Pain is a sign that something is wrong with this relationship. Of course, every relationship has its good times and bad times. But if you are often in a state of pain, then you need to pay attention. If your needs are not met, it definitely means that this relationship is unbalanced or even unhealthy. One party simply pays and the other party simply accepts, which will gradually unbalance your relationship.
You should learn to say no in a healthy relationship. But in a bad relationship, you may not say no because you are afraid of not meeting your partner's requirements. When you talk from time to time, your partner may try to force you to give in to their demands, say something mean or hurtful, or beg you to change your mind.
Characteristics of unhealthy love relationship;
1. control and domination: one party tries to control and dominate the behavior, thoughts and emotions of the other party, regardless of the feelings and needs of the other party.
2. Prejudice and discrimination: One party holds prejudice and discrimination against the other, such as gender discrimination and racial discrimination, which may lead to inequality in love relationships.
3. Violence and abuse: Violence and abuse in love relationships include verbal attacks, physical injuries and sexual assaults, which may cause long-term physical and psychological harm to the victims.
4. Distrust and intolerance: One party lacks trust and tolerance, and is too jealous, suspicious and critical of the other party, which may lead to tension and insecurity in the love relationship.
5. Psychological dependence and oppression: One party depends on the other and feels inseparable from the other party, and the other party uses this dependence to oppress the other party, which may lead to mental health problems of the other party.