As for whether this lover will become his lifelong companion, the young man has never considered this question.
However, the ideological progress of young people does not mean that the older generation can keep up with this trendy concept.
If many old people know that a woman is not a prostitute before marriage, then this woman will be scolded for her indiscretion.
However, the older generation is particularly tolerant of men. They think that men don't need to abide by any dogma and rules in this respect.
At present, there are still many people in our country who are particularly strict with women, and their attitude towards women is even stricter in sex. Including the older generation, even most men.
Because of the progress of ideas and the opening of the country, we can't think that they are wrong, but we can only say that there are still many places in their minds that can be opened up.
0 1、
Zhang Xue, a bartender in a bar, met her first love, Trn Quang Diu.
Trn Quang Diu is a naturally romantic writer, so Zhang Xue was quickly attracted by him, and they naturally came together.
Two people are also free to fall in love together. They go about their own business and live together when they miss each other.
They talked about love for about two years, lived together for nearly a year, but did not enter the marriage hall.
Because Trn Quang Diu's parents don't agree with their marriage, the family situation of Zhang Xue and Trn Quang Diu is very different.
Trn Quang Diu's family has been a scholarly family for generations, while Zhang Xue's parents are only rural farmers, and it is precisely because of their parents' obstruction that they are also defeated by reality. Break up quickly.
Zhang Xue was in a muddle at that time, doing nothing all day and not knowing the meaning of life.
Parents saw that their daughter was so miserable that she was not young at the age of 26, so they began to help her find a blind date.
As it happens, Li Yang's parents are also worried about their son's marriage.
So both parents forced two people to go on a blind date. At that time, Zhang Xue had no meaning and goal in life.
In the process of talking with Li Yang, she felt Li Yang's enthusiasm and simplicity, more precisely, some of his characteristics, which made her feel very rare.
Because of his work, Li Yang has never been in contact with many women, so he took a fancy to Zhang Xue's temperament at a glance.
The two gradually got to know each other and their parents became closer and closer.
Because Li Yang has a house paid by his parents in the city, Li Yang's mother borrowed 80,000 yuan from relatives as a bride price. So Zhang Xue's mother formally agreed to the marriage.
Half a month later, two people entered the marriage hall.
I thought life was so happy. Unexpectedly, on the second day of their marriage, the two families broke up in discord because of their mother-in-law's obstruction.
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On their wedding night, Zhang Xue and Li Yang entered the bridal chamber early.
The next morning, as soon as they got up, Li Yang's mother slipped into their room.
Like those old women, she looked around in bed, looking for red, which is a symbol of a woman's virginity.
But she couldn't find it after searching for a long time, which made her a little angry. Then she took her son to the room and asked him the details of it.
Li Yang is also a simple and honest son. He told his mother everything and told her in detail what happened yesterday.
My mother-in-law has long realized that Zhang Xue is not the eldest daughter of Huanghua.
The mother-in-law who learned the truth was very angry and directly brought Zhang Xue, who was washing, into the room.
Seeing her mother-in-law so angry, Zhang Xue thought something had happened and was too scared to speak.
Finally, at the suggestion of her mother-in-law, she understood everything. It turned out that her mother-in-law disliked that she was not a prostitute of Dahuanghua.
However, Zhang Xue didn't take her mother-in-law's words seriously at all, and felt the seriousness of this matter, because she felt that everyone was from 2 1 century, and this kind of thing was common. Besides, her husband doesn't have much rejection of this matter.
Who would have thought that her mother-in-law was even more angry when she saw Zhang Xue's casual appearance, and directly said that Zhang Xue was a woman who cheated on marriage, and even said that Zhang Xue's family were liars.
At this time, Zhang Xue couldn't stand it. Zhang said angrily, "Why did you drag my parents into this?"
So Zhang Xue and her mother-in-law had a big fight. Li Yang, who stood by, didn't know who to help, so he could only pull them away silently.
Before Zhang learned to be angry, her mother-in-law dragged Zhang Xue and her son Li Yang downstairs, and then asked Li Yang to drive to her mother-in-law's house.
When her mother-in-law arrived at her mother-in-law's house, she was so angry that she couldn't stop asking Zhang Xue's mother to return the 80,000 yuan bride price money, and even pointed to Zhang Xue's mother to call names:
"It's shameless to have such a daughter. Fortunately, she is born now. If she had been caught in the pigsty long ago, now I will give you your shameless daughter back, and you will pay me back 80 thousand yuan. "
Zhang Xue's mother realized what had happened Li Yang's mother doesn't know her daughter's real situation, but she can't be said to be shameless.
The two men then had a big fight, and finally the two families broke up in discord, and Zhang Xue and Li Yang finally divorced.
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Many older people are filled with old ideas and customs all their lives, and it is very difficult to make her change.
Because the older generation often struggles in suffering, they have met people with more money and less money, so money is very important to them and is the lifeline for them to survive from suffering.
This is also why the older generation is stubborn.
In their eyes, marrying a wife is like trading, buying and selling. It is very uneconomical to marry a woman who is not a prostitute in Huanghua with 80 thousand yuan.
The older generation will not consider human rights, freedom and women's equality. Because there is no such equality in their society, he has never seen such equality.
But as young people in the new era, the world they live in is so beautiful that young people think these beautiful things should belong to them.
Young people enjoy all kinds of beautiful and free equality such as human rights, freedom, women's equality and sexual openness.
So these equality has become the accumulation of young people's life. Once someone deprives these rights from the world of young people, young people will stand up and stop them like the older generation.
The so-called times train a group of people. Different times have created different people, and these different people are actually the generation gap caused by different times.
It is precisely because of this that young people should guide the older generation to accept new ideas more correctly and abandon those unhealthy bad habits and feudal superstitions.
After all, today's era is the era of young people, and the era of the older generation has passed.