The special bag for novice mothers is necessary, which is more suitable for being the first parenting book for novice mothers. If you can only read one parenting book, I recommend this one. Its content is very comprehensive, including most problems from the third trimester to the child's 5 years old, such as breast milk, nutrition and illness.
Sears encyclopedia of intimate parenting
From neonatal care and breastfeeding to complementary food, toilet training and sleep guidance ... this book provides parents with scientific and informative parenting knowledge. The "Intimate Parenting Method" summarized by Dr. Sears initiated a new era of parenting: it advocates carefully observing the baby's behavior, actively responding to the baby's needs, fully feeling the baby's emotions, and establishing an intimate relationship with the child as soon as possible.
Cui Yutao Parenting Encyclopedia by Cui Yutao
It is the work of Cui Yutao, a "child-rearing male god", and it is the reassurance of novice parents. It is to let novice parents learn scientific and natural parenting methods easily and systematically, without anxiety or blindness. The book contains nearly 200 functional photos and charts, nearly 500 parenting pharmacies, thousands of parenting knowledge points, and 33 special topics. 120 Dr. Cui specially reminded.
Lawrence Cohen's The Power of Game
On the one hand, the author tells us through dozens of cases that any behavior of children is expressing a reasonable inner need, but the expression is sometimes unreasonable. On the other hand, the author suggests hundreds of ways to deal with problems, the fundamental purpose of which is to remind us: communicate effectively with children.
Rosemond's "The Terrible Two Years Old"
26 knotty problems common to parents of two-year-old children. Seriously sum up the solutions to the terrible two-year-old and make mind maps to facilitate busy parents to locate and solve problems quickly. Extend the reading section, supplement the knowledge of parent-child tutoring for parents, expand their thinking, grasp the education in the golden age of two years old, and put parenting books in their pockets.
From birth to 3 years old by Burton L. White
In this book, children's first three years are divided into seven stages, and their behavior development (including language, movement, intelligence, curiosity and emotion, etc.). ), parenting methods, disease self-screening, toys suitable for children, etc. Every stage is elaborated in detail, and even the interval between two children and the struggle between children are analyzed.
The sensitive period for Sun Ruixue to capture children.
This book contains more than 200 real cases of children (0~ 10 years old) in the sensitive period. All the cases were recorded by parents or teachers, with comments from Sun Ruixue. In the history of Chinese and foreign education, this is a sensitive period of large-scale, comprehensive and in-depth exposure, a life phenomenon. It is like a golden key built after 10 years, which leads readers to understand the law of children's growth and crack the secrets of children's hearts.
Positive discipline in jane nelsen
Active discipline is a way to discipline children without punishment or connivance. Only in a cordial and firm atmosphere can children cultivate self-discipline, sense of responsibility, spirit of cooperation and their ability to solve problems, learn to master lifelong social skills and life skills, and achieve good academic results. This book is to teach you how to make children acquire this ability with positive discipline.
Steve Biddle's Raising Boys.
Instruct parents how to correctly understand the performance of boys in different growth stages and how to be a good father and mother. Steve vidal reveals all the key problems that boys face in the process of changing from children to men in simple and plain language, which provides an insurmountable book of enlightenment for novice parents.
Steve Biddle's Raising Girls.
It is praised by the new generation of parents as the first book to raise girls. The theme of this book covers the problems that girls will encounter when they grow up, including peer bullying, eating disorders, weight loss, depression, and the harm and help of the media and society to girls. The author combines her own experience in raising a daughter and expert cases to provide parents with measures and methods to avoid making her a victim.
35 things Chen Meiling's parents don't do.
Parents all over the world want their children to grow up healthily and vigorously, doing their best and making a lot of efforts. However, in the process of parenting, there are some things that can be done and some things that can't be done. And often these impossible things are easily overlooked by everyone. As a mother of three children, Chen Meiling, Ph.D. in Education, Stanford University, USA, combined theory with practice and got 35 lessons in the classification of 1 1.
"How to say that children will listen" by Mazlisch
Focusing on "how to say" and "how to listen", the author discusses and practices from six aspects: 1, helping children face their own feelings: 2, encouraging children to cooperate with us; 3. Alternative punishment methods; 4. Encourage children to stand on their own feet; 5. Appreciate children properly: 6. Release the child from the role. You can master these skills, use them flexibly and deal with all kinds of situations at any time.
Montessori's The Secret of Childhood
Maria montessori, a world-famous Italian preschool educator, is a masterpiece of lifelong practice. He has a rich Montessori education theory+educational scenes close to life+Montessori teaching aid operation manual, which combines theory with practice to fully understand Montessori education and comprehensively cover Montessori education thoughts. These thoughts have played a revolutionary role in children's education and still have advanced guiding significance for today's children's education.
Dana Suskind's The Language of Parents
When parents pin their hopes on their children's early education and work in various institutions, it is easy to ignore their role. In this book, the author systematically presents her 30-year research results: parents' language has a great influence on children's intellectual development, brain development, learning ability, emotional management ability, and even personality shaping! Instead of waiting for the child to go to school and forcing him to do well in the exam. Why don't our parents start now?
How to cultivate children's social skills
Social competence is a child's ability to solve contradictions and get along with others. People are social animals, and it is difficult for children without social skills to succeed. The "I can solve problems" method proposed by Dr. Shure focuses on teaching children the skills of conflict resolution and getting along with others. For more than 30 years, it has benefited parents and children all over the United States and many other countries.
You are the best toy for children.
You know yourself (yes, you are! ) more than any toy, it makes children like and fascinated? Children don't need intellectual toys or TV programs, they need you! What they really value is the happy time with you. They need to be valued, need to be alone with their parents, and need to establish a lifelong intimate relationship with their parents!