Take a quiz: money, career, love, family, health, and discard one of the above five words in turn.
Reorder according to what you want. The later, the more important. How would you classify it?
Actually, I've heard and seen this quiz before. However, after listening to teacher Li Lei's slow reading, I still feel restless and even want to cry. I'm curious to see your ranking.
In particular, I want to test the people who left a bad influence on me in "Evil Descent". How do they rank? So I sent this question to n communities at one time.
Everyone is talking about their ranking. They all look different.
Amazingly, many strangers on the Internet are not family in the end.
Many partners in the community finally left their families. I don't know if everyone is afraid to tell the truth because they are a little familiar. Or coincidence happens to be divided into two trends.
Anyway, this ranking doesn't matter right or wrong. Different ages and different experiences will always have different rankings. Even the same person will eventually have different answers after different situations.
In fact, this test has no standard analysis, but it can explain the characteristics of some people. Of course, your own ranking reasons are also important. After all, the deeper level of your heart should be that you know better.
So why do people have different answers?
1. Different age groups. Just like when you were 3 years old, you were probably the last person to give up candy. At the age of 30, candy is no longer the treasure you hold tightly in your hand. For example, we may not feel much about health now.
But when people are seventy or eighty years old, or lying in a hospital bed, they want to be safe all the time.
2. Different experiences and experiences. This is just like the rich families we have seen before, where children fall in love with ordinary people and don't care so much about whether the other family has money or not.
A person who needs wind and rain from an early age may be indifferent to the sensitive points of ordinary people. They don't know how hard it is to live without money.
For example, a person who has been devastated by his partner's spirit for a long time will probably avoid love in the future.
Similarly, if a person encounters a great contrast, he will have different choices. Just like why some people don't believe in love at first, they may meet a gentle and healed person and believe in love again.
Everyone's different temperament leads to different desires and obsessions. This may be related to our nature. Some people are naturally calm, while others are naturally enthusiastic.
4. Education, genetic factors and so on. Some people's ideas may be influenced by family and society. This is why our previous generation was very willing to put family last. There is a spirit of dedication.
Our generation has learned to care about the inner self and spiritual world.
My ranking: family, career, love, money and health are more important.
I put health first. Because I think with health, I can have everything else. With health, you can continue to work, get money and so on. As long as life is intact, everything else can be enjoyed.
On the contrary, without health, other things are useless. After all, life is not long. Without good health, having a family will bring troubles and debts to the family. Why bother others?
There is also a popular saying on the Internet. Health is like 1, and other accessories are like the 0 at the back. A few more zeros behind, 1 will be nothing.
The first thing I gave up was my family. Why? Because I think people are lonely. No matter how much we love our partners, parents and children, after all, life is a process of drifting away. Learn to send each other away. There is no real existence forever.
Therefore, only when you are strong can you enrich yourself and be the best state of existence.
Of course, this doesn't mean that you don't love your family. And in my ranking, the first is really myself. Because I am the real me. Only when I am good enough can I set an example for my children. Only if I am really good, I won't add chaos to my family.
It is also possible that the status of my family will not be so important because of the harm brought to me by my family. But I think this classification is understandable.
After all, only when I am in good health can I set an example for my children. Only with physical and mental health and emotional stability can we reap good love, good family atmosphere and so on.
Secondly, career and love are two things that make me struggle. Of course, it's not the most important thing anyway, haha
I think it is better to have a successful career. If not, as long as you have money, why stick to your career, haha. After all, it is very tiring to work hard alone. If you can choose to win lying down, why bother yourself?
Actually, I value love more. Pay attention to the spiritual world. It's just that if you can't get it, it's good to get a lot of money.
Look at other people's rankings. Some people's most important ranking in the end is family.
Part of it shows that the family must have given them a sense of security and happiness.
Some belong to people who will love and give.
Some people give up their careers and money first, which shows that they don't care so much about fame and fortune. But sometimes, such people are easy to get.
Some people give up love first, which means they may be more rational. Not that love is useless. Or maybe, as I said above, there are several reasons. I haven't met the right person, or there are shadows.
No matter how we choose, I hope we can live up to ourselves. It's hard to live a good life, but we still want to live happily in live high.
Ok, finally, you can leave a message to interact with your order and the reason.
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Written on June 3, 20265438+0 June 3, 20265438+0 June 3 19:30.