Colleague A Xin asked, this Spring Festival, she is going to go home for the New Year with her boyfriend, and she is worried about buying gifts. ...
In the history of China, the Spring Festival has always been a big day for reunion. Many people will put the great event of meeting their parents on this important day. With the approaching of the Spring Festival, many "ugly daughters-in-law" begin to feel anxious, especially the children who are not in Chaoshan go to see their parents. ...
Jia Jia was a classmate in the class next door when I was in college. One Spring Festival, she took the opportunity to take her boyfriend to Chaoshan to meet her parents.
? When I got off the high-speed train and watched the door getting closer and closer, Jiajia's boyfriend asked me if I wanted to buy something. Jia Jia didn't want her boyfriend to waste money, so she refused. As a result, Jia Jia's boyfriend only bought three or four apples on the roadside and left. ...
? Such a trip to meet parents not only made Jia Jia angry, but also made us laugh when we came back.
Jiajia's boyfriend is wonderful. In fact, whether you meet the parents of the man or the parents of the woman, the meeting ceremony is essential. Of course, it doesn't have to be expensive, but you must have a heart, because everyone is looking at a respect.
People often say that a woman is a duplicitous animal, and sometimes it is. On the surface, she said no, don't waste money, but in fact, she still hopes that you can show your respect for your parents by your actions or intentions.
Therefore, the advice to all babies is that when you meet your parents in the New Year, you must not be rude for the first time. You'd better ask your partner to help you choose a gift, because they know their parents best.
So in addition to choosing gifts, there are some customs and taboos to give to everyone.
Good things should be in pairs.
? The so-called "yes-men" will have a deeper experience in Chaoshan. Lucky money must be even, wedding gifts must be even, and things to worship god must be even ... so everyone must remember to give gifts during the Spring Festival, even if it is just a snack bag, it is best to prepare double ones.
Wish you good luck and great prosperity!
Citrus is also called "Daji" in Chaoshan. During the Spring Festival, every household in Chaoshan will put on a large plate of citrus, which means auspicious New Year. At the same time, when visiting relatives and friends during the Spring Festival, we will definitely bring a pair of big oranges to exchange with friends, which means that everyone will make a lot of money together in the new year.
I remember when I was a child, I would always pay a New Year call with a large group of friends, and then each person would have a pair of oranges in his hand. In the end, some friends' big oranges became small oranges, and some small oranges became big oranges. ...
Finally, sprinkle a wave of oranges for everyone, and wish you good luck ~