How to learn to let go and adjust your mentality

1. Don't watch any news about him.

As a girl, I know it's hard to do. I even felt like a ghost in the days when we broke up. But suddenly I saw that he was still punching in the Weibo to ask questions normally, and it dawned on me.

Why do you treat yourself like this? Who is not a fairy?

Don't be alone, spend more time with your friends.

This is really important. My last love was so tired that I couldn't get used to it after breaking up.

I can't say what's good about each other, but it's irreplaceable. oh

I pushed my circle of friends away for him at first, but he acquiesced. But in the end, I said I shouldn't stay with him for too long.

3. Cultivate a new hobby.

Just lovelorn, I can't turn my head, so I want to count tarot cards.

4. Keep exercising.

It's funny to say. My predecessor always said that I was lazy and didn't like sports, urging me to keep fit. Who knows that after breaking up, I found out that I was better at sports. (funny)

Life is orderly, and when you are full, you won't think of each other. I sweated after exercise, and I felt I could go to sleep directly after taking a shower, which saved me too much dreaming in the middle of the night.

Give a helping hand to others

It's not that you start a new relationship as soon as you break up. Contact with the mentality of making friends, and you will find that it is really twice the result with half the effort to have a heterosexual partner during this time!