One thing needs special attention, that is, you can't rush or force, respect the baby's rhythm, give priority to encouragement, and punish and complain less. Don't compare with other people's children, and worry about your baby when you see others give up diapers. Every child has his own rules. As long as it is at the right time, there is no need to worry.
When my baby was almost two years old, I began to tell him a picture book story about going to the toilet, instilling in him that when he grew up, he didn't have to wear diapers, and he had to learn to pee in the small toilet. Let him learn from the little master in the picture book.
Then I will help him choose a suitable small toilet, but I didn't choose those cute animal shapes or anything. After all, it takes determination to pee, and the pony barrel in kindergarten is not so cute. I chose the regular one, but the color will be brighter and attract the baby's attention.
At the beginning of training, when the baby was wearing pull-up pants, I observed that he had signs of peeing, so I would let him take off his pull-up pants and pee in the pony barrel. At first, the baby didn't adapt. After a few days, he resisted. He doesn't want to use the toilet, and the smell on the pony bucket can't be pulled out. At this time, I realized that my anxiety might affect my baby, which was a bit extreme. So I began to slow down the pace of training. Because it is a male treasure, I let my father take part in the training. Let dad take the baby to the toilet together. 2-year-old children like to imitate and imitate the actions of adults. Let him feel that this is an interesting thing and symbolizes his growth. Then praise him every time he tries to go to the toilet, especially when he can go to the toilet successfully, reward him, praise him and make him proud, so that he will have the motivation to persist.
After getting used to it for a week, I stopped wearing diapers for my baby. And observe the time when the baby urinates. Time is running out, ask him if he wants to pee, or remind him to tell his mother or go to the pony barrel to pee himself. But don't force it. After giving up diapers for about half a month, the baby can go to the toilet by himself, and the whole process is very smooth.
Summarize a few points:
1, respect children's wishes, only guide, not force, not urge.
2, picture book story guidance, personal demonstration, let the baby imitate. The female treasure is the mother's demonstration and the male treasure is the father's demonstration.
3. Prepare tools and articles suitable for the baby to go to the toilet independently, so that the baby can go to the toilet conveniently and comfortably.
4. When you train your baby to go to the toilet, you should provide him with underwear that is convenient to take off and put on.
5. Praise and celebrate the baby's success in going to the toilet independently every time.
6, be patient, don't complain about the baby wetting his pants or not using a small toilet.
Picture books about going to the toilet are:
Scratching series "I want to poop"
I can do it.
The story of the toilet
My little toilet
Who's on my head?
"Baba" of Bear Series
"Baba" of Piggy Webby Series
Mom, I want to do it myself-poop and wipe my ass
I can shit.
Gollum, poop.
Well, I'm taking a shit.
etc