When it comes to Lang Ping, most people have the image of a "strong woman". As a volleyball player, she is the best among Asian volleyball players and is known as the "iron hammer". As a women's volleyball coach, she is "the best coach in the world". However, she is still a gentle and intelligent woman. She crossed her feelings twice, and the third time she met him unexpectedly in fate.
Passionate emotion, rational ending.
Lang Ping first fell in love when she was an athlete. At that time, Lang Ping was still a young girl. She devoted all her energy to volleyball and trained for her favorite volleyball career every day. At this time, she came into contact with the first man she liked, the first husband, Bai Fan.
Two people who are both volleyball players have countless words, and there are endless words every day. Because most of their training time is occupied, so as long as Lang Ping and Bai Fan are free, they are always intimate and whispering together. When sitting on the bus, whispering, even reporters can't get in a word.
The two people are not only similar in identity, but also very close in emotion, so they want to support each other and keep going. So Lang Ping's passionate first love naturally embarked on the road of marriage. 1986, Lang Ping and Bai Fan held a grand wedding in Beijing Hotel. This feeling has also been blessed by countless people.
The following year, Lang Ping and her husband Bai Fan flew to the United States to study. At that time, they didn't have much money in their pockets At first, the poor two could only eat cheap sandwiches every day. At first, he was able to persist, but the high tuition made Lang Ping in a dilemma, prompting Lang Ping to play in Italy to earn tuition.
This experience has not been smooth sailing. Although he succeeded in making money, Lang Ping's old injury recurred. This relapse made Lang Ping start to think about his present life. She didn't want to leave everything behind in order to earn money, so Lang Ping decisively left the well-paid Italian team and returned to the United States and her family.
After returning to the United States, the two continued to live their own lives. It was during this period that Lang Ping and Bai Fan had the crystallization of their love, and their daughter Bai Lang. However, unfortunately, the relationship between the two is not so smooth. The eight-year marriage life of gathering less and leaving more did not sublimate their feelings, but gradually became dull.
Lang Ping said: "What seems unconscious is actually an unpleasant accumulation. Is trivial, trivial. It is meaningless to investigate who is right and who is wrong. " Under such circumstances, Lang Ping received a notice from the State Sports Commission to return to coach 1995 women's volleyball team. After hesitation, Lang Ping finally chose to be a coach and bid farewell to his marriage.
After consultation with Bai Fan, the two divorced in the United States, and they each had half custody of their daughter. In fact, they still maintained a friendly friendship after breaking up. They just broke up rationally and peacefully, and now they have their own happy life.
A short-lived relationship with no results.
Although the first marriage ended in regret, there was new hope. Considering this, Lang Ping is optimistic about his life. In fact, in the long years after the divorce, Lang Ping once met the right person and had a love affair. That is a professor of political economy. Lang Ping met the professor by chance during his stay in the United States. He loves sports very much, so he is quite speculative with Lang Ping, and both sides have a good impression on each other. So Lang Ping started her second love affair.
But it didn't last long, and this relationship ended because Lang Ping returned to China to teach. At that time, Lang Ping hoped that the other party could wait for her for two years, but the professor refused. In this regard, Lang Ping said: "I don't think I can wait for two years. Can I live forever? " Rational and wise Lang Ping knows that a man who can't wait for her for two years is definitely not the one who will accompany her for a lifetime.
Finally meet your soul mate.
After a brief love affair, Lang Ping didn't meet a man who could be entrusted for life until 20 13. But at the age of 56, as Zhang Ailing said, Lang Ping "happened to catch up" with the right person and walked into the marriage hall with him. In 20 13, the appearance of a gentleman changed Lang Ping's life, and that professor named Wang Yucheng from China Academy of Social Sciences entered Lang Ping's heart.
This introverted, steady and mature professor has given Lang Ping a shoulder full of tolerance and dependence. Lang Ping said, "I have just returned to China to teach, and I am under great pressure. Teacher Wang gave me a lot of ways to decompress and helped me a lot. "
Different from his early years, Lang Ping and Wang Yucheng were full of mutual understanding and tolerance, which may be the reason why Lang Ping finally chose Wang Yucheng. He is a safe haven for Lang Ping. He is the only one who can let Lang Ping off the burden and rely on him. He won't do anything tough, just silently accompany and protect Lang Ping.
Every stressful night, Wang Yucheng will try his best to appease Lang Ping; No matter where Lang Ping goes, Wang Yucheng will be behind her and help her as her pillar ... which makes Lang Ping infinitely grateful.
Wang Yucheng's companionship and guardianship aroused the tenderness of this powerful women's volleyball coach, so that she can confidently announce to everyone that she has found a partner who can spend her life together. It is this sentence full of infinite happiness: "I found my soul mate in life and a shoulder to lean on forever."
After several years of marriage, Wang Yucheng took care of Lang Ping from beginning to end. Going to the United States for surgery, Wang Yucheng will always accompany Lang Ping even after work. When Lang Ping coached the China women's volleyball team, he always followed Lang Ping, silently supported her behind her back, gave Lang Ping wordless encouragement, and made her fight wholeheartedly for the China women's volleyball team to return to the top.
Although Lang Ping experienced three relationships and it took many years to meet Wang Yucheng, Lang Ping's happy life now is enough to make people feel heartfelt joy and blessing for her.
From these three love lives of Lang Ping, we can see the gentleness and wisdom of this strong woman. Treating life and feelings, she will always have a ruler in her heart, and she will not abandon her health for money; In the face of unsustainable marriage, she will give up decisively, which is her unique wisdom in life.
As for the person she loves, in the face of life, she can try her best to be a good wife and mother and try her best to make herself and the person she loves happy. This is Lang Ping's inner tenderness, her love for life and herself.