. Chen, said that her daughter 17 was a sophomore. "Because of her poor grades, she loves to play mobile phones. I broke one of her iPad in junior high school. " Ms. Chen is also very strict with her daughter because the school prohibits bringing mobile phones. But not long ago, she found that her daughter bought another mobile phone, "secretly bought it with pocket money."
Ms. Chen said that on the afternoon of June 365438+1October 3 1, she received a phone call from her daughter's head teacher, Mr. Yan, saying that her daughter was playing with her mobile phone in class and asked her to take it back. "I was angry at the time." When she got to school, she saw her daughter and another female classmate standing in the office. When the teacher gave her the mobile phone, she took out the prepared pliers from her bag and began to crush it hard. "I wanted to crush her at that time and see if she would dare to play mobile phones in class in the future." Ms. Chen said that Teacher Yan advised her to calm down, but she didn't stop when she was angry. Later, Teacher Yan took a video with her mobile phone.
Head teacher/class teacher
Just want to contact parents to educate their children.
165438+1On the morning of October 4th, the reporter contacted Teacher Yan. He said, "The video circulating these days said that I asked my parents to cut the phone, which is really hard to refute." Teacher Yan said that Tingting was found playing mobile phone with another female classmate in biology class that afternoon by the patrol teacher. Later, he called them to the office. "I criticized and educated them first, and then let Tingting's mother handle this matter in order to contact parents to educate their children." Teacher Yan said that I didn't expect Tingting's mother to take out a pair of pliers from her bag and crush her mobile phone. "I also advised her at that time, there is no need for this. There are many ways of education, so don't be so radical. " Teacher Yan said that I didn't expect Tingting's mother to be emotional and couldn't stop it. He was afraid of a dispute, so he took this video with his mobile phone.
"That night, I sent the video to the WeChat parents group, mainly to prove that it was not done by the school or the teacher, but by the parents' personal behavior. "Teacher Yan said that she also wants other parents to see how determined Ms. Chen is to educate her children," but the way is not desirable. "Unexpectedly, a student saw this video while using his parents' mobile phone and sent it to other classes. Later, the video was uploaded to the network, which triggered a heated discussion and continued to ferment.
"This really has nothing to do with teacher yan. It's entirely my personal behavior, which has brought bad influence to the school and teachers. I am deeply sorry. " Ms. Chen said. At 8: 39 pm on June 1 65438+1October1Sunday, Ms. Chen sent two messages to her parents: "Teacher Yan is strict in teaching, and I support my approval. Destroying the mobile phone is purely my personal behavior. " "At that time, I only thought it would affect the class and other students, so I wanted to destroy it, but I just hated my children."
expert
Destroying mobile phones does not make children learn.
A person in charge of Hantai No.2 Middle School said that this matter has attracted the attention of the education authorities, and the school also conducted a informed criticism for the teachers involved. They believe that teachers should stop parents in time, should not make videos and should not spread them to parents. "As teachers, we can educate and guide children not to play mobile phones in class, but we have no right to destroy them; Parents do this, although their determination can be learned, but the practice is rude and inappropriate. "
The director of the guidance center for adolescent mental health education said that the essence of education is to guide and educate students on the right path, and destroying mobile phones with violence can not make students more serious and eager to learn. So the key to the problem is not the mobile phone, but that parents and teachers must find ways to stimulate students' interest in learning and self-discipline, and guide students to balance the relationship between study and leisure. "Simple and rude behavior not only hurts children's psychology, but also reveals an overly utilitarian view of education, which is really undesirable." Between schools, parents and children, children should be educated through teaching methods and patient persuasion and communication.
Ms. Chen said that she has realized that this kind of education is wrong and rude, and it hurts her daughter's self-esteem in front of her classmates and teachers, which may be counterproductive. She will definitely pay attention to the way of educating children in the future.
Tingting regretted it afterwards. She said not to play with mobile phones in class, and she would definitely abide by the school rules in the future.
What education needs is to go into children's hearts, not to change children with violence.