What is a man's unhealthy love psychology?

In life, many female friends are curious about what men are thinking and can't fathom their thoughts. Some men's love psychology is not healthy, sometimes because of their inaccurate judgment on their boyfriends, or even "it's too late to regret taking small steps." Therefore, for our healthy life, we should understand the unhealthy love psychology of men as soon as possible, communicate with these male friends more, and strive to get rid of these unhealthy psychological States as soon as possible.

Male unhealthy love psychology is introduced as follows:

First, absolute self-psychology.

This kind of man regards whether the lover he is looking for is good for his future as the only unbreakable condition. He asked his girlfriend to always show her "advantages" and bring him some benefits. Once his expectations are not met or impossible to realize, he will be furious and even think that you have failed him.

Second, logical error association.

This kind of man is usually full of association and suspicion. Generally speaking, he attaches great importance to love, but his understanding is very narrow and he is sensitive to his lover's actions. Once his girlfriend does something he can't understand or is unhappy with, he will "extrapolate" and mechanically find out the evidence that you are different from him.

3. Non-emotional transfer to psychology.

This kind of man is unsympathetic when evaluating and treating his girlfriend, instead of putting himself in the position of evaluation and understanding. Especially when his girlfriend is in trouble and needs emotional therapy, he flinches or ignores her. He can only share happiness with you, not suffer with you.

Fourth, the psychology of false contrast.

This kind of man often compares his own advantages with his girlfriend's shortcomings, or compares his girlfriend's shortcomings with others' advantages. When this kind of man starts to associate with you, he can quickly find your advantages and appreciate them, and your feelings will heat up linearly. However, if he finds that your advantages are so insignificant, he will be indifferent to you, and this indifference often makes you elusive, and even becomes a temptation, making you feel more mysterious.

Let me introduce you to the knowledge of men's unhealthy love psychology. I hope it helps you. Love in life is beautiful. If you want to have a lasting love, both men and women should sincerely help each other. Don't quarrel over trifles, communicate more, eliminate unnecessary misunderstandings, and have a good time every day is the key. I wish you all the happiness in the world.