Who is the winner on the road of life! With one stroke, the ashes are turned into nature.
Leave a legendary story and become an allusion for later generations to laugh at, imitate or spit after a meal.
My father was terminally ill in his forties and was so desperate that he was scattered all over the world.
On his deathbed, he said in despair, "I have lived for decades, compared with my peers in the village." I am so strong that I refuse to accept them. Now it seems that heaven is going to accept me. This is life! "
I deeply feel that everyone's life length has long been set, not based on personal will.
You can only control your luck, but you cannot change your life.
Looking back on my 60-year life, I live in this special social group.
People around you are unwilling to lag behind, from envy to comparison.
In fact, there is no development without comparison and recognition. It is human nature to be eager to get ahead and live a happy life that everyone envies.
God has never spared anyone. He always sets you up one unexpected obstacle after another, testing your patience and your heart all the time.
Some people fell down on this tortuous road of life, and some people were scarred and fell down after a few more steps.
Throughout his life, as long as he steps on this fast-moving train leading to death, he will be mercilessly left at different stations, and there will be no winner.
The only thing that people can compare in this life is:
Adolescence is better than learning knowledge and skills;
Youth is better than integration into society;
How much more value is created in middle age than return;
Old age is better than healthy children.
Finally, the comparison of people living to the end in this life is: how much have you paid in this life and what have you got? What has been left for society and future generations.
People live to the end:
It's better than not being disturbed when you are old;
The comparison is that children are self-reliant and not old;
Compared with spiritual enrichment, there is no complaint;
Compared with good health, there is no big problem;
Better than traveling, don't be reluctant to spend money.
It is better to be healthy than to live forever.
Rich people, if he pays 654.38+00,000 yuan for a year's health and longevity, and 654.38+00,000 yuan for a year's health and longevity, he will definitely buy it. The question is, can he buy it?
If a powerful person can trade one year's power for one year's health and longevity, and ten years' power for ten years' health and longevity, he will definitely change. The question is, can he get it?
When the most precious thing in life is about to be lost, some people will regret that they have damaged the most precious thing in the world because of their mistakes.
The most precious thing for people is health and longevity, especially as they get older.
Therefore, young people should be cautious in their pursuit of money and power, save more goodwill and kindness, and never lose their health and life because of their own mistakes!
Remember! Remember!
1, a really smart person has lived all his life, only comparing himself with others.
Compared with others, you and I have our own advantages and disadvantages, and we can't tell the difference between victory and defeat.
3, different ages in life, things are different, until the end is empty.
4. Compared with academic performance and height when you are a teenager. Young people compare themselves with objects and jobs. When people reach middle age, compare their earning power. In old age, it is better than health and retirement.
Everyone is comparing themselves with the people around them, and people who are similar to themselves are actually deceiving themselves and seeking comfort.
6, people have a fixed class, actually not much difference with the people around them, no one will be richer than Ma Yun, and Wang Sicong is richer than his girlfriend. Knowing the comparison, he was also angry.
7. Smart people, as they grow older, only pay attention to themselves and today's life, and will not waste time paying attention to others.
8, people are different from birth, looks, money, height, experience are different, how to compare?
9. Comparison is self-deception and asking for trouble.
10, the lower the level, the more people like to seek comfort in their hearts, and the less they like others. This is the main reason for the comparison.
1 1. As long as there is a gap between people, there are contradictions, which are all caused by comparing with each other.
12, people's destination is the same in the end, why should we compare?
Better die than live to the end.
One of Five Blessingg's films has a happy ending. A good death is a person's greatest blessing and my ultimate pursuit.
In this life, people live to the end as much as wealth. Because for the rich, wealth is endless, and no amount of money can save a person's life. It can be said that money is in the bank and people are in heaven. Generally speaking, money has a basic pension to survive, improve the quality of life and deal with general diseases. Wealth does not compare, and comparison is useless.
In this life, people don't leave much property in the end, but bring out a good family style. Children are not necessarily excellent, but they must be kind, kind, filial, hardworking and thrifty. A family may not be rich, but it must be harmonious. There is nothing messy at home, and it is better to live carefree than anything else.
In this life, it is better to live to the end than to be healthy. I haven't been sick for decades, or I seldom get sick and hardly stay in hospital. In his later years, he was neither paralyzed in bed nor stupid, spent less money and did not involve children. I can walk before I die, take care of myself, eat well, defecate smoothly and sleep well at night.
In this life, it is better to live to the end than to die. How to die? Although you can't decide for yourself, you should stay away from natural and man-made disasters, go on road trip, to prevent car accidents. They say that if you die, you will live a long life, and if you die, it is a funeral. When you die peacefully, you don't die of disease, but of old age. It's best to go in your sleep at night, so as not to cause pain and trouble to your family.
When people die, I say it's better to have a grand funeral. How much money was spent in the cemetery and how much paper was burned. I won't buy a tomb or leave ashes after I die. After cremation, I scattered the ashes into the Songhua River. It is forbidden to burn paper for me and not to engage in sacrificial activities. I am a mortal, and I have no desire to remain immortal. I can live up to my family and leave no stigma for future generations.
In the soft light of the sunset, people are older than the "five ones".
On the long road of life, after a vigorous run, everyone will step into old age. In the gentle breeze and drizzle, in the soft light of the sunset, savor the road people have traveled: in this life, the one who lives to the end is "five ones":
0 1 is better than a good figure. In front of life, good health is the right to speak. Without good health, nothing can be said.
For most people, entering retirement is necessary. Although it's still a little early to talk about retirement, I'm still envious of going to the park to see those grandmothers who play rap and dance square dance every weekend.
Yes, retirement is happy. However, the premise is that we must have a healthy body. I met an 83-year-old man in the street the other day and chatted for a while. People of this age ride bicycles and play chess with others every day. They are not deaf, blind or healthy.
I think that when people get old, health is really the greatest capital in life. Relaxing yourself and not dragging your children down is the greatest happiness.
02 is better than a good attitude. When people reach middle age, they have to make a living, plan their own careers, and be busy for themselves and their children. They are really tired.
After entering the age of 60, most people retire from the busy workplace and start their old age. If I want to spend my old age peacefully, I must have a good attitude.
People at this age must learn to let go and try to empty their minds. If you want to carry a heavy load, you may be quiet for a while, which has nothing to do with you.
Better than a good wife. It is rare to have an old partner in life. When you are old, you must cherish your wife more. It is a great happiness to have a good wife walking hand in hand.
It is often said that there is no dutiful son before a long bed. People who have had a serious illness will definitely have a personal experience. One of my relatives was paralyzed in bed in his forties and was ill for more than ten years.
During the period, the children are also in charge, but they are as easy to understand as their relatives. After all, children have their own work and life, and it is impossible to stay with them all the time. The man who stays in front of the bed day and night is still his wife.
Better than a good boy. When people reach old age, they enter the second half of their lives. How their children are is an unavoidable topic.
Many people don't ask children to do anything for themselves. What they expect and remember in their hearts is that their children work smoothly and live happily.
One of my elders lived a happy life after retirement. Some time ago, he was annoyed by his daughter's divorce lawsuit. Within a few months, the elders' hair was all white, which really made people feel distressed.
05 is better than a good story. People always look back on the past when they are old. When we chat with old people, they always talk about their past. It really takes patience.
But people always have something to do, and so do old people. Among the old people in my family, one is writing a memoir all day, and the other is busy writing a genealogy. I've read their manuscript, and it's a bit of a running account, but it's ok.
In fact, old people have stories. It is also an elegant life for the elderly to spend some time compiling a genealogy for children and writing their own memoirs.
In short, in the soft light of the sunset, people are older than the "five ones", older than their bodies, older than their mentality, older than their wives, older than their children and older than their stories. As long as you are physically and mentally free and live an elegant life, it is a beautiful life!
What is the contrast? The latest thoughts and feelings? Epidemic is the devil, and epidemic is a disaster. When the epidemic appears, we can wake up completely: we might as well live healthily without being entangled by the devil. In the epidemic, we realized that our life is better than what? It turns out that in the face of life and death, how cheap money and material are, health is the best wealth, and life is the most expensive thing. To sum up: compared with life and death, compared with you and me, he should be glad that he is not haunted by the devil. Only with good health can life continue, and only with immortality can we enjoy everything.
In this life, it is better to live to the end than to be healthy. Not more money than anyone else. No matter how much money, there is no healthy waste paper. What's the use of lying in a hospital bed with a pile of money in front of you?
People live for a better life, but you can only get the life you want at a price. Birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws, and everyone is bound to die, but we still have to work hard to live.
Health is the capital of revolution. Don't forget to take care of yourself in busy days. Don't work hard all your life, money is in the bank and people are in heaven. I went to heaven before I could enjoy my life.
Heaven is so beautiful, I don't want to go, because there is no return. If you live, you must live wonderfully. Life is a single-deck ticket without return. It is inevitable that there will be bumps along the way, but as long as you stick to your teeth, it may be smooth to go through bumps.
Some people have lived all their lives, and they have been strong all their lives. Old, disappointing, but impressive. When you were young, you were full of energy. Because you don't care about your health, you get sick when you are old. It's too late to regret!
People who eat whole grains will get sick, but it is healthy to pay more attention to maintaining their health at ordinary times. It is also a great blessing for people to spend their old age safely and healthily in this life.
In this life, people live to the end than anything, in truth, than a clear conscience, than a social burden. What is the meaning of life value? More beautiful than the individual's contribution to society. Practically speaking, it is more realistic than success in life.
If you meet an old acquaintance, the first question you usually ask is how many children and grandchildren you have, what you are doing, and how you are doing in your old age. Instead of asking how rich you are, how big your family business is, and how beautiful you are. Therefore, in this life, most people work hard and devote themselves to educating and cultivating children, not only for the sake of children's Excellence, but for the sake of ancestor worship and competition. I don't want to see the prodigal son return, the prodigal son return, the black sheep. Don't give yourself a long face and don't want to ruin the family of your generation. It is difficult to explain to our ancestors and ashamed to face the society.
There is a saying that I am not as rich as you, and your son is not as rich as mine. After all, you are not as good as me. This is a very real contrast. No matter how rich you are, you are also a bad family. Your life's struggle is equivalent to nothing, and it's also a draw with a sieve. You are not safe when you are old, and your family's career is ruined. Jinshan Yinshan will also be squandered, resentful, sad and anxious. If children can grow up and get ahead for themselves, it is useless to be old, but others will naturally respect you and be happy. If all future generations are black sheep, people are realistic and snobbish, people will not buy your account, because you are old and have no stamina, and there is no need to have sex with you.
As can be seen from what has been said above, the most realistic proportion in a person's life is that the younger generation will advance and retreat, and the future will be fruitful. That is the reality. Only when children can make a difference and old people have face can they live comfortably. If children become black sheep, they will be ashamed to compare with others, and they will be inferior to others. People have been here all their lives.