First, the influence of family members.
Family relationship is the economic, emotional and cultural connection between each family member, including marriage relationship and parent-child relationship. Among them, the following four relationships will have an impact on students' mental health.
1, family members are equal
Everyone is a subject, but many parents don't think so. I think children should listen to their parents, because parents are adults and have experienced everything. What they say and do is right and irrefutable, including the treatment of our adult college students. If so, a wall will be erected between children and parents, creating a gap. Because children need democratic and equal communication, if parents are above them, then children will definitely not confide in you. Parents need a bridge of trust if they want to enter their children's psychology. Only when they are in the same position can they build a bridge of mutual trust. Respect, understanding and tolerance are the keys to open children's hearts, so that children can have a positive and healthy psychological foundation from an early age and thrive better.
2. Relationship of family members
A harmonious family, a family with a particularly harmonious relationship among parents, grandparents and relatives, has a positive impact on children. Students trained by this family have a brighter and healthier mentality and can actively face problems and difficulties. Special families, such as parents' divorce or parents' going out to work, lack education for children, and families where parents often have conflicts, have a negative impact on students. I am fragile, lonely and without sunshine, and I am prone to negative psychology when I encounter difficulties.
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The blind obedience and doting of parents and elders will help students develop a domineering, uncompromising and self-centered character. Such students are selfish, do not know how to take care of others' feelings, are difficult to integrate with teachers, classmates and people around them, and are often excluded and left out by others.
Second, the influence of family economic factors.
1, economic difficulties
Economic difficulties are a double-edged sword. If students can face it correctly, they will study harder, understand their parents' difficulties and family responsibilities, and turn it into better motivation to create their own future. If they can't face the financial difficulties positively, students may feel inferior. Economic difficulties limit their ability to improve their interest to a certain extent, suppress the normal demand for making friends, and often lead to interpersonal sensitivity, inferiority and anxiety.
2. Develop production and prosper the economy
Students trained by wealthy families are also prone to psychological problems. Some parents are busy making money, ignoring their children, and giving their children only money without companionship and love, which leads to their gloomy hearts, negative attitude towards life and hatred for society; Some parents care too much to decide their own lives and are dissatisfied. Therefore, families with better conditions must give their children better education and correct guidance from both life and emotion.
Third, the influence of family habits on students.
Because family education comes first, the habits of parents and close relatives will be taught directly to children. Through the investigation of authoritative organizations, it is found that the parents of many excellent college students are mostly people with quality, self-restraint and culture. Whether it is living habits, treating people with things, civilized manners and personality characteristics, it is better.
Parents do not swear, and children do not swear; Parents love reading, and children love reading; Parents speak politely, and children will be polite; Parents haggle over every ounce, children will be selfish, which shows the importance of family education to children, especially adult college students, which is definitely a habit that affects their lives.
Summary: As the first classroom for everyone to receive education, family exerts a subtle influence on shaping our outlook on life, values and thinking patterns. Family plays an irreplaceable role in guiding students to have a healthy psychology. Establishing a good family style and building a harmonious family are related to the healthy growth of individuals and the long-term stability of the country. Solving the current problems requires the joint efforts of families, schools and society.