Personality determines fate and affects our health, so what are the bad personalities that affect our health? I brought you the bad personality that affects your health. I hope it will help you.
Depressed shy type
Studies have found that people with this personality are prone to peripheral arterial disease and have a greater chance of premature death.
There is no target type.
Research shows that people who have no goals in life are more likely to get sick and commit suicide than those who have goals, and their average life expectancy is shorter than those who have pursuits.
overpressure
Studies have shown that long-term and excessive stress will increase the risk of heart disease, hypertension, influenza and metabolic syndrome.
Weak will type
People with this personality often have poor self-control ability and are willful in everything they do. It is easy to get into bad habits such as smoking and drinking, which seriously affects their physical and mental health.
Suspicion prevention type
Suspicious and hostile people are not only easy to interpret other people's behavior as? Have ulterior motives? 、? Up to no good? And prone to heart disease.
Irritability and nervousness
People who are often in a state of high tension, constant worry and depression will die earlier than their peers.
How is a bad character formed?
First of all, ubiquitous utility
The concept instilled in children by our contemporary education is full of utilitarianism, which is everywhere. The disadvantage of utilitarian perspective is that it is often short-sighted and only sees one acre and three points in front of it. What are utilitarianism, such as: high score utilitarianism (high score makes you happy, low score makes you angry), learning utilitarianism (learning more than anything else), and money utilitarianism (using? Well done? As the only standard), the old moral utility (empty chicken soup for the soul), gender utility (preference for sons not only affects the mental health of daughters, but also hurts the mental health of sons) and so on. This society is bizarre and cluttered with information, but the family atmosphere formed by parents' words and deeds and thinking will still greatly affect children's literacy, which is most directly reflected in Chinese literacy, including Chinese expression and understanding.
Do you know the harm of excessive utilitarian indoctrination? First, it will make children afraid to speak and tell the truth, which will seriously affect their expressive ability. Second, let children observe words and feelings too much to avoid being scolded, which will greatly affect children's understanding ability. The most serious consequence of the above is to let children learn to hide and cheat, so that they lose the essence of being a man: sincerity.
Therefore, if we expect our children to roam freely in the muddy water of society, we must improve their Chinese literacy, and the shortest but most difficult way to improve their Chinese ability is to create a living atmosphere suitable for communication, exchange and thinking.
Second, the performance of bad character.
Do you know what kind of personality children will form when they grow up in a bad family atmosphere?
1, inferiority in the bones, arrogance on the surface, sensitivity in the bottom of my heart and indifference on my face.
2, very good at observing words and feelings, as if this is a natural skill.
Don't dare to tell your parents anything. No matter how much, only you have to bear it silently.
4, precocious, do not like coquetry, do not like to trouble others, afraid that others will feel that they are a burden.
5, social barriers, no matter how good the talent, no matter how many ideas will not be expressed, the world is weak, obviously very emotional but very casual.
6. Every time I go home, I wonder why I want to come back.
7. It will directly affect my love view and marriage choice.
8. From an early age, I told myself not to find a husband like my father and not to be a woman like my mother. Children grow up in quarrels, and even if they don't show it, there are always shadows in their hearts.
9. If a boyfriend finds that his family is happy, he will feel that he is not worthy of such a person.
10, the reliance in my heart is actually my classmates and friends.
1 1, afraid to get married and have children, but will divorce anyway.
12, all life truths are completely realized and discovered by themselves.
Third, you'd better be careful when you say these words.
For the sake of their own children, the straw bureau hereby advises all parents to set an example when guiding their children's life and study. Parents are the biggest role models for children, and they are the people who learn to imitate most easily and often. The level and accomplishment of parents will even determine the future height of children. At least, we should create a warm and comfortable family atmosphere for our children. When you reprimand your child with these words, Mr. Straw advises you to be cautious:
1、? Just playing mobile phone, I don't know how to learn! ?
2、? Girls still go to earn money early and read what books! ?
3、? Why did you do so badly in the exam again? It's no use! ?
4、? Don't interrupt adults, son! ?
5、? Scold you for your own good! ?
Fourth, grow up with children.
As parents of children, we should grow up with them. Please reflect on yourself: How long has it been since you read a literary masterpiece? How long has it been since you learned anything new? Is it an excuse to escape criticism or the courage to take responsibility? Will you be moved from the heart when you see the beautiful scenery? Or just content with taking pictures? In the face of unreasonable things, do you accept resignation or complain, or do you seriously think and analyze, even if you can't change it? How much time do you spend on your mobile phone every day? In the newspaper? In the teacup? In the glass? In a ball game? Chat Really? Can't change it? Bad habits? Is it useful to criticize children for making excuses for not trying hard? Busy? Make excuses? Hide? Care about children? How long has it been since we laughed? How long have we stopped growing?
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