With the gradual growth of the body, children's psychology is constantly changing, and gradually establish their own personality. However, not every child can grow up easily, and psychological problems may occur at every stage of the growth of children and adolescents. What are the general manifestations of children with psychological problems?
1. Attack: These children run around all day, often play pranks and like to satirize others. If you don't cherish beautiful things, hitting people becomes a hobby and shows aggression.
2. Separation anxiety: when thinking of leaving home and separating from relatives, excessive emotional sadness or constant complaints, such as crying, attacking, demanding to be together and losing your temper; Or physical discomfort, such as headache, stomachache and nausea.
So, what are the factors that affect the establishment of children's healthy psychology?
1, children can only listen to praise and can't stand a little criticism. Children are often easily praised, especially when they are young. Parents and teachers will say "you are great" and "you are so smart!" Such things make children suffer from "praise dependence" and don't listen to any negative opinions. Such children lack the experience and motivation to resist setbacks and are often emotional.
2. Children can't learn how to relieve stress and accept themselves from their parents and schools, and all kinds of negative emotions keep accumulating, and finally they can only force themselves to collapse.
Mental health is the premise of a person's intellectual and personality development, potential development, moral formation and active adaptation to society, and the basis of the formation and development of a person's comprehensive quality. However, if parents despise their children's mental health problems, not only now, but also their children's future will be unpredictable.
1, obsessive-compulsive personality: compulsive pursuit of self-security and physical health.
2. If the child is introverted, lonely and shy, and emotionally indifferent. Social adaptability and interpersonal relationship are poor. Like to be alone. This psychological defect can easily develop into schizophrenia.
The causes of children's psychological problems are complicated, and it is difficult for us to give a specific suggestion, but we can pay attention to children's psychological health in simple and effective ways, so as to face children's psychological problems correctly. How do parents guide their children's healthy physical and mental development?
1. Try to guide children to share their own things, and teach children to share their happiness with others by putting facts, reasoning and encouraging.
2. Guide children to learn to ask for help from friends, parents, teachers and other adults, and clearly understand that asking for help is a sign of cleverness rather than weakness.
3. appropriately reduce expectations for children. Parents' desire for success is understandable, but children's growth needs time and more patience. Don't nag, dig or even beat and scold even if your child doesn't make great progress and his grades are not satisfactory, which will make your child depressed, or fight out of rebellious psychology and aggravate anxiety.
In the process of children's growth, not only the body will undergo earth-shaking changes in a short period of time, but also the psychology will continue to grow. If parents want their children to grow up healthily, they must care about their mental health, pay more attention to it, and make systematic adjustments from the aspects of children themselves, family education, the relationship between teachers and students at school, and family environment.