1. Family harmony. A good family environment can make children feel the true love between family ties. Respect the old and love the young, and get along on an equal footing. Children can feel safe. No matter how the external environment changes, children have a warm home in their hearts. Parents should be honest in three aspects. Some wrong ideas are often harmful to children. When children grow up, they will hurt their children along the path of their parents. For example, "reading is useless", "dutiful son is born under a stick" and so on.
2. Pay attention to parent-child communication and improve communication quality. Establishing a harmonious parent-child relationship is the basis of creating a good family psychological environment and an important guarantee for the success of family education. Parent-child communication is an important part of family life and one of the main ways to establish a harmonious parent-child relationship. Listen to your child, not only in your ears, but also in your actions and in your heart. For example, when communicating with children, lean forward slightly and make warm and supportive eye contact. Children can feel their parents' attention and are more willing to talk to their parents. Parents should insist on discussing problems with their children in a democratic and equal way, respect their wishes, and be "non-judgmental, non-interventionist and non-paranoid" towards their children, that is, don't directly evaluate their right and wrong, don't overprotect and interfere with their children, and don't think that their children must listen to their own words. In this way, the quality of parent-child communication will be steadily improved, and the family psychological environment and atmosphere will be more harmonious.
Don't involve the children in this quarrel. There is an old saying in China: Everything is fine at home. Children grow up in a family environment where their parents quarrel. If both parents can't handle it well, it will easily affect their mental health. We are used to involving children in the war between ourselves and the other half, and children become mediators of parents. In fact, this is because parents can't be responsible for their feelings, so let their children help share their emotions, instead of respecting their children as independent individuals.
4. Give children room to think. It is very important to create enough thinking space for children. Children have their own way of thinking, independent views and original opinions. Although naive, it is really the initial stage of their quick thinking. As parents, we should respect children's ideas, logic and imagination. Children's understanding and imagination of things in different exploration activities have their own theories, methods and logical combinations, although they often do not conform to the logical thinking of synthetic people.