However, in this process, many problems will be encountered. When a child makes some mistakes, some parents may criticize and reason with him, while others confirm that it is impossible to succeed without fighting, so different people have different views and practices. After listening to "A girl in my family has grown up", I have a new view on children's education. We really hope that children can understand that everything we do is for their own good. When children make mistakes in the future, we will tell them what is right and what is wrong until they grow up and mature. Whether arranging children to attend cram schools or other things, we should solicit their ideas, cheer for them when they succeed, and encourage them to stand up when they encounter setbacks until they can correctly distinguish right from wrong and make the right choice. Let's make a good start for them on the road of life. I hope they can educate them to be noble and educated people in the future. Create your own blue sky in a down-to-earth manner. Use your wisdom to repay the motherland. You can also be filial to your parents, never forget your teacher's kindness, and thank all those who have helped them. Wang Leyan's parents-in the eyes of children and others, I may be a fierce, strict and even harsh father. My child will be 15 years old this year. I don't know what I have done for him, and I don't know what hope I have for him ... Sometimes I am very strict or even cruel to my children, sometimes I talk and laugh like a buddy, and sometimes even my children don't know what's going on. I hope that children can learn to distinguish right from wrong, what to do and what not to do, and have a good outlook on life. Therefore, I have the following ideas about children's education: First, we should learn to distinguish right from wrong, do what is right and wrong, strictly educate what is right and wrong, and even force changes to prevent them from developing freely and abnormally. Second, we should learn to love labor from an early age, take an active part in labor, cherish the fruits of labor and not waste them. Third, from primary school to high school, try to learn all subjects well and lay a good foundation for learning. Fourth, after high school, follow your own life path according to your hobbies, specialties, social relations, family background and opportunities. At least it should be basic until high school. No matter where they develop in the future, it is only the minimum foundation. I hope that children can work hard to lay this foundation and pave the way for future study. I don't necessarily want my child to be outstanding in the future, but I hope he will be physically and mentally healthy, positive, enterprising, pursuing, caring for his family, making contributions to society and the country in the future. Li Yunfei's parents-children are the hope of every family, and every parent wants their children to become talents. If there is a child with both ability and political integrity and excellent academic performance, it is the pride of every parent. Therefore, educating children well is the most concerned thing for every parent. But as for how to educate, it is a nerve-racking problem. Children are playful and rebellious by nature. However, sometimes playing is not necessarily a bad thing. While playing, they may learn a lot. If they are forced to study or do something, they may not reach their expected hopes. I think no matter what they want to learn, they should cultivate their interest first. In fact, just because some children don't study well doesn't mean they are stupid, let alone scold him. They should be forced to perform their duties or laugh at him. Actually, I haven't found his good points yet. Nowadays, children have a strong self-esteem, praise their own advantages in time, encourage him more, and give him more confidence. I believe that children are smart, but they all belong to donkeys. Of course, shortcomings should also be pointed out and corrected, but we should not leave him some face in front of others. If we scold him loudly on any occasion, he will be disgusted by the injury. Liu Huanhuan's parents-my way of education is very serious. There are several ways to discipline children: first, children come home from school and finish the homework assigned by the teacher; Second, read books at home. There are some magazines. We should cultivate the good habit of self-study. Sometimes we do housework. After work, we will teach children how to study. My son is sometimes disobedient. He is very strict with his children. Sometimes I am disobedient and like to go out to play. I hope my son can go to college, listen to the teacher at school, and be strictly disciplined at home and at school. At school, he will study hard, but not. Ma Wanli's parents-"If you are poor, you will change your mind", and their parents have the same mind. They all want their children to get ahead and become useful talents to society in the future. But how can my children be so different? If you don't listen to adults, you will have no specialties and hobbies! What does he like? I am very supportive and concerned, but he is so disappointed in everyone that I said he wouldn't listen. How should I educate him? He is getting more and more presumptuous. After reading this article, I want him to change. ? In our happy family, every child won't worry me too much. At present, only the youngest daughter is still at school. Although he is not very clever and not very good at his studies, he never caused me any trouble during his school days. I didn't praise my daughter when she got good grades in the exam. I didn't criticize her from Thailand when her grades were not good. I just told him that he would do well in the exam next time. Zhao Qiong's parents-Today, I heard my daughter read the text "There is a girl growing up in my family", which made me know that educating my daughter is a difficult problem. However, our daughter sometimes doesn't understand us: take eating as an example, he can't finish every meal, and sometimes he yells at us. However, he doesn't know how much to eat. Growing up is his business. If this happens, it will cause malnutrition and many bad habits. In fact, sometimes we go a little too far and force him to do something, but it's all to educate him and make him self-reliant. My daughter is rude and unreasonable, which is far from my ideal. After all, he is still self-motivated and our good daughter, so that we don't know the way and always feel that there is a dutiful son under the stick, but in the wrong way. Parents and friends, in the last paragraph, said very well. Their life is actually like a bonsai. We should carefully design, cultivate and cut them. Therefore, we should also give children some space to grow up well. What we have to do is to fertilize, cut them down and find a good way to make them grow into towering trees and form lush forests. Jia's parents-how time flies! In a blink of an eye, their children have already gone to middle school. In order to give children a bright future, they are strictly required to study. However, as they grow up day by day, their achievements in reality are not ideal. Now I gnaw at him every day and go out early and come back late. Even if his study is not so ideal, there is nothing to say. I hope he can find the knack of learning in such a superior learning environment and work hard for his future! Wang First of all, I didn't finish primary school, but I often remind my daughter not to be uneducated like her father. But I often remind my daughter that when there are any more problems, she should learn to face them by herself, ask more teachers or classmates, friends and relatives who are better educated than herself ... If she is educated, as a child, there will be no bad behavior in society, at school and at home, and she should not say in her heart how to educate him. How to cultivate him depends on his current psychological thinking and his liking to learn from him, which will have characteristics in the future. Xiong Beiqin-There is really nothing I can do to educate children. Just teaching blindly. There is no way, and there is no way. Fortunately, the children at home are very obedient. Otherwise I really can't help them. Some parents always remember to yell at their children for being naughty, and I sometimes do, but in fact, I will regret my children after I pay them. They all regretted it. Children are very sensible. As long as I calmly tell them that I am willing to listen and do, there is a lot of pressure in all aspects at ordinary times, as if we are all out of breath. And it's not easy, because I don't know much about how to educate children. Fortunately, they are all sensible, otherwise I really can't do anything about them. Wu Yuhui's parents-when I was young, I thought, if one day, after I have my own children, first of all, I hope they won't suffer as we did when we were young. I hope my children can eat and wear warm clothes. If one day, my child makes a mistake. I'm going to beat him up and teach them a lesson so that my children won't make the same mistake again. When my children want my pocket money, I will tell them that money is hard to come by, and I will tell them how I lived without money when I was a child. Jiang Mingming's parents-as parents of students, they should communicate with the school more and cooperate with their children's education. Parents and schools are the benchmarks of students and the invisible learning objects of children. First of all, we should respect children, let them learn to respect others, cultivate their interests in all aspects, let them participate in group activities, enhance their communication skills, and pay attention to cultivating their personality. Only in this way can they become adults first, then become talents, learn to be considerate of others, and respect the elderly and love the young. I hope teachers can help children more in their studies, and we will communicate with teachers more. We also thank the teachers for their education and help to Jiang Mingming in his study and life. Yu's parents-our children's Chinese is not good. I always ask him to read more books. He always said it was useless. Only by reading more books can he get better grades. I hope he has confidence himself, just like the daughter in the book. I hope he can read this and know what he should do in the future. Ye Jian's parents-I have a pair of children. My daughter is ten and my son is thirteen. I have strict requirements for children, such as progress in study, neatness in homework, courtesy to others, filial piety to elders, and higher requirements for my son. Maybe it has something to do with him being a boy! I want him to learn anything that is good for him. Sometimes he signs up for English classes, but he doesn't. He signed up for an art class, but he didn't ... I'm tired of it. What will this child do if he doesn't learn? Without a skill, how can he survive in society in the future I'm worried and scared. I hope he will be a good man who is responsible for the country and the family in the future. I also gave him a blueprint for the future, a future life. After reading this article, it seems that all my ideas are wrong. That's his life. He walked out of it himself, not us. Today's children are still young, and when they grow up, they have their own ideas, ideals and lives. We should think from the standpoint of children, think more about them, talk to them more and ask their thoughts. Bu Chunshuai's parents-from the heart, I really don't know where to start with their children's education, but I have some opinions, don't you know? I hope not to laugh. I think the first thing about children's education is preaching and moral education. First of all, let children know themselves seriously and be a member of society, so let children integrate into society and know society. First of all, society is a big family. At the very least, we should respect the old and love the young, listen to our parents at home, listen to our teachers at school, and live in harmony with our classmates. Only in this way can we better integrate into society. Understand society. It is necessary to learn all kinds of good social knowledge. Only by learning all kinds of social knowledge well can we make greater contributions to society. Zhao Minzhong's parents-I teach my children to fight or scold. Although I know this is a wrong idea, I persuaded them that before they beat and scold, they can only solve the problem by force if they don't listen. Of course, when I was a child, I also thought about how to educate their children as a mother when I grew up. I think this is the way to educate children: one is to use material rewards, and the other is that children must share their troubles with their families. Help us with housework. 5. Prepare a little pig to save money. Be obedient for one yuan, help with housework for one yuan, share one thing for one yuan, and avoid making trouble for five yuan. If the child can become a good child, of course, he can't be too restrained, otherwise it will cause rebellious psychology to the child, and he can't control the child well. It is also wrong to mess with his privacy without his consent. Therefore, it is wrong to be a good boy. Li Jia's parents have something to say about how to educate, train and educate their children. For today's children, educating and cultivating children is a big problem in every parent's mind. A well-educated child is a good student in the eyes of teachers and a good boy in the hearts of parents, otherwise. From the birth of a child, parents should take responsibility and educate their children well. First, they should teach children to talk and learn to walk, and then they should go to kindergarten, primary school and middle school. In this process, they should cultivate children's learning interests and hobbies in an all-round way, so that children can have a free development space. Don't force their children to learn things they don't like. If not, children who like learning will not like learning. On the contrary, it is counterproductive, thus failing to achieve the results that parents want. If the child does something wrong, or the exam is not ideal, don't beat and scold rudely, but encourage him. Rough beating and cursing will only hurt children's self-esteem. Lv Qian's parents-standing on the opposite side of educating their children, as parents, we can sometimes listen to their own suggestions and don't force them to do something. As the saying goes, reluctance is useless, which will only make it worse. After returning home, the children also read "A girl in my family has grown up" to me. In the article, the mother never asked the child's opinion, so she helped him arrange his life. Parents in Song Zhezhong-There are not many reasons to educate children, because children are too young. So I am still naive, ignorant and have a lot of things. I am too tired to exercise, and the knowledge I have gained may be lost, but we don't complain about how tired I am. Because this is what we should do, our children will grow up one day, so just wait.
Liu Jing's parents-sometimes parents occasionally turn a blind eye to their children's love or reprimand them because of busy work or other reasons, and nip their children's love in the bud. For example, a little girl poured a cup of tea for her mother who just got off work, but her mother was anxious to say, do your homework. Who told you to pour tea? Children's love was thus deprived by their parents. In fact, many times, parents don't know that their actions will inadvertently hurt or deprive their children of love. Sun Yuezhong's parents-educating children is something that every parent should think about every day.