There are reasonable contradictions and fair quarrels between husband and wife, but there will be no long-term cold war, let alone domestic violence.
3、? Parents and children have equal status and harmonious relationship. Parents have enough love and reasonable discipline for their children.
Parents are not only parents of children, but also teachers and friends of children.
5, not only provide children with food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also let children grow up healthily.
6, not only let children have a sense of dependence, but also cultivate their autonomy.
7. This is a place where children build themselves and self-esteem.
8. It is the best soil to perfect a child's mature personality.
9, it is a warm haven for children, and it will also suffocate the body material.
10, let children form their own marriage and family with confidence in the future.
John Bradshaw, an American family expert, believes that in a healthy family, people play a healthy role, and the role of parents is mainly to provide time, attention, guidance and demonstration for children.
They showed:
? How to play the role of boyfriend as a woman?
? How to play the role of a good couple?
? How to play the role of mom and dad?
? How to cultivate intimacy?
? How to be a normal and useful person?
? How to keep proper boundaries with others without doing anything beyond your role.
A healthy family can be summed up in two words, that is "harmony". Now, China advocates a harmonious society, which is made up of one family after another. Therefore, to build a harmonious society, we must first build a harmonious family. And this kind of harmonious family is closely related to a harmonious marriage.