1) Most people actually want a son (especially the first child) before they know the sex of the child. But my wife gave birth to a daughter, and she was a little lost. But everyone is born, so naturally you have to accept the reality and adjust your mood. You will always be your own child, so you still like it. In order to prove that you like your daughter, you will say something extra to reassure your wife, make your daughter happy and make people around you feel that you are not unhappy. So there was the first wave of public opinion that "I like my daughter".
2) What about those who gave birth to sons? I am secretly happy, but I can't always show off and hate it. Therefore, it is necessary to say something comforting to those who give birth to daughters, such as "A good daughter is a little cotton-padded jacket for parents" and "A little burden for a daughter". At this point, public opinion has a second wave of "like daughter" remarks.
3) Many childless young women don't like the idea of son preference and want to clear their daughters' names. It is also promoting the public opinion that "I like my daughter".
Actually, do you like sons or daughters? You go to the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital to observe whether the parents of boys or girls have high happiness values. Political correctness is not as good as inner true reaction.
Fake love. I am a mother who gave birth to a son, and I have wanted a son since I was pregnant. During the pregnancy test, my friend told me that it might be a girl, not to mention how lost.
Although there is a sense of loss, it does not affect the love for children. Once you have life in your body, that kind of kinship will not change because of gender.
When the baby was born and the doctor told me it was a son, all the pain disappeared. There is only joy in my heart, joy from my heart.
Looking back now, I am still full of joy.
So it's a bit hypocritical to say that a daughter doesn't want a son. After all, since our ancestors, we have a tradition of favoring sons over daughters.
Pure personal opinion
People nowadays like women, not sons. Personally, it is a false proposition. This is just the idea that most parents use to escape all kinds of pressures in the real society!
Nowadays, with the rapid development of science and technology, the living standard is constantly improving, the social rhythm is accelerating, the living requirements are high, the competition in all walks of life is fierce, and people's pressure is increasing. As the pillar of the family in the eyes of the secular, although we now advocate equality between men and women, it is still men who can hold up a day when something goes wrong. Men are the solid backing of women, children and families! People say that "men are bitter and men are tired"! Some people say that men with families are happy, but how many people can understand how hard it is for men to support their families! Grow up! Men are doomed to bear, work hard and struggle from birth. They were taught from an early age to be men, to take responsibility, and men should be like men if they don't cry ... Finally, they struggled from boys to men and became the pillars of the family in people's eyes. However, a family needs to pay too much, especially in economy, from birth to training a man as a pillar. When a boy gets married, he may spend most of his family's financial resources, which makes many family conditions generally awkward.
Compared with boys, girls should be relaxed, not too hard, and find a suitable marriage when they reach school age. Boys are different. They should have the ability to get married and start a family, and they should be self-reliant for a long time. Having a daughter may be easier to raise, obedient and filial, and be a close-fitting cotton-padded jacket for parents.
In fact, personally, it doesn't matter whether it is really a boy or a girl. They are all their own flesh and blood. They are safe when they come, and there is no difference in preference. It is an important responsibility of parents to strive to provide their children with the best life and education, to bring up their children and to become a useful person who has contributed to the family and even the country and society!
The above only represents personal views. If you have different opinions, please leave a message for discussion.
Why do people nowadays like their daughters rather than their sons?
People in our region generally think that it is CCB to have a son and China Merchants Bank to have a daughter. This is the reason why people nowadays like their daughters rather than their sons.
To have a son, we must first train him to go to school and find a job. When you reach adulthood, you have to prepare a wedding room and a bride price for him. Work hard to earn money for my son. By the time he gets married, you will be old. If you have a wonderful old age and don't need your son to support you, you are lucky.
China Construction Bank, if you want to invest in your son, it is hard to predict whether you can get a return in the future.
Having a daughter is different. If your daughter has a high face value, you don't have to read too many books. When you reach a certain age, find a young man in Gao Fushuai and give her a dowry to complete the task. In addition, you can also order a bride price. China Merchants Bank does not need you to invest abroad for domestic investment. Moreover, daughters nowadays are very filial to their parents. So, that's why people like their daughters.
However, I feel that when I am old, I still have a son's back.
In short, whether you have a son or a daughter, you have to pay first. Then, whether you can get a reward depends on whether your fate is good or bad. Personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.
This question is a bit biased and everyone likes it. In the old concept of carrying on the family line, son preference is more common. Nowadays, the cost of raising children is high, and it is difficult to have more boys. If you already have a boy, the second child is the most anticipated. Raising a girl is the most affordable, and the wedding bride price makes a lot of money. Instead of buying a house or a car, my parents bled dry. Daughter's parents have small cotton-padded jackets, which are intimate, practical and warm. It used to be the most distressing thing to have no children, but now it is the most regrettable thing to have no women. Equality between men and women should not be biased. It is natural to have boys and girls. The moon is full of rain and shine, and everything in the world is hard to be perfect. Don't worry about a single product, both children are happier. The old and the new, the new, both boys and girls like it.
Now people's ideas have changed, men and women are equal, and so is having children. In the past, boys were preferred to girls, and the old ideas were serious. The son was born to carry on the family line, the incense flourished and the family developed.
With the rapid development of the times, especially in today's era, people are very realistic. When they have a son and grow up, they will buy a house and a car when they get married, and they will also pay a bride price. The economic pressure is too great for the average working class to bear.
Having a daughter is very different. When you grow up and get married, you don't have to buy a house or a car, but you can also receive a bride price, which is much lower. In addition, it is much easier for children to have surnames now that the state has opened the second child policy.
So people nowadays, on the other hand, like to have daughters, and daughters are parents' close-fitting cotton-padded jackets, which are even more valuable.
Both boys and girls like it, and they are their parents' own flesh and blood. They all hope their children can grow up healthily and happily! Having a long-term dream is the greatest wish of all parents.
Some parents think that raising a boy is stressful, and it takes a lot of effort to marry a daughter-in-law, buy a house, buy a car and educate. The pressure on girls is relatively small, and girls are obedient and caring. This may give the impression that everyone likes his daughter but not his son.
In the last century, old people preferred boys to girls, and raised children to prevent old age. Now people's minds have changed, so has the adoption of children. Judging from the current society and the surrounding phenomena, rich people like to have sons, and those who have no money like to have daughters, or because of the pressure of life.
In fact, children are all the same, family education is the key, and good education and training are needed to become adults again! This is the responsibility and responsibility of parents and the result that all parents want.
In short, no matter how to adopt a child or a daughter, each has its own advantages. They were destined to come to this family. We should love them well, the palms of our hands are full of meat, and a bowl of water must be flat.
As a parent, you have to pay first, and then you can get the corresponding reward.
I am over sixty years old. After struggling for most of my life, I finally bought a house for my son and married a daughter-in-law in Zhengzhou, which made my hanging heart fall to the ground. The year before last, my daughter-in-law gave birth to a big fat boy. How happy I am! The word "tears in my eyes" is not too extravagant for me. I really want to laugh when I sleep at night. Although I was very happy, my daughter-in-law just found out that she had given birth to a boy, and tears in her eyes fell like broken beads. I am so happy that I want to shed tears, but my daughter-in-law is sad to shed tears. Why are you sad? I guess it's close in my heart.
I have a pair of children. When my daughter got married, I only took a wedding dress of 40 thousand to 50 thousand. My son cannot get married. It is not enough to buy a house in the city, get engaged, and take out all your hard-earned savings for most of your life. It's really a heavy burden. What about my old age? I am a rural hukou. What about the expenses of eating and drinking in Lazar after that? Alas! I will do it again until I can't do it after seventy. Nowadays, the pressure of young people living in the city is too great. The high mortgage is several thousand yuan a month, the living expenses for eating and drinking Lazar are several thousand yuan, the children's diapers, milk powder are several thousand yuan, and driving care and burning engine oil are several thousand yuan. You must scrimp and save to live. In the future, when children grow up, education, buying a house, getting engaged and getting married will all cost sky-high prices. How difficult it is to live a full life!
Do people like their daughters nowadays? I think it's just that they don't value boys as much as before. Daughters with children like it, and sons with children like it. Many families still want one son to have two children. If they have two daughters, they say they like them very much. But I don't think so in my heart,
I like my son rather than me. Prefer boys to girls? And I like lively people, married women, spilled water? My son will always be an important member of this family. Add two grandchildren to the family after marriage. Think about how busy it is at home. Although the pressure on a son is a little greater than that on his daughter when he grows up, there is little pressure to train a talent in this field. On the contrary, the older he gets, the happier he is. The atmosphere in the crowded family is much better than that of his daughter. If a daughter doesn't marry well when she grows up, she can't honor her parents, and she is lonely when she is old.