Contentment can make people free; Contentment can make people happy; Contentment can eliminate the psychology of comparison.
As the saying goes: "people are more angry than people"; "feet are short and inches long"; "People are outside, and the sky is behind." No matter how much you beg God, no matter how much you beg the world, no matter how much you please the people you love, no one can satisfy a person's unlimited selfish desires.
If you want to have a happy and comfortable day, you can only obey your own heart, refuse to compare with others, know how to be content with what you have, and constantly restrain foolish selfish desires.
However, in real life, comparison is often everywhere.
Jobs compared with colleagues: salary, treatment, qualification, power.
Compared with neighbors in life: housing, clothes, wife, children, clothes, wife and children.
Psychological comparison: income, honor, interpersonal relationship and ability.
The ultimate goal of competition is to surpass others. Being superior means being strong, swaggering, shrugging and complacent; Those who are inferior to others are depressed and pessimistic.
The weak try their best to surpass the strong, and finally they have to endure the psychological torture of inferiority and the bitterness of comparison.
Only when you dare to challenge can you achieve something. Don't blindly compare with others, if you want to compare, treat yourself as an opponent; Compare, just compare with your own yesterday. This comparison will not be tainted with grievances.
Everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses, and we must not see the psychological imbalance of others' strengths. As everyone knows, in this world, everyone has their own unique value!
Just like human fingers, there are big and small, long and short, but they all have their own uses, and everyone is beautiful. And just like people's five senses, if they don't strive for success for anyone, none of them can complete their mission, and they will also leave a person in a helpless situation!
Whether it is positive or negative, let us know that people must have good psychological quality and see their own bright spots. We can't just treat others as scenery and treat ourselves as mud. It depends on the winners.
As the old saying goes: "Those who rise step by step have a heart; Those who strive to win in everything will have people who are squeezed.
There is a saying: "The gun shoots the first bird", "People are afraid of being famous and pigs are afraid of being strong" ... "People are stronger than themselves, and I am stronger than others."
Knowing these truths, you will no longer struggle for "comparison" and sigh for "inferiority".
Epicurus of ancient Rome said, "An unsatisfied person is unhappy, even if he is the master of the world." . Comparison is a dagger thrown at others, and it is also a sword that goes deep into one's heart, which is harmful to people.
Think that you have many gifts from God every day, think about the beauty that nature has given us, and think about the kind care and selfless help given by those kind people. What are you dissatisfied with? What's wrong with it?
Please savor happiness and happiness carefully, put aside troubles and worries, and use this medicine of contentment to completely eliminate the harmful and useless comparison psychology!