Help your husband become virtuous.
The wife of Bao Xuan, a Bohai man in the Western Han Dynasty, was Huan, and Bao Xuan had studied under his father. Shao Jun's father praised the student's poor family and innocence, so he married his daughter with many gifts. Bao Jue said to Shao Jun, "You grew up in a rich environment and are used to a luxurious life, but I am too poor to accept such a generous gift." Shao Jun replied, "My father asked me to marry you and serve you, because you pay attention to moral cultivation and live a simple life. I must respect your opinion. " So, Shao Jun packed all the gorgeous clothes and ornaments, put on short clothes, and pulled the deer cart with her husband and returned to her husband's home. After seeing her mother-in-law, she immediately put forward a water tank to fetch water. Her performance was greatly appreciated by Bao Xuan, and they were like a duck to water.
Loyalty to love makes it difficult for a rich wife.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Qi Jinggong wanted to marry his daughter to Yan Ying. Once, Gong Jing was drinking at Yan Ying's house, saw Yan Ying's wife and asked him, "Is this your wife?" When Yan Ying answered, Gong Jing said, "What an old and ugly wife! I have a beautiful young daughter. Let her be your wife! " Yan Ying left and replied, "My wife is old and ugly because she has lived with me for too long. It turns out that she is also young and beautiful! People should change from young to old, from beautiful to ugly. I personally experienced the change of my wife. Can I abandon my wife and accept your gift? Can you marry another beautiful young princess? Yan Ying refused Gong Jing's gift and married his ex-wife. ("Yan Zi Chun Qiu")
The same thing happened to Wei Chijingde, a general in the Tang Dynasty. Emperor Taizong said to Wei Chijingde, "I want to marry my daughter to you. Are you satisfied? " Wei Chijingde refused and said, "My wife is ugly, but we have a good relationship. As the old saying goes,' It is not easy for a rich wife to be an official', which I highly admire. I hope your majesty will not give me this great kindness. " (Romance of Sui and Tang Dynasties)
A wife married when she is poor should not be abandoned when she is rich.
Hong Song was a trusted minister of Liu Xiu, Guangwu Emperor in the early Eastern Han Dynasty. He made great contributions to the restoration of the Han Dynasty and the establishment of the Eastern Han Dynasty. Liu Xiu wants to marry his sister Princess Populus euphratica. Princess Populus euphratica also takes a fancy to Hong Song and is very willing to marry Hong Song. Liu Xiu suggested that Hong Song give up his original wife and marry the noble Princess Populus euphratica, saying that "it is normal for a rich wife to make friends easily". However, Hong Song insisted on refusing. He firmly said: "The friendship between the poor and the humble cannot be forgotten, and the wife of the dross never leaves the court." Without changing her original intention, she still spent her whole life with her original wife. Later, this story was passed down as a much-told story and became a widely used title for the original wife. Hong Song has also become a model of wealth in the history of China.
Lu You and Feng Feng
Lu You married Tang's wife when he was young, and the couple had deep feelings. However, due to the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this marriage ended in divorce. Because of the deep feelings between husband and wife, Lu You arranged a residence and went to get together from time to time. Later, my mother found that the loving couple had finally separated. After Tang remarried, he met Lu You in Shenyuan, south of Yuji Temple, and Lu You wrote a poem with deep affection, which was inscribed on the wall of Shenyuan:
Red crisp hands, Huangteng wine, Mancheng spring willow. Dong Feng Xie, who is in a bad mood, has been very depressed in recent years. No, no, no!
Spring is the same, people are empty, and tears are red and sad. Peach blossom falls, idle pool pavilion. Although Meng Shan is here, it is hard to trust Jin Shu. Mo, Mo, Mo!
Lu You's loyalty to love and the lashing of feudal ethics are beyond words, which still makes us feel memorable. The ancients were so loyal to love, which really made those who changed their minds and changed their wives ashamed today!
20 years of separation
The faithful love of Xu Teli and his wife will always be a model for the world. During the 20 years from the failure of the Great Revolution to the liberation of the whole country, the husband and wife have been separated from each other, and even haven't heard from each other for a long time. But Mr. Xu Teli has always had marital feelings in his heart. No matter studying in France, Japan, Germany, Belgium and other countries, or when he was hit by the wave of bourgeois "personality liberation", or when large and medium-sized cities in the old society were surrounded by the world of flowers and flowers, he adhered to principles and remained spotless, and always maintained a simple love for his wife.
Wedding at the time of execution
Zhou Wenyong and Chen Tiejun, the good sons and daughters of the Party, held the most "special" wedding in the world-the wedding on the execution ground in March 1928. Facing the enemy's guns and people around him, Chen Tiejun put his scarf on Zhou Wenyong who was seriously injured, and said excitedly, "Fellow citizens, in the past, for the needs of the revolution, Comrade Zhou Wenyong and I were in the same organization. We cooperated very well and had deep feelings. But for the benefit of the revolution, I forgot to talk about the affair, so I kept a pure homosexual relationship and never got married. Today, I want to announce to you that when we are about to dedicate our youth and life to the party, we will hold a wedding. Let the reactionary artillery fire be the salute of our marriage! "
Fall in love and tide over the difficulties together
Tong Mingzhou, a famous scientist in China, was branded as a reactionary academic authority during the ten-year turmoil. His wife Ye was asked to draw a line with him. Ye Yufen replied: "I know him, he is not the kind of person you said!" " After smashing the Gang of Four, someone once asked Professor Tong, "How did you survive?" He replied with a smile: "I believe that the party believes that the masses are the greatest motivation, but at home, my lover trusts me and gives me strength."
So is the famous playwright Wu Zuguang and his new love life. In the struggle against the Rightists, Wu Zuguang wore a "Rightist" hat and "exiled the army" to the Great Northern Wilderness. At that time, some people asked for a new practical action of "divorce". There is no have it both ways in New Xia Feng, but he replied categorically: "Wu Zuguang is a good man, and I will wait for him to come back ..."
Know each other and love each other
Dai Birong, 12 years old, lost his left arm and left leg to save three children playing on the rails, and was praised as "a little hero who sacrificed himself to save others". After graduating from high school, he was assigned to Zhuzhou Works Section as a receiver, and married Xiao Su of the same unit on 1982. After marriage, Xiao Su put socks and shoes on Dai Birong every day and took her downstairs to work after dinner. After work, he picked up Dai Xiao and helped her upstairs. Whenever it rains, Xiao Su will take an umbrella to pick her up. When she was in trouble, she supported Dai Xiao. Dai Xiao is also considerate and concerned about Xiao Su. Xiao Su said to Dai Xiao, "Only the beauty of the soul is eternal beauty and true beauty. Although you are physically disabled, your heart makes me think that you are cuter than some people with sound limbs. "
Love triumphs over death.
Qiao Tianlin, an orphan in Shenyang, suffered from hemophilia at the age of 25. Once the blood flows out, it is difficult to stop and it will soon be life-threatening. Liu Aiping, a laid-off woman worker suffering from gastric cancer, heard Qiao Tianlin's story on the radio. She braved the heavy snow and came to Liaoning People's Broadcasting Station to ask Qiao Tianlin's home address.
The small bungalow where Qiao Tianlin lives is on the edge of the railway, low and humid. Liu Aiping went in to explain his purpose and helped him make a fire to cook. Kindness always goes hand in hand. They slowly fell in love.
The wedding took place quietly. There is no such lively scene, and there is no such warm atmosphere. However, they are immersed in sweet happiness.
Qiao Tianlin's health is in a state of periodic ups and downs. For months, he needed to go to the hospital to get fresh blood. In order not to let Qiao Tianlin get hurt and cut his skin, Liu Aiping wouldn't let him use a kitchen knife, while Qiao Tianlin cooked an extra digestible meal to make Liu Aiping eat better. He wrote her poems and she sang to him. Accompanied by love, two people strangely gradually recovered. Eight years later, love triumphed over death.
No one can touch you
Einstein is a world-famous scholar, but his wife, mileva Einstein, is a lame woman. When Einstein put forward the special theory of relativity, most people were skeptical, and many famous scholars also lashed out at Einstein and his theory. Mileva understood her husband's career and thought it was great. She said to her husband, "honey, your theory is right." Let others talk. " Later, Einstein was persecuted by fascism and sentenced to death in his absence, so they had to move to the United States. Mileva, who was considerate of her husband, said to her husband, "Dear, let them sentence you to death. Study you and no one can touch you. " With the encouragement and support of his wife, Einstein devoted himself to his own career and achieved outstanding scientific research results.
Mr. and Mrs. Bell who help each other
Bell is a world-famous scientist and telephone inventor. He loves music and devoted his life to acoustic research. But his beloved wife Michelle is deaf. In order to take care of his wife, he undertook all the housework, refused many banquets from his friends, sought medical treatment for his wife everywhere, and painstakingly taught her gestures and sign language. In order to let her husband concentrate on the career he loves, the wife also does her best. 1876, 10 In March, when the world's first telephone came out, Bell said affectionately, "I taught my wife how to' understand' others, but she taught me to understand and treat life correctly, which made me feel the best things in life."
Suffering and loyalty.
Yan Ni was born in a noble family in Prussia, with outstanding talent and charming appearance. Yan Ni's parents hope to find a son-in-law from a wealthy family. However, Yan Ni fell in love with his boyhood friend Marx, who was born in an ordinary lawyer family with lofty aspirations. Her parents strongly opposed it, but Yan Ni would rather die than give up her lover for love. When Marx was persecuted by the reactionary government in 1843, he was dismissed as the editor-in-chief of Rheinische Zeitung and forced to go into exile, Yan Ni resolutely married Marx. After marriage, she lived an extremely difficult life in exile and faced a severe test politically, but she and her husband were always in trouble.
Marx's daughter once recalled: "If I say there is no Yan Ni, then Karl Marx is not Marx. This is not an exaggeration. "
Judge a person by his appearance and discredit a talent.
Pushkin, known as the "father of Russian literature", met Natalya, the first beauty in Moscow, and was soon fascinated by her beauty and charm. Finally, Natalia became his wife. On the wedding day, Pushkin cheered excitedly: "I was born again!" " However, married life let him down. Natalya endlessly asked her husband to accompany her to eat and dance, and the spark of Pushkin's creation was extinguished. Pushkin once said painfully to his friend, "I don't have the necessary writing conditions." I mix in society, and my wife is very generous-I need money, but making money depends on books, and books need a quiet life. "Later, a noble hooked up with Natalya, and Pushkin finally fought with this noble with humiliating impulse and was unfortunately shot.