The success or failure of family education is related to parents' social status, economic level and cultural accomplishment, but it does not mean that their successful parents will certainly cultivate successful children. Below, I have compiled a 200-word review of the 2022 family education open class for everyone. I hope you like it!
On the afternoon of October 28th, 2022/KLOC-0, the large conference room in Mingde Building of experimental primary school, which can accommodate three or four hundred people, was packed. Parents were lucky enough to be invited by the school to listen to the lecture "Being a Parents Who Really Love Children" by Zhang Zhigang, a national psychological counselor, trainer and family education tutor. Parents listened attentively, interacted actively and took notes carefully, which benefited a lot.
In the lecture, Mr. Zhang conveyed the experience of family education to parents with humorous and grounded language and real parent-child communication cases. In the relaxed and happy atmosphere of two hours, I have the following insights:
1. Parents' growth is more important than their children's study.
Children are the hope of every family, so we pay more attention to children, their achievements and their daily life. It is precisely because of excessive attention that many unconscious problems are caused, and our good intentions often fail to achieve the expected results. After listening to teacher Zhang's lecture, I was enlightened. In fact, children are far better than we thought. We neglect our own growth and study, causing a certain degree of anxiety.
2. It is more important to pay attention to children's mental health and setbacks.
In daily life, pay attention to setting a good family style and example. What kind of person do you want your children to be? Do it yourself first. Be good at learning, understand the law of children's development and infiltrate positive energy. Family harmony is the guarantee of children's healthy growth. Love yourself, love your family, maintain the positive image of your spouse in front of your children, create a harmonious and happy family atmosphere, and make your children feel safe and happy. Educate children about setbacks, put an end to overindulgence, and teach them not to hurt themselves, the environment or others under any circumstances. Let children know that mistakes will be punished.
3. Learn to truly love children.
Because I know that I am merciful! There are no parents who don't love their children, but are we doing this right? Do the same thing with your child at the same time and in the same space, and have real companionship. Change your own ideas, get rid of anxiety habits, change language patterns, and strive to cultivate children with interesting minds, good health and exploratory spirit, rather than obedient children.
Parents listened to the lecture for just two hours with relish, and I was deeply impressed by many experiences. To borrow teacher Zhang Zhigang's words, "It is a virtue to make yourself happy, and it is a merit to make others happy!" Let's start from loving ourselves and being happy, be a parent who is willing to learn and grow, change ourselves from now on, improve the family environment and care for the healthy growth of children!
With the applause in the meeting room of the experimental primary school, I know that this lecture has benefited all the parents present. Of course, I also feel that I have gained a lot. I am honored to attend teacher Zhang's lecture as the parent of Class Five and Class Three. It has long been known that Mr. Zhang enjoys a high reputation in society, and it is only through personal experience that he knows that he really deserves his reputation. Next, I will talk about my experience from the following points!
Parents give different opinions on whether to hit children. Some people think that if you make a mistake, you should fight, while others think you shouldn't. Under the step-by-step analysis of teacher Zhang's reasoning with facts, I understand that hitting children is also necessary: first, hit if you are not angry; Second, we must keep the surrounding environment unified; Third, communicate with children in time after the fight, so that children know that mistakes have to bear the consequences. I deeply know how badly I used to discipline my children. I always feel that the child is my own, and I can fight if I want to. I am a parent, and my children should obey unconditionally. Finally, the child is afraid, not the child realizes his mistake. I also know that children should respond positively, and response represents concern for children, instead of ignoring him if you want to ignore him, and not responding if you are not interested, which will hurt children.
It is every parent's long-cherished wish to give their children the best love for themselves, but many times our love has become extreme love and a shackle on their growth path. When children don't like to eat green vegetables, I will yell at them, "You should supplement vitamins, and your skin will turn white after eating green vegetables." Through teacher Zhang's explanation, I know that children aged 0-6 should eat more crude fiber food. Children can promote brain development by chewing, so don't worry too much about partial eclipse. We all want our children to be filial when they grow up. Teacher Zhang told us that "filial piety" is an idea that we should instill in our children. He explained what "filial piety" is through his own personal experience. The essence of "filial piety" is to make parents unable to accept any psychological burden. We should try our best to reassure them!
"Because you know, you are compassionate." Nowadays, children generally have great learning pressure and heavy tasks. Parents also try their best to urge their children to study. Parents look at their children's homework and seem to be concerned about their children's study. Don't they know that children are very resistant to this kind of behavior? We just need to make a study plan for their children. The child's heart is pure and beautiful. Try to say something nice and kind in front of children, and don't bring negative information from the heart to children. Among family members, we should pass on the love of everyone in the family to the children, and in the place of teachers, we should pass on the love and selflessness of teachers to the children. "Companionship is the longest confession" is not that we take our children out for a day, but that they are playing with their mobile phones. It doesn't mean that our parents are lying in the hospital bed, sitting in front of them for a while, and leaving when something happens is companionship. True companionship is "doing the same thing at the same time and place". It is necessary to understand the needs of children and their voices in order to bring the most suitable love to children.
"Change in an instant, success in an instant." Looking back, I feel so ashamed of my children. When children are disobedient, they always criticize him with offensive language. Today, I realized that it was not a criticism, but an injury. Aggressive language does not bring abundant energy and enthusiasm to children, but negative destruction. For example, "If you don't practice this question a few times, you will be stupid", so why not reverse the order and replace it with "You are not stupid, but you have to practice this question several times", "Nothing can compare with others, who is as useless as you" and why not replace it with "No one can be like you! You don't have to compare everything with others. " The same set of numbers will definitely bring two completely different effects to children. Good children are boastful. We should let children know that they are the best and unique in the world, and let them have the motivation to study and live.
The pressure will be even greater after "returning the injured right to the child". It is not that a child can sit back and relax by mastering a skill. We should give them a healthy growth system, give them a frustrated heart, and let them know how to challenge themselves in a difficult environment, face difficulties, and gain a foothold in society with a positive and sunny attitude.
It is a virtue to make yourself happy, and it is also a virtue to make others happy. We still have a lot to learn. I only hope that we are all positive parents, and we will never fall behind in the growth of our parents!
Comments on the 2022 Family Education Open Class 200 words 3 After watching this video, I gained a lot. The most important point is the importance of family education.
In addition to children's study at school, family is also an important place for growth, which plays an irreplaceable and unparalleled role.
Children's puberty is between the ages of eleven or twelve and seventeen or eighteen. During this period, children are easily controlled by emotional brains. Children in this era have less room to vent. In our time, entertainment was going out with friends to pick something to eat, but going home was faced with cold electronic products. They are lonely and lack playmates. They are lost because the rare weekend is either in cram school or on the way to cram school. They are confused because they only know how to study and don't know where their sense of value lies.
Therefore, family education played a vital role during this period. We can use the cohesion of the family to make children feel the happiness and warmth of the family. Teach children how to solve difficulties in the face of pressure through preaching; Use the power of family environment to help children develop perseverance and will not be easily overwhelmed by pressure.
With regard to how to protect the family environment, the current family problems are family indifference, family violence and great changes at home. The third point is that the average family will not be satisfied. The first point is the family's indifference, parents' indifference to their children, letting them grow up in a free-range way, making them look free, but no one cares and is indifferent to their grades. The second point is violent conflict. Too much care for children by parents often backfires. Disagreement leads to conflict. In my opinion, the best way is to communicate more and preach less. Communication is two-way. Both sides can confide their feelings without reservation like intimate friends, while preaching is a unilateral lesson for parents. Children have long known what to know when they grow up, and they are tired of talking too much.
Family education and family environment are guarded by each of our parents.
Comments on 2022 Family Education Open Class 200 words 4 Every child is a treasure in the eyes of parents. We all look forward to their safe, healthy and happy growth. I have been studying, exploring and reflecting on children's education, hoping to grow, temper and mature with children. Parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first schools. Parents' manners, moral quality and family harmony are very important for children. Every time I see a child's bright smiling face and hear a child's immature voice, all my troubles and hardships are thrown outside the cloud nine.
First, pay attention to moral education and make children become popular people.
Personal character is the basis of all moral behaviors. Educating children to talk about morality should start from themselves and around them, so that they can respect their elders, love others and not bully the weak. Children should appreciate what they do right and criticize what they do wrong, so as to establish a correct view of right and wrong. Kindness, courtesy, civilization, right and wrong, and empathy should be mastered from an early age.
For example, children are a little aggressive when they are very young, like to hit people and often make other children cry. Children with strong personalities often do this. I think we must find a cure for him. One day when I came home from work, my mother came to complain that my son hit her child yesterday and stained her child's clothes. When I got home, I patiently squatted down and asked him, "Every child is the treasure of mom and dad, isn't it?" I believe he will say "yes" because I usually emphasize this point to him. He really said, "Yes." I continued: "if you are beaten by others, your parents will be very distressed and sad!" " But in the same way, you hit another child, and her parents are very distressed and sad, because she is also her parents' little baby! "At this time, he has unconsciously bowed his head and began to know that his behavior will make others sad. From then on, all the children in our area are willing to play and laugh with him, and occasionally a little conflict will soon be reconciled.
Second, cultivate independence and assertiveness, and exercise children's ability.
Children can't live under the wings of their parents all their lives. If parents want to be better than the next generation, they should let their children learn from the master. As parents, we should respect children's choices, give them the right to choose, and don't judge children by their own choices.
For example, the color of children's own clothes, when to read, draw, play and play the electronic piano several times, watch cartoons for a long time and play games for a long time, as long as they are within a reasonable range, are all decided by themselves. When children are with me, they will arrange things in an orderly way and sometimes point out my shortcomings. Maybe as parents, we should learn to be smart, learn to show weakness and give opportunities to our children. Only through repeated practice and thinking can children grow up, become independent and surpass their parents.
Third, urge children to develop good living habits, behavior habits and study habits.
Children are the embodiment of parents, and parents are their role models. Therefore, what we ask our children to do must be done by themselves first. Example is more important than words. Moreover, habits are not formed overnight. To help children persevere, persevere, and gradually develop habits. Tell him what's important and what's not. For doctors, time is life; For businessmen, time is money; For you, time is knowledge and growth. If you make good use of your time, you may thrive, but if you waste your time, you may be weak and dry. But work and rest are combined. When it's time to study, study hard. When it is time to play, you should have fun. You should have a timetable in mind. The ultimate goal of education is not to score, but to enable children to create a happy life and enjoy it.
For example, get up in the morning, wash your face, brush your teeth, fold the quilt, organize and manage your own things, and remember where to put your used things. After watching an animated film or movie, discuss with your child what educational significance or what experiences and feelings you have. When adults discuss problems, you can also express your own views and opinions. You can also point out what you think is wrong or bad for adults.
Fourth, praise and encourage more to cultivate children's self-confidence.
There is a famous educational saying: "Let every child walk with his head held high." A child's self-confidence stems from his parents' love for him. Don't be stingy with the words "I love you" and don't be shy to express them. If you love your children, your partner, your parents, you should say it. Not only that, but we should also fully trust and respect him, tap more of his advantages, scold less and tolerate more, but don't indulge; Less comparison, more encouragement; Less arrangement, more guidance; Less discouraged and more grateful. Maybe children will face life with a smile.
For example, for a while, it often rained, so I said, "It always rains, and I'm so annoyed." Unexpectedly, my son said, "I have the happiest family in the world, and it doesn't affect my mood if it rains every day."
Fifth, strengthen safety awareness education so that children can grow up healthily and safely.
There are hidden dangers everywhere in modern society, so we should cultivate children's own safety awareness during their growth. Only the happiness of children can bring happiness to families. Children should be taught to know all kinds of safety signs, traffic signs, food signs and other signs. I am also very grateful to the school for cultivating children's safety awareness in an appropriate way at an appropriate time, and teaching them some ways to seek safety and survival in dangerous times according to different growth stages and different environments.
These are some of my own important thoughts and experiences. There will be all kinds of problems in the process of children's growth, which require our parents to calmly face, rationally analyze and put forward the most suitable solutions for children.
Here, I want to thank the teachers for their hard work, their guidance and tireless teaching. Let's work together to cultivate a better next generation for our motherland.
Comments on 2022 Family Education Open Class 200 words 5 Children's education is the most concerned and confusing issue for parents. On the afternoon of October 28th, 65438/KLOC-0, the school organized a family education lecture on "Being a truly loving parent". Although it was only two hours, I fully realized the importance of family education. A child from birth to school is like a blank sheet of paper, with strong plasticity. Six years of primary school is the golden stage of children's growth. Every parent's expectation for their children is "looking forward to their children's success and their daughters' success", but this "success" is the most difficult problem. After listening to this lecture, I felt a lot, mainly as follows:
First, be a loving parent.
Before, I thought that loving children meant thinking about everything for him, dressing, eating, traveling and playing, and giving him every detail. In fact, I am not a doting mother, but I always feel that my child is still young and some minor problems are inevitable. It was not until I finished the lecture that I realized that children don't need these things. What they need is the attention of their parents and the space for their free growth. Every child has a perfect space in his heart. Don't be bad and don't think well of yourself.
Second, the importance of family education.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children are most likely to imitate their parents' words and deeds. Only by organically combining family education with school education can they receive the best educational effect. I think it's all right to send the children to school and give them to the teacher. The child has been in school for five days, so it is difficult to relax after the holiday. In these two short weekends, the good habits developed by children in school have been completely forgotten. Only when parents realize the importance of family education and take the initiative to do it well can children grow up better.
Third, parents should set an example.
Children need to develop good study and life habits, which are most influenced by their parents. For example, children are not allowed to watch TV and play games online, but parents are watching TV and playing games while children are doing their homework. What will the children think in their hearts, and can they feel the balance? Every time someone asks: Are you satisfied with your children? The most common answer is this childish way to die. On the contrary, is someone asking about your children's satisfaction with their parents? Ask yourself, what do you think the child will say? Therefore, parents should set an example and ask their children not to do it. First of all, they should not do it themselves.
Fourth, strengthen communication with children and high-quality companionship.
Be good at listening, listen to what happens to your child and chat with your child. You will find out what your child cares about, needs and desires. Children are willing to talk to their parents, and parents can learn more about their inner world. Accompanying is not you accompanying the children. You are looking at your mobile phone while the children are playing. This is nursing, not companionship. To sum up, it is: "Do the same thing with children at the same time and in the same space".
Fifth, learn to appreciate your children and improve their psychological quality.
Encourage and appreciate children more, and constantly cultivate their self-confidence, self-improvement, self-esteem and self-reliance. Point out and correct your child's shortcomings in the right way, "You can do it" and "You are great". With the encouragement of parents, children will think that I can do it. I can do it better next time, and I can get happiness and growth changes through encouragement. Pay more attention to what children say. Different sentences in the same sentence give people different feelings. This is the charm of language.
Sixth, create a good learning environment for children.
It is said that the environment changes a person, and people can also change the environment, especially for children, it is very important to have a good school environment. Only when the husband and wife are loving and the family is harmonious can the children feel the existence of love and the warmth of home, and the children can be more positive. Teacher Zhang Zhigang said: "It is a virtue to make yourself happy, and it is a public morality to make others happy". I think it's quite right. Only by letting the child feel the happiness brought by the environment will he not resist everything.
As parents, first of all, we should realize and assume the main responsibility for children's education, and we can't completely push the children to kindergarten teachers or the elderly at home. Instead, we should support and cooperate with teachers' education and various work arrangements for children, properly handle differences of opinion with parents in educating children, and coordinate the education of children between schools and families. Parents are the children's first teachers and will also be their lifelong mentors. In the process of children's growth, parents should always accompany, pay attention to, help and guide.
Adults are the target. Learning to be a man is the foundation of children, and children will benefit for life. Educate children to have a healthy psychology and personality, and never let them become knowledgeable, eccentric, indifferent to their parents, indifferent to others and society. We should regard the child as an independent person, fully respect and understand the child, and reason with him no matter how many mistakes he has made. It is necessary to respect children's nature, but also to give necessary constraints and guidance, so that children's personality can develop healthily in a benign range. Children always have to grow up, and we hope they can integrate into society healthily and happily. If they indulge their nature too much, their willfulness will inevitably lead to the lack of self-discipline, the failure of personal development and interpersonal communication, and the isolation of social life. Therefore, our parents should set an example and ask their children to be honest and trustworthy, helpful, modest and studious, and active and diligent.
Children are also our teachers. Parents should be good at learning their children's strengths. Children have many "lovely shortcomings" that adults should learn from. Such as exuberant vitality; Not conservative, good at accepting new things; Less sophisticated, sincere and straightforward to people and things. Their advantages in these aspects are worth learning from their parents. This advantage of children should be fully affirmed, encouraged and praised by parents, and should not be ignored, accused, suppressed or even stifled.
Communicate with children by words and emotions. From telling children stories at the beginning to discussing some topics in life with children in simple language, I have been trying to let children know about the society around them and distinguish between good and evil, beauty and ugliness. Although children sometimes seem to understand the truth, children are the hope of every family and the new star of the whole society. They still have a long way to go. As parents, it takes a long time to explore and try to master the appropriate educational methods. This is our little experience in the process of educating children, but there are also many shortcomings. In the days to come, we will also learn and teach, explore in practice and make continuous progress in learning, so that children can grow up healthily and happily and become excellent people.
Respect for teachers is the key. Teachers are the main body of the trinity system education of school, society and family, the engineers of human soul and the founders of children's happiness. The flowers cultivated by such a "gardener" will undoubtedly be more colorful.
We must maintain a good attitude, learn scientific educational methods, cooperate with schools and teachers, and cultivate children into healthy, happy and useful people! This is my experience of family education for young children.
2022 Family Education Open Class 200 words 7 Family labor education is an indispensable content in early childhood education, but it is easily ignored by parents. Many parents may pay more attention to their children's cultural education and skills education, but "turn a blind eye" to labor education. In our daily life, out of tolerance and love, most parents don't want their children to do housework at home, which makes children develop bad habits such as not loving labor, reaching for clothes and eating. In fact, as the first teacher of family labor education, parents should first establish a correct concept of labor education. Secondly, we should be willing to "let go", play a leading and exemplary role, and educate children to actively participate in all kinds of housework, community public welfare work and social work within their power.
By participating in individual labor, children can be trained in correct labor attitude, labor consciousness, labor ability and labor habits, better experience the happiness of labor and understand the value of labor.
I hope that parents and kindergartens can work together, act together with their peers, actively carry out labor education, promote the healthy development of children, cultivate their sound personality, and let their children grow up healthily and happily in labor.
Comments on 2022 Family Education Open Class 8 It is often heard that some parents will say to their children, "Why are you so lazy?" Do nothing! "Why are children lazy? Why do you say "other people's children"? In fact, this kind of laziness is cultivated by our parents. When we realize that children are "lazy", we have missed the best labor education period for children. Since childhood, we have attached importance to children's learning and training, artistic training and moral training, but neglected children's labor training. When children are young, we think they are still young. When they are older, we think they are too busy with all kinds of studies. Suddenly one day, we found our children doing nothing at home. We can say that even if things fall on the ground, we can walk around. Suddenly found that our education lacks the most important "labor education-gratitude education". Without cultivating children's ability to work, children's sense of responsibility is not strong, they turn a blind eye to everything and lack the spirit of struggle.
Obviously, this will have a negative impact on children's future work and life. Then if you find your child "lazy", you must take away the child's "lazy" tendons and let the child know that he is a member of the family. For example, if the home is clean and unclean, everyone needs to clean it together; Three meals a day, working together will be more delicious; Hanging clothes together can promote parent-child relationship. There are too many housework that can be done with children. You should participate with children instead of ordering them to do this and that. After a while, you will find that children have "life" in their eyes. You can take the initiative to help them do some housework that they want and can do, from "neglect" to "participation" to "initiative".
This means that children have initially established a sense of responsibility, work concept, work habits and gratitude. The fruits of labor can make children feel happy, thus exercising their self-care ability and life ability.
Comments on 2022 Family Education Open Class 200 words 9 Today, I saw the open class guided by family values for children, which benefited a lot. My biggest feeling is that family is of great significance to the value pursuit and goal of a person's future growth. The background color of parents' values is particularly important. Parents' internalized values are reflected in behavior, so that children can see and hear. This subtle influence has a far-reaching impact on children. Therefore, parents should constantly improve themselves, treat themselves well, and help their children understand the behavioral and emotional characteristics of correct values through in-depth communication. The teacher gave many examples around him. For example, after Yuan Longping's death, people's admiration and reluctance to give him up shows that the values of faith, dedication and struggle have become very common in today's society. For example, five-year-old children's obsession with Altman can also help children form correct values by discussing with them what is good and what is bad and whose behavior is supported by everyone.
Only when parents set an example and guide them correctly can the fine traditions and red values of our Chinese nation be passed down from generation to generation.
Comments on 2022 Family Education Open Class 200 words 10 Children's growth is long and short, and companionship seems to be long, but it is fleeting. Parents are the best mentors on their children's growth path. How to help children establish correct values in a long and short growth time, so as to benefit for life? Therefore, in the initial stage of children, what our parents should do is to spend more time with their teachers, cooperate with their education, grow up with their children, and turn them into caring, healthy, confident and friendly new socialist teenagers.
"If you don't accumulate steps, there will be no miles; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas. " As parents of children in the new era, we should be more aware that individual development determines the prosperity of a nation and a country. We are not only parents, but also shoulder the mission of cultivating the future. Teenagers are the builders and successors of the country.
Only with good family education can teenagers establish correct values, draw a brilliant chapter on their own life blueprint and contribute to the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation. As parents, it is our duty to raise children.