In the new era, children in China should be good children who have aspirations and dreams, love learning and labor, know how to be grateful and friendly, dare to innovate and struggle, and develop morally, intellectually, physically and artistically.
It is right to say that children in the new era are the happiest. Because they have never experienced war or suffering. However, it is right to say that children in the new era are the most tired. Because they have been passively studying various subjects at school since childhood, they are forced by their parents to learn various specialties and skills.
In the past, winter and summer vacations were the easiest time for children, but now it is the most tiring time. Because there are more cram schools, study classes and extra-long classes during the holidays than at the beginning of school, the holidays have almost become children's "sentences".
Some experts say that psychological problems may become the first "killer" threatening the health of teenagers, and parents are the most important influence force for children. Here are five ways to teach parents how to help their children relieve psychological stress:
(1) Listen carefully to your child's voice.
To help children overcome stress, we must first understand what psychological pressure children have and where the pressure comes from. So be sure to listen to your child, spend time talking face to face with your child, look at your child attentively and listen to him carefully. Only when parents are willing to give their hearts to their children will children give their hearts to their parents. In this way, you can know the real situation of children's psychological stress and help them solve problems.
(2) Cultivate children's self-esteem.
Cultivating children's self-esteem can enhance their ability to resist all kinds of bad temptations, such as asking children to make some suggestions, leaving some things suitable for their age to him to do, and paying attention to their thoughts, words and deeds. This is a good way to cultivate children's self-esteem. Children with high self-esteem will have courage, courage and discrimination, and will not agree.
(3) Help children face fear.
Sometimes children are ridiculed or even isolated because they are different from others, such as not playing truant with others, not cheating with others, smoking, copying homework and so on. At this time, parents should teach their children to stick to principles, never do anything wrong, and let them know that it is not easy not to go with the flow. This is a sign of a mature and brave person, and it is also a sign of self-determination and wisdom.