When reading, Zhu Ziqing's back is a must. Many years later, the figure in the article, wearing a small black hat, a big black jacket and a dark blue cotton gown, crossed the railway with oranges and climbed onto the platform, as if overlapping with someone he knew. That's father, the first person we can rely on in this world. Today is Father's Day, let's pay tribute to all fathers!
1 My father taught me to respect life.
Yun Sheng's 30-year Market Planning
I got married in May this year. In just a few weeks after marriage, my wife and I came home from work every day and were only busy with two things: cooking and washing clothes. These two things are enough to keep us busy until midnight 1 1. When I am struggling with housework, I can't help feeling that I really don't know how much effort my parents have made for our family and me over the years.
In fact, in the first 20 years of my life, I always thought that my father was not a competent father. When grandma died, our family went to the cemetery to bury her ashes. Standing behind my parents, I suddenly found that their hair began to turn white. At that moment, I suddenly felt a little worried that I would lose them one day.
My attitude towards my father changed completely last year. The 93-year-old grandmother was taken to the hospital after her third cerebral infarction. The doctor told us that grandma was hopeless. They didn't even let grandma live in the ward, but sent her directly to the observation room. In that case, my father and I reached an agreement-the hospital gave up but we didn't give up. As the old saying goes, it is easy to eat when you are sick. Grandma is in a deep coma and can't eat at all. Dad bought vegetables, cooked them in water, squeezed them into juice, ground some natural vitamin tablets and protein powder, mixed them in the vegetable juice, and fed them to grandma's mouth drop by drop with a syringe. Thanks to dad's efforts, grandma miraculously recovered. She woke up from a deep coma and began to speak. Finally, grandma can get up and finally get out of the hospital. After grandma was discharged from the hospital, my father moved to grandma's house with his 12-year-old dog to take care of her. May this year 18, my 30th birthday, I got married. Earlier, my father told my grandmother that my grandson was getting married. Grandma said, then I will give him 200 red envelopes. When my father told me this, we were all so excited that we were about to cry-how miraculous it was that grandma went from a deep coma to a clear logical thinking.
At the wedding, I told all my relatives and friends that I was very happy to be born in such a family. I learned how to be a man from my mother and respect for life from my father. I tell you, my father's not asking for anything in return has a great influence on me. Now, my heart is full of gratitude, because my dearest people, my parents and my grandmother are still healthy, which allows me to spend the rest of my life with them. This is the first time in my life to express my gratitude to my father. I think, on Father's Day, I will sit down with my father and have a good talk and share the happiness of the wedding. In the days to come, I also have many things to ask my father.
He cried, so I know how much he loves me.
Shanshan is a 20-year-old student
Dad is a very traditional person and is very strict with me. He firmly believes that any bad habits and habits can be remembered by beating me. So when I was very young, I was often beaten for biting my fingernails.
I remember when I was in junior high school, I once made an appointment with my father to meet me at the station after school. However, after class, I went to eat with my classmates. When I got home, I saw my father's face a little deformed because of anger and anxiety. He waited for me at the station for a long time, but he couldn't reach me. He thought something had happened to me. That was the last time my father hit me. Later, my father never hit me again, and even failed the senior high school entrance examination. He said, the National People's Congress, even if you do something wrong, you can't just fight.
I passed the college entrance examination in Beijing. My parents sent me to Beijing together. When I really left home to study in another city, I suddenly felt very sad and cried all the way. My parents helped me send my bedding, washbasin, thermos bottle and other luggage to the dormitory, set up my tent, packed my things and prepared to catch the train back to Shanghai at night. I took my mother's hand and sent them to the school gate. My mother kept wiping away tears and told me to eat well and wear warm clothes. There was something wrong with hearing my father's voice suddenly. Looking back, I found that his eyes were red and he choked. Probably because he didn't want me to see him like this, he pushed me to the dormitory and told me not to see him off and to call home more when I was free. This is the only time I have ever seen my father cry. At that moment, I suddenly realized how much he loved me.
I know my father cares about me very much, although every time I call home, I just say a few words and give the phone to my mother. But I know what he misses. But I forgot to call him on his birthday in May this year. Fortunately, there is also Father's Day in June. I've been thinking these days that I should send him a message or make a phone call to say something. You know, talking to dad is different from talking to mom. Too emotional to say.
3 "study with Laozi's money and don't smoke."
Tian Ye, 37, director of operations.
There is one thing that I didn't realize until long after my father died. Father is a man with a bad temper. When educating children, he always believed in killing unfilial sons with a stick. It has been a heavy blow to us. So I have been close to my mother since I was a child, but my mother said that I look like my father. I never thought I looked like my father.
I remember the day I left home to go to school in Emei. My dad and another classmate's dad went to get a bus that could take more than 40 people and sent us to the railway station. There are only four of us in the huge car, plus only five drivers. After arriving at the railway station, we met several other classmates on the same journey. When my dad saw them smoking, he took me aside and said, "You will all make money in the future. I don't care what you want to smoke. Now you study with Lao Tzu's money, but you are not allowed to smoke! " There is nothing to say, nothing to learn and nothing to take care of. After four years in college, I hardly touched cigarettes.
It was after my mother said that, I reflected on myself and found that I left a lot of father's marks on myself. Before my father retired, he didn't have many friends, especially in the unit, and his relationship with the leader was very stiff. He looks down on those who are full of bureaucratic jargon, while others think that his father is withdrawn and difficult to get along with. I'm not withdrawn, but I inherited my father's honesty. I don't like those who love bureaucratic jargon. Most importantly, my father taught me to stand on my own feet since I was a child, and I will never rely on others for what I can do. I've been doing this for years. I think this is the greatest wealth he left me?
I am a child without a father.
26-year-old Xiao lawyer
I was born in a single-parent family, and my parents divorced as long as I can remember. When I was two or three years old, I was completely ignorant. At that time, I thought the concept of home was to have a mother and a little me. The understanding of the word "dad" is that it is a kind of address for familiar adult men such as "uncle" and "uncle". In my childhood memory, this man named "Dad" would come to see me every week or two and take me out to play.
This carefree life came to an abrupt end in primary school. Once, a boy in my class exposed my "single-parent family" background and called me "a child without a father". Only then did I realize that my family is different from other children's families, and I also re-recognized the identity of the person named "Dad". However, since my mother and I are the only ones at home, I have developed the habit of independence. So, despite such a blow, I never hated the man who abandoned me and my mother. However, the desire to have a complete family began to sprout in my heart. I often find a reason for my mother to take me to dinner with my father and go to the park to play something. I drag my mother to accompany my father for two days from time to time. Teenagers don't know what love is yet, but it is obvious that mom and dad are happy when they are together. Finally, after I entered middle school, they remarried. I finally have a complete family.
Although the three of us are not rich, we finally trained me to be a college student. After going to college, the family's economic situation is even more difficult. At that time, my father's salary was only 1000 yuan a month, and my tuition was more than 5000 yuan a year. At that time, my father was particularly frugal. He divorced my mother at that time because he was young and playful. He didn't buy himself new clothes when I was in college. His only hobby is smoking, which saves me a lot.
Family relations are always equal. Like most people, I seldom say disgusting things to my father. But every time I go on a business trip, I bring him back two packs of local cigarettes. He will also remember to buy him a present on his birthday. Although nothing is valuable, my father always proudly tells others, you see, my daughter bought it for me!
Father loves nothing.
Gao Jiawen, a 32-year-old department head.
In my impression, the tall father is always unsmiling and even a little unkind. I studied early. When I entered junior high school, I was actually less than 10, and my height was only 1.29 meters. I am the shortest student in the school. Every week, there are always several lunches, and my classmates and I will go home. Every time on the way home, when a bicycle riding in the direction of home comes from behind, everyone has the cheek to ask the cyclist for a ride. Many times, my father came from behind by bike, and my classmates always said to me in surprise, "Your father is here, let's go home by car." My father will slow down when he rides beside me, but he never stops. He just said, "Be careful and go home early" and left alone. Looking at my father's distant back, I was a little resentful when I was young. My mother also questioned my father for this, and my father's answer was: "The bonsai in the greenhouse can't be the pillar."
When I grow up, I am determined to go out and "see the world". On the day of departure, father went to see me off. After the train started, I got into the gap of the crowd and waved goodbye to my father. My father followed the carriage, his face dignified, his eyes red, he hesitated, and his hands were fixed in the air. My mood is so complicated that I can't interpret my father's feelings so far.
That year, Li Chunbo's song "Letter from Home" swept the country, and I began to form the habit of writing letters to my family. My father always replies to every letter, and every reply is several pages, with ideals, pursuits and struggles written on it. He also wrote "Take care of yourself and pay attention to rest", but rarely mentioned his inner feelings.
Now, for my personal development, I choose to stay in Shanghai. Every Spring Festival, I will go home for dinner, which symbolizes reunion. And my father, always waiting for me at the intersection downstairs. Last Spring Festival, I missed my stop by train and changed trains to go home. It was already more than an hour late, and my father was still at the familiar intersection, waiting in the cold wind. At that moment, great and warm love surged in my heart, and I finally understood a sentence: father loves nothing.
Conclusion ◎
The memory of father is generally not as warm as that of mother. On your stumbling growth, he hurt you, he scolded you for crying, and he expressed his love with a solid back and strong arms. And his mood is always easy to be ignored by us. He is our father. The first person to teach you what power is. When your flower of life is in full bloom, please remember that he is still dying behind you. When you need it, even if you use up your last strength, he will be the one who insists on supporting you behind your back. Don't be embarrassed, and don't think he doesn't need it. Express your love to him on any ordinary day. You are related by blood, which is the best reason.