1。 Afraid of hurting the fetus
Pregnant women are afraid of having sex with their husbands and hurting the fetus, so try to restrain their sexual excitement.
Doctors say that most pregnant women are worried that their sexual life will affect their babies, so their sexual desire will decrease.
Generally, women in China will have the attitude of protector after becoming mothers. In order to protect the baby, you will naturally refuse the teacher's request.
When a pregnant woman's motives or "difficulties" in avoiding sex are not understood by her husband, she may gradually dilute her sexual desire.
2。 Worried about exposing your body.
Pregnant women are afraid that their fatter bodies can't arouse their husbands' sexual interest, and that their husbands don't like their bodies, so they dare not have sex easily.
Over time, they will suppress their sexual desire and show an alienated or indifferent attitude towards actual sexual life.
physiological change
The doctor said that in the early stage of pregnancy, the uterus gradually increases, the abdomen gradually increases, and the uterus comes out of the pelvic cavity, and the pregnant woman becomes fat.
Breasts will also become bigger, sweat easily, and smell heavier, which is actually more attractive. Basically, the sexual needs of pregnant women are no different from those before pregnancy.
After pregnancy, vaginal secretions increase, vulva is not only easy to fester, but also the resistance to bacteria decreases.
During pregnancy, with the increase of vaginal secretions, if women do not pay attention to cleaning after enjoying sexual life, their vagina will be infected, which will not only cause burning sensation and discomfort, but also cause the risk of miscarriage after bacteria aggravate symptoms.
Therefore, not only in peacetime, but also before sex, both husband and wife should pay special attention to keeping local cleanliness.
Is pregnant women suitable for sex?
Sexual life in early pregnancy
In the first three months of pregnancy, due to the changes of endocrine function of pregnant women, the embryo is in the development stage, especially at this time, the connection between placenta and maternal uterine wall is not close enough. If you have sex, it is probably because of improper movements or excessive excitement, which leads to uterine jitter and placental loss.
Bleeding, leading to miscarriage. Even if you are very careful when making love, it is easy to cause miscarriage because of pelvic congestion and uterine contraction.
Sexual life in the second trimester of pregnancy
In the second trimester of pregnancy (about 4~7 months), the placenta of pregnant women has been formed, the pregnancy is stable, and the early pregnancy reaction has passed.
At this time, pregnant women's mood began to become comfortable. The secretion of sexual organs also increased, which is a period of high sexual desire.
Therefore, couples can enjoy sex properly. However, it is still necessary to exercise restraint, pay attention to the place and time of sexual life, and avoid the impact on the fetus.
At this time, the placenta has amniotic fluid as a barrier, which can buffer external stimuli, effectively protect the fetus and reduce accidents.
Doctors believe that sexual life during pregnancy should be based on emotional prenatal education, and sexual life in the second trimester is also conducive to the love of husband and wife and the healthy development of the fetus.
Studies at home and abroad also point out that couples have a happy sex life during pregnancy, and the children born have quick thinking, early language development and good health.
However, it is worth noting that during this period, the amount of amniotic fluid in the fetal membrane of pregnant women increased, and the tension of the fetal membrane gradually increased. The most important thing at this time is to maintain the stability of the uterus and protect the normal environment of the fetus.
If you have too much intercourse and use too much force, pressing the pregnant woman's abdomen will lead to premature rupture of the fetal membrane. The umbilical cord may also fall off from the tear and enter the vagina, or even fall off from the vagina.
This will inevitably affect the nutrition and oxygen delivery of the fetus, and even cause death or abortion.
Even if the fetal membrane is not broken and abortion does not occur, it may cause bureaucratic infection. Severe infection will kill the fetus, while mild infection will also affect the intelligence and development of the fetus.
Sexual life in the third trimester
Eight months later.
The doctor said that at this time, both husband and wife should try to reduce their sexual life. If you must have sex, you must exercise restraint, pay attention to your posture, and control the frequency and time of sex. The action should not be too rough and deep to avoid accidents.
Ten points that husbands should pay attention to.
1。 When the wife is pregnant, the teacher should be gentle, romantic, patient and considerate.
2。 Use different touching methods, such as touching his wife's abdomen, to experience the happiness of fetal movement together.
3。 When enjoying sex, try not to put the weight of your body on your wife's abdomen and breasts.
4。 Use a pillow to make your wife comfortable and try to keep it perpendicular to her body curve.
5。 While enjoying sex, you can spend more time looking for the most comfortable way.
6。 If your wife has no sexual desire, don't force her.
7。 Don't expect your wife to have an orgasm
8。 Understand the psychological and physical discomfort of the wife during pregnancy.
9。 I understand, madam. Of course, I refuse.
10。 Make self-adjustment
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