Secondly, children's mental health can not be ignored. Parents should appease their children's emotions, teach their children to protect themselves, meet with students' bullying at school, don't provoke each other, try to repel each other through warning language, and find teachers to solve contradictions in time; At the same time, parents should keep calm, have an affair with their children, tell them that bullying by students is illegal, and encourage them to speak out bravely.
Parents' injuries to their children should be photographed in time, and judicial expertise can be conducted if necessary; In order to obtain evidence at school, parents need to cooperate with the school to let children know that they should pay more attention to bullying; Communicate with the school, talk with the perpetrators and record.
A little advice for children:
1. Cultivate self-esteem and self-confidence and strengthen your aura. Self-confidence comes from ability, ability comes from experience, and experience comes from students' down-to-earth. Therefore, parents must not do everything instead of their children.
2. Get along well with classmates, speak carefully and save face for others.
Don't form small groups inside and outside the school to avoid getting too close to some people who like to make trouble.
4. Strengthen physical exercise and keep fit, so that bullies dare not approach easily.
Parents are most likely to make the following mistakes after conflicts between children and classmates:
One is to ignore children's feelings. For example, when a child feels wronged after being beaten, parents say: Children will inevitably bump into each other, so don't be so delicate.
The second is to judge at will. For example, when a child is beaten by anger outside, parents say: It must be your fault. Otherwise, why do people only beat you and not others? Such a judgment will make children afraid to go home even if they are wronged outside.
We should stand firmly beside our children and give them enough love and security. Let the child understand that parents are his strongest support whenever and wherever. Calm children's emotions, understand and sympathize with their experiences, give them more companionship and help them rebuild their confidence.
Finally, special reminder: tell children to go to school with classmates and try not to stay alone in remote places such as toilets and playgrounds.