1, premature sexual injury
① The cervical tissue cells of young girls are immature and sensitive to external carcinogens and cancer-promoting substances. If the sexual partner is a carrier of cancer cells, it is easy to plant cancer cells on the immature cervical tissue of young girls through the same room.
② Sperm will produce a sperm antibody after entering the female private parts, which usually takes about 4 months to disappear. If there are many sexual partners and frequent sexual intercourse, then a variety of antibodies (foreign proteins) will be produced and enter the woman's body in a short time, thus interfering with the antibody reaction that produces sperm, so it is easy to suffer from cervical cancer.
In recent years, it has been found that the incidence of cervical cancer is related to herpes type 2 virus infection. If a sexual partner is a carrier of this virus, she will get cervical cancer through secondary infection.
④ Many pathogenic bacteria and viruses in male echinococcosis (especially human papillomavirus (HPV) causing condyloma acuminatum) repeatedly stimulate the lower reproductive tract and cervical epithelium of young women prematurely, leading to chronic cervicitis and eventually turning into cervical cancer.
The data showed that the incidence of cervical cancer among women who got married (had sex) before the age of 20 was 1.58%, and that among women who got married (had sex) after 2 1 year, it dropped to 0.37%, a difference of four times. As early as 140 years ago, it was observed that the incidence of cervical cancer in temple nuns was much lower than that of married women. This explains the relationship between cervical cancer and sexual life from another angle.
2. Girls should not use sex to fall in love.
There is a kind of girl who is willing to give her body in love, thinking that sex can enhance love. This kind of girl is worried that she can't love others at first, and then she is afraid of being abandoned after falling in love with someone. Because they care too much about each other, they are more and more forced to smile, so the psychology of men "give me everything if they love me" has become a kind of gentle charm and a tragic reason for innocent girls to "risk their lives", and the usual result is that they really "pay" and make themselves feel sad and great.
I don't know why, women in love especially like to play the role of sacrifice and dedication, just like a virgin in a ceremony, until one day, God, who accepts dedication and doesn't know whether it is good or bad, slaps her dream. Of course, she will be sad, burn the manuscript, and become seriously ill, but the greater pain is that she will not understand until she dies. Why did she give everything she could, and the other party failed her so cruelly?
No one can tell her why! Some people will say that she is too stupid, others will say that he is too bad. Perhaps these girls acquiesce for this reason, and then greet the next man with a broken heart and a lot of questions.
Then the problem started again. Apart from the question of "giving" and "not giving", there is another question: Why not "keep your mouth shut" instead of "confessing"? Now, when women face feelings, it is more practical to recognize that what they want is not necessarily what the other person wants.
An informal survey in a women's magazine shows that more than half of young women still hold the idea that "if I don't do what he wants, he will leave me", and such an idea usually leads to the final "outrageous" resentment. Because of your generosity, it may just be his Mark Six lottery ticket.
So if you are a boy, what do you think of this kind of girl? What would you do if you were a girl?
3. Adolescent girls control sexual impulses.
1, correctly understand adolescent sexual impulse
First of all, we should correctly understand the sexual impulse of adolescence from psychology. It is normal for adolescent children to have a certain degree of sexual impulse. When boys and girls enter puberty, based on physiological reasons, they will have original sexual impulses, accompanied by this pure natural sexual impulse, as well as strong sexual desire and fantasy. Due to the lack of sexual enlightenment education in traditional education in China and the embarrassment of facing parents, a large number of teenagers are unable to resolve their distress. Psychological counseling for teenagers can effectively solve this problem.
2. Master the correct concept of sharing.
At this time, the teacher can also instill some correct concepts of sharing a room with them, just as lelo, a well-known brand for men and women, said: a healthy body is the foundation of perfect sharing a room. As adolescent boys and girls, their bodies are not fully developed, so they are not suitable for sex. Only when their bodies can bear it completely can they have sex again, and then they can experience a more harmonious and beautiful roommate.
3. release energy through exercise.
Adolescent men and women are energetic, and if they vent their excess energy, they will also reduce their sexual impulse. Exercise is a good way to vent energy. Teenagers' psychological counselors suggest that teenagers can run outdoors, play ball games, swim or take a cold bath, or do some manual labor through all-round mobilization of their brains, bodies and hearts when they have sexual impulses. And proper exercise can also strengthen the body, killing two birds with one stone.
4. Solve it with empathy when you are impulsive.
Sometimes sexual impulse is caused by getting along with the opposite sex. If the two sides are talking about ambiguous topics, and the other side or themselves feel ready to move, then the direction of the topic can turn to healthy content such as work and study. Because of the change of language content, excitement will be suppressed.
5. Move to a safe environment quickly.
Some "unsafe" environments will make girls more likely to have sexual impulses, especially in romantic environments. Some specific environments are easy to create an ambiguous atmosphere. For example, when walking in the park, dim lights and flowers on the trees cause sexual impulses. At this time, you can take the initiative to go to a bright or crowded place, or find an excuse to leave, which will let the other person control his impulse.
6. Choose your friends carefully.
The so-called "near Mexico is black, near Zhu Zhechi is black". Friends with bad morals will affect your life. Away from these people, away from all kinds of troubles. Teenagers can talk about many topics when they get together. As long as they find the right topic, some embarrassment can always be avoided.
7. Try not to get along with the opposite sex alone.
Women's sexual impulses may often be caused by being alone with the opposite sex. Especially when the other person is still the object you like, it is easier. For adolescent girls, try to avoid being alone with the opposite sex.