First, cultivate children's happiness factors
The first concern every day is whether the child is healthy and happy. Get up in the morning and give the child a smile. I hope you have a good day. When the child came home from school, he smiled and asked the child, Did you have a good time today? The child will tell his parents what happened today, what he enjoyed and what he was unhappy about.
Through his description, parents can know whether he is satisfied with the current state. Then give the child some advice to help him solve the problem.
Second, communicate with each other and be a good teacher and friend for children.
Don't deliberately ask your child to develop in a certain direction, but necessary care and education are indispensable. The first thing is to learn how to communicate with each other, how to cultivate the feelings between mother and child, and how to talk to him. At the same time, you should learn to respect your child's opinion and don't underestimate him.
Sometimes children's thoughts and words will surprise us adults and we have to admit that children nowadays are really smart. Therefore, it is necessary for our parents to get close to their children's inner world, understand their voices at any time and become their closest friends.
Third, cultivate children's communicative competence.
People's life is mainly about dealing with people, otherwise you will be isolated and lead to abnormal personality. No matter how talented a person is, he can't use his skills without contacting others. So parents must work hard to train and exercise him. Children are often encouraged to speak boldly in front of others.
Every progress he made was praised and encouraged in time, and he was induced step by step to give him confidence and courage. Parents try their best to work with him on all occasions where they can exercise him, so that their children can get full exercise.
Fourth, cultivate children's interest in learning.
Interest is an important factor that affects people's actions. It can make people like doing an activity. However, some children have low interest in learning and poor self-awareness, and they have to deal with teachers and parents every day. They can put it off if they can, and try to avoid it if they can't.
For this kind of children's homework problems, parents should start with cultivating and improving their interest in learning, and find ways to change the state that children are forced to learn by adults, so that children can become active learners of "I love learning" and "I want to learn".