Living a bright and leisurely life, educating and managing yourself are the prerequisites for success. A person's life is a process of constantly playing games with himself. Only by constantly defeating ourselves and constantly cultivating ourselves can we live a good life.
A person's deep-rooted self-discipline is: what he says must be done, what he does must be stopped, and his heart is afraid.
1 Keep your word.
Don't talk too much.
It is a skill to be eloquent, but proper silence is the great wisdom of life. Only by keeping your mouth shut and your heart closed can you cause less trouble and suffer less disasters in your life. Stop complaining.
If there is resentment in your heart, the aura around you will definitely not be smooth. Only by letting go of the obstacles in your heart and laughing at the ups and downs in the world can you live a good life. People live all their lives, and if they get it, they will lose it; There are smooth roads and bumps. Don't complain if you are unhappy, don't complain if you are frustrated, and keep a good attitude, which is the best self-discipline in your heart.
Don't act rashly.
The more impatient you are, the easier it is to speak rashly, say things you regret and swear. Irrelevant small contradictions will also erupt into uncontrollable situations. Hold back your anger, speak slowly, and leave room for any problems.
Stop at line 2.
Stop arguing
All come from the word "struggle". There are many troubles in a truly rich life. Everyone knows that it is better to fight than to fight, and giving up is to gain. Some people say: "No struggle is a great struggle; If you don't argue, no one in the world will argue with it. " Whether right or wrong, fame and fortune, or not, you can win the clouds and wind.
Stop greed.
Those who can't control their desires will eventually be destroyed by them. Only by restraining greed and contentment can we be comfortable in the world of mortals.
Arrogant, easy to make enemies with others, arrogant words and deeds often lead to jealousy. Life is a long road. Standing halfway up the mountain, you will get carried away and often fall into a trough soon. A wise man has a full grain, room temperature. Don't be conceited until you show the dew. The lower the profile, the smoother the road.
3 I am afraid.
Afraid of rules.
Rules are everywhere, regulating people's behaviors and thoughts. "Stop at the red light and go at the green light" is a common traffic rule in the world. Marking the price clearly and putting reputation first are the business rules of enterprise management. Saving lives is a professional rule followed by hospitals. Justice in law enforcement and prohibition of keeping dogs are legal rules upheld by judicial organs ... Respect for all aboveboard rules means respect for fairness and efficiency and respect for our parents.
The kindness we bear is greater than the sky, and the kindness of our parents will never be finished. If a person doesn't even care about his parents, then he loses the bottom line of being born a man. There is a saying that the attitude of the world towards you is often hidden in your attitude towards your parents. Self-knowledge is the most important thing for men, and self-control is the most important thing for men. If you don't do it, you can do it. Only with caution, caution and awe can we settle down in a complicated world.