Is there anything more important than health?
Psychological Guide: Living in a rapidly developing society, it is difficult for us to stop and care about our physical and spiritual pursuits in order to make a living, buy a car, buy a house, get married and have children. Seeing that many white-collar workers are overwhelmed and consuming precious lives, should we slow down and examine what is more important than health? -xinli00 1.com Don't ask, tell yourself, what do you care about most now? According to most of our performances and the current pace of people's life, our thoughts have been framed and it seems that we can't control ourselves. Buying a house, buying a car, getting married and having children are our most urgent wishes at present, as if we were born to fight for this, and everything else is fake. No matter what we care about most, at least we have begun to ignore one of the most important things, that is, our physical condition and spiritual pursuit. I often see white-collar workers at a loss on the internet, and then what will happen. We look at other people's tragedies and seem to feel far away from ourselves. Think about it. Has your career surpassed your health and happiness? 65438+February 65438+June died of hemorrhagic shock due to acute gastric ulcer, a 23-year-old girl. On June 4th, 65438, she still went to work with stomachache and even severe pain. On June 5, 65438, she continued to work because she could not take time off. On June 6, 2008, I went to the hospital because I really couldn't keep going. I was diagnosed with acute gastritis. She died the next day. She is beautiful, lovely and cheerful. She works overtime for a long time, stays up late, eats dinner at 9 o'clock every night and sleeps after eating. Killing people with gastritis seems a bit exaggerated. Life is irreversible. How to treat your body exaggeratedly at ordinary times will definitely be returned to you in proportion. Maybe what killed you was gastritis. I think it is mainly caused by the long-term accumulation of unreasonable life at ordinary times. I think of a friend who works in a factory. He works in Guangzhou. It is normal to go to work until midnight when the peak season comes, and there is no time for rest and entertainment at ordinary times. He is basically sold by the factory. Holidays are a luxury for them, and they are also going out to buy daily necessities or something. My friend's family is very poor. The so-called poor children, who have been in charge for a long time, have never been to school since they graduated from junior high school, even if they want to go to school. As for me, there is plenty of money for me to study at home, but I hate reading. I feel particularly tired after reading it all the way, as if the more I learn, the more stupid I become. My friend lost the big finger of his right hand. Overtime is really helpless, and you have to deduct money for leave. He said so. That time, he caught a cold, which seemed serious, but the boss deducted more money for leave, so he took cold medicine and continued to work overtime. As we all know, in China, he is usually forced. In order not to deduct money, in order to continue to work there, he went into battle sick and lost his big finger. I don't remember what the machine was used for last time. I ate cold medicine that day, and I was very dizzy and sleepy. They accidentally cut off their fingers, and the boss paid for the medical expenses, but this incident caused a lot of inconvenience to their friends in their later lives. Don't support some jobs if you can't support them hard. After all, people are not machines. If you are sick, you should rest. If you are sick, you should take care of yourself. Life should be an attitude with hands and feet. In some things, we should dare to say no to the boss. All of us compromise with our boss and do overdraft and healthy things, so that the current boss seems to take it for granted that overtime is not paid. In order to get a raise and promotion, I overdraw my energy. Life is short, which means trampling on my health. Li Ao once said that God is in charge of both ends and I am in charge of the middle. If you can't manage it in the middle, what will you do for a living? The premise of life is not how much money there is, nor is there a saying that the saddest thing is that people die before they can spend it. The machine of society seems to have entered an era of overload operation, in other words, it is a short era, and people's hands and feet seem to be enchanted and can't wait for a moment. We care about how much money we have to earn and how many things we have to do to show how powerful we are. If a person values his career more than health and happiness, then the essence of living is to put the cart before the horse. I don't live to overdraw myself. Life is too short. Reflecting on our living conditions, I summed up all kinds of phenomena that people ignore health now. People nowadays love beauty, especially women, who have gained a little weight. Oh, that's terrible. They lose weight indiscriminately, unscientific, hungry and have a variety of diet pills. Are they hungry? They are properly eaten and exercised. It goes without saying that you stay up late and often work overtime. I won't often work overtime in my life. It is acceptable to work overtime once a month. If I don't do more, I'll resign. I can't live without people. If you are sick, you can't see it. You always wait for time before you go. You always think that a minor illness is nothing, and you always go to see a doctor when you really can't stand it. Although it is difficult and expensive to see a doctor in China, even before liberation, we have to look after the revolutionary capital. Otherwise, what can we do to make money? To experience life? In terms of attention, I don't pay attention to spirit and health, but only pay attention to making money. Man has become a machine, and the soul is gradually getting rid of his body. Lack of education, our students basically have no concept of sports, and parents and teachers do not attach importance to this aspect. They always care about their grades, don't talk to their children, and don't care about their physical condition. Whenever something happens, I always regret that my children did that ... now the boss should be more humane. The workload is heavy, so I have to take time off to deduct my salary and work overtime. We are afraid of being fired. We're afraid ... a lot anyway. The society is so fast that everyone refuses to slow down, and they dare not slow down. Even children are so fast now. Win at the starting line? What about premature delivery? What we care about, we forget the health that we really should care about. There is a saying that we in China. 99% of our medical expenses in our life were spent one year before our death, while foreign 1% medical expenses were spent in the rescue before our death, and most of them were spent in the usual inspection and maintenance. You know how to care for your car, but you don't know how to care for your body. Is the car more important than your body? Text/Zeng Heng