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"I before you, I didn't want to get married. After I married you, I didn't want to marry anyone else. " -Qian Zhongshu to Jiang Yang
Many people want to have a happy marriage like Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang, but the reality is not satisfactory. Most people meet people in marriage and love, so that they are disappointed with the relationship between the two sexes.
In fact, the reason why so many people fail in marriage is because they didn't really understand each other's character, personality and values before marriage, so that they were hurt by each other's nature after marriage.
There is a kind of man, when a woman gets married, it is best not to choose, and that is a lecherous man. If a woman chooses a lecherous man, she probably has both money and people.
1. lecherous men are generally ambitious and have no achievements.
Liu Yu said:
"I think the reason why so many people are always busy getting love, losing love, complaining about love and nagging about love is not only a big chemical reaction, but also because love is a drama with low cost and low entry threshold. If you want to prove yourself by doing business, creating works of art, solving scientific problems and saving endangered species ... you need too much talent, will, perseverance, resources and luck, and you only need two people and a little hormone to create a love or something that looks like love, so love has become a refuge of mediocrity. "
In men, lewdness and love can be equated in many cases. Because they are always interested in girls.
Society teaches men to stand on their own feet and focus on their careers, but many middle and lower-class men find it difficult to succeed through their own struggles, so they pin their spiritual comfort on women.
Therefore, it will cause a vicious circle.
Because they are addicted to beauty all day, they will completely lose their will to make progress and become very angry. They would call society unfair to him, and he spent his whole life in such anger.
Such a man is usually too high to be too low, looks down on low-paying jobs, and he can't reach high-paying jobs, so he will be poor in money.
When a woman marries such a man, she will suffer from poverty, not to mention. Maybe after marriage, the other person will become a soft rice man and degenerate to expect women to live.
2. A lecherous man has no true feelings and will not love.
There is no denying that there are many men in this world who don't understand love. They think that having feelings for a girl is love.
As everyone knows, it's just a good feeling for each other, barely a kind of love, not love. True love, first of all, enters the other person's heart.
A lecherous man usually regards a woman as a "plaything". When he has feelings for others, he will be kind to others. When he doesn't do this, he will immediately give them up and look for the next goal.
Such a man is not only unfaithful, but also unable to give the girl the love she wants. Every girl wants to be understood by the people she loves. A lecherous never bothered to understand a girl.
Their way of seeking love is to induce. They usually dress themselves charming and let girls rely on themselves to release their needs.
3. lecherous people are easy to lose money and cause disputes.
A lecherous man, even if he has made some achievements through his own efforts, is very easy to lose because of his human weakness. After all, there is a knife on the color prefix.
A lecherous man is easy to cheat and deal with many women, which indicates that his hard-won achievements will be wasted.
Recently, a lot of things have happened in the entertainment circle and society, but as long as we manage them a little, we can find that their similarities are nothing more than obscene.
The incidents of Fan, Huo and Ali are all because men are good-looking. If they can exercise self-discipline, life will be different.
But because of lewdness, people and money are empty. Once a woman marries such a man and can't get true love, she will suffer together.
To sum up, when looking for a man, the last thing you can find is a lecherous man. If you find a lecherous man, it's your own bad luck.
How to distinguish a lecherous man?
1. See if the other person can't live without a woman.
2. See if the other person often changes girlfriends.
3. Look at each other's love view
Marriage is very important for both men and women. It plays an important role. If you don't choose a lover before marriage, marriage will be chaotic and divorce will be difficult.
A person who can control his desires is a person who is out of low taste. Lust is nature, but excessive lust is bound to bring disaster.