Harmony is a state of life and an ideal realm that every family hopes for. To see a harmonious family, the thoughts, personalities, interests, knowledge, cultural attainments and values of family members should be consistent. For example, family members should have roughly the same life goals and values; Husband and wife are loyal to each other, devoted to love, make persistent efforts to improve the quality of marriage; Family members care about each other, understand each other, and cooperate tacitly when problems arise; Agree on the responsibilities that each family member should share in the family and put them into action; Have the same view on educating children and supporting the elderly, and do their best; There is no big difference in the arrangement of the use of money, and so on. These are all important manifestations of a harmonious family. Living in such an atmosphere, family members will have a sense of harmony and happiness, and can take the initiative to assume their share of responsibility for the family, and actively promote the consolidation and development of this atmosphere.
A harmonious atmosphere should be mutual respect. Personality and hobbies among family members should not and cannot be forced to be consistent. However, everyone should have due cultivation and tolerance. Family members can appreciate each other and have multi-level exchanges and communication. Cheerful and optimistic, simple and introverted, intelligent, humorous, brave and confident, easy-going and obedient, are the colors of life and family. Only the tolerance, collocation and integration of various colors can paint a colorful picture. How to achieve family harmony? This is a big and difficult subject, but there are two points to grasp. From the perspective of the relationship between superiors and subordinates, it is to respect the old and love the young, and parents are good and filial to their children; As far as the left-right relationship is concerned, it is mutual respect and love, and the husband sings with the woman. Although this is too traditional, the essence should be absorbed, which is also the minimum requirement of a harmonious family. A parent doesn't even love his own child. Can she love her country and her friends? A child who is not filial to his parents will serve the society in the future. How can he shoulder the responsibility of uniting others and helping the public? As for husband and wife, the same is true. You knock your gong, I blow my horn, and the needles point to the wheat. Even at home, how can we live in harmony with others in society? There is a good saying: "It takes a hundred years to cross a boat and a thousand years to sleep on a pillow." It is not easy for two people to get married and have children together. Form new harmony in properly solving contradictions. When something unpleasant happens in family life, both sides want to protect themselves. For fear of being hurt and rejected, both sides are often embarrassed to take the first step of reconciliation. However, any happy and harmonious partner knows this rule: the storm will soon pass, after the rain, the sun will still shine. A psychological tutor gave a couple advice: when the conflict began, recall the sweet time at ordinary times and let the ripples of love quickly drown out the instant unhappiness. The most important thing here is to put yourself in the other person's shoes and look at all contradictions with a tolerant attitude. In family life, forgiveness is a necessary accomplishment and a great emotion. For the sake of true harmony between relatives, every family member should have the virtue of forgiveness.
How to build a harmonious and happy family?
A harmonious and happy family is the result of the joint efforts of two people. Husband and wife need more tolerance, understanding, encouragement and appreciation to make life full of intimate laughter.
How to create a harmonious family
There must be no lack of communication between husband and wife. Without communication, they can't live together and speak the same language, so they won't be happy. It will only hurt each other more. Together, the two people give respect, understanding, care, care, tolerance and sincerity to both sides, so that she can have a warm family and a generous shoulder to rely on. This is a happy family! I think everyone can. Family environment is also a factor in children's growth, and they are all interrelated. In fact, this feeling has changed from the initial love to the feeling that blood is thicker than water. Actually, my wife also complains that we don't talk much. I don't think it's necessary to say so much. Sometimes a look and a greeting are enough, but you can't always say that you have something to discuss at home. Anyway, don't worry. Men are always talkative outside, but when they get home, they feel tired and want to have a rest. Don't worry. It's gonna be okay. It is not easy for a man to support his family. He should take the initiative to understand and support him Husband and wife try their best to learn from each other's strengths and make your personality even. The quarrel between husband and wife will lead to family disharmony, which will cause family fuse and hurt themselves and others. Sit down, understand, respect, tolerate, care, tolerate and learn from each other's strengths. Everyone should experience and try in real life, so as to know that life is colorful! We live in an era of contradictions in many aspects; We have higher buildings, but we are getting impatient; We have a wider highway, but our vision is getting narrower and narrower; The more we buy, the less we enjoy. Home, what is home? A happy home is when you come home late and someone leaves a heart lamp for you. When you get home from work, someone will pour you a cup of hot tea. When you are poor, someone will spend time with you and create wealth with you. When you are lonely, someone brings you happiness. When you are sick, someone is waiting for you. A happy home is so warm. It means taking care of yourself indirectly-this is the sacred responsibility entrusted by the family, which is causal and theoretical. This is our promise in the name of love. All happy families are similar, but each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way, because no happy family is full of selfless love, because no one in a happy family is harmonious ... healthy ... and we care about this warm family. The most intimate living space, and family members are the people who have the greatest influence on our body and mood. Without the health of family members, everything is closely related to each other, and what in this world can better communicate our inner sadness than the illness of relatives? No one longs for a happy home ... in fact, a happy home is right beside you and me. May all people in the world have a happy home ... what is home? Home is a place where your heart can rest, a place where your mistakes, your excitement, your helplessness, your laughter, your tears, and a place where you don't have to wear a mask. Everyone in the family depends on each other. Although family, but more often as friends. When I care about you, I mean it. I don't expect anything in return when I help you. In short, after you make trouble unreasonably, you find that all eyes are showing concern. A place with such people can be called home.
How to build a harmonious family?
People should learn to deal with a variety of relationships in life, such as colleague relationship, neighborhood relationship, business relationship, mother-in-law relationship, husband-wife relationship and so on. Dealing with the relationship between husband and wife is a very important event in life. The relationship between husband and wife is handled well and the family is happy; On the other hand, improper handling of the relationship between husband and wife may hurt feelings and affect career. There is no blood relationship between husband and wife, and most of them are met by strangers, gradually running in, and finally achieve the goal of caring for each other and growing old together. How to deal with the relationship between husband and wife and establish a harmonious family is a topic of common concern. Trust between husband and wife comes first. Secondly, we should communicate frequently and understand each other. Before you do anything, you should think from the other side's point of view, think more about the other side, don't care too much about some irregular things, and have a peaceful heart to face everything that happens suddenly. Everyone is an independent individual and no one wants to change anyone. As long as we love each other and think about each other, I think he or she will change for each other voluntarily. This is running in. Only complete understanding, full tolerance, constant tolerance, sincere feelings, consistent outlook on life and lofty ideals and beliefs can husband and wife spend their lives safely. Middle-aged and elderly couples should cherish their feelings. Husband and wife should understand and tolerate more, look at each other's advantages, communicate more, tolerate and adapt to each other's personality and habits, and achieve mutual respect, harmony, happiness, health and longevity. Confusion between husband and wife is rare. Couples have been together for many years, and sometimes they say or do something wrong. As long as it's not a matter of principle, one side might as well be confused. Confusion is not stupidity or ignorance. On the contrary, it is a kind of tolerance, a kind of cultivation and a kind of wisdom. Some things between husband and wife don't need to be too serious, and they need to be clearly separated. In order to save face for each other, leave room for contradictions, add some hazy beauty to family life, and sometimes become an opportunity to enhance the feelings of husband and wife. The most important thing in the relationship between husband and wife is mutual respect and love, mutual trust and help, mutual understanding and dedication. Love and harmony between husband and wife are not only conducive to family harmony, but also to health and longevity, thus achieving the goal of growing old together. Relieve the pressure of marriage and create a happy life! To understand and learn the art of speaking, you should understand when you have a stranger, and don't be busy with wheat. That's useless. Good management can make big things small and small things small. You have me and I have you.
On how to build a harmonious family
"Home and everything prosper", a harmonious family is related to the happiness of every family, the cell of society and the foundation of a harmonious society. Building a harmonious socialist society inevitably requires family harmony and stability. Building a harmonious family with "conjugal love, parent-child harmony, filial piety to elders and harmonious neighborhood" has laid the foundation for building a "harmonious community". First, the conditions for building a harmonious family
1. Adhering to democratic principles is an important foundation for creating a harmonious family. A harmonious family, no matter how much you have contributed to the family, the purpose of serving family members should not be forgotten, and the style of contacting family members should not be lost. We should always straighten out the relationship with other family members and fully respect their initiative. No matter what environment we are in and how many difficulties we face, our sense of democracy is indispensable and unity is unshakable. Every family member should accept good advice with an open mind, treat others equally, be willing to listen to various opinions, often carry out criticism and self-criticism, actively create a good democratic atmosphere, and lay a solid foundation for a harmonious family. Every family member should have the courage to share family responsibilities, agree on the issue of educating children, agree on the issue of supporting the elderly, and have no differences on the arrangement of money use.
2. Establishing equal interpersonal relationship is the fundamental guarantee to create a harmonious family. The harmony of interpersonal relationship is the cornerstone of family harmony. To establish a harmonious and equal family interpersonal relationship is to correctly handle the interpersonal relationship between yourself and your family and strive to live in a harmonious interpersonal relationship. Equality is the basis of achieving harmony. To create a harmonious family, we must firmly establish the concept of equality and establish equal interpersonal relationships. In family life, husband and wife should respect each other, love each other, trust each other, help each other, comfort each other, encourage each other, give each other, understand each other, be loyal to each other, and share joys and sorrows. Parents and children are equal, so they should understand each other, accept each other, learn from each other, care for each other, actively fulfill their obligations, and create a family atmosphere of respecting the elderly and caring for the young, unity and harmony, and helping others, so as to create a harmonious family environment. We should deal with other family relationships, such as brothers and sisters, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, young aunt, young aunt and so on. We should treat our families with a peaceful attitude, and live in harmony, understand each other and cooperate sincerely. More communication and less misunderstanding, more trust and less suspicion will make the family more warm and harmonious, and make every family member love the family, love life and work hard.
3. Carrying forward the spirit of benevolence is a powerful driving force to create a harmonious family. The distance that the world cares about is the farthest and the nearest. Only the communication and blending between heart and heart is the highest state of harmony. Love is conducive to narrowing the distance between people, dispelling the indifference between people and melting the gap between people. With love, life will be rich, with love, life will be wonderful, and it will enhance the soul, beautify the state of mind, and make generate show infinite upward pursuit and unprecedented creativity. In China, the spirit of benevolence is an important proposition and core spirit of the concept of harmonious culture and the basic spirit of traditional morality. This spirit is based on fully affirming people's position and sense of responsibility in the world. Family is linked by blood and marriage. To create a harmonious family, we should give full play to the special function of consanguineous marriage and pay attention to the education and edification of traditional culture of human relations and family ties. Tolerance is not only the expression of harmony, but also the basic premise to achieve harmony. To create a harmonious family, only by embracing and accepting family members with a broad mind and sowing the seeds of benevolence can we achieve the greatest harmony between people and between people's body and mind.
How to establish a harmonious family environment?
Quality. The quality of parents directly affects the quality of children. In childhood, children have the most contact with their mothers, who are the main family educators. The mother's education level is inversely proportional to the child's crime rate. German educator Faupel put it well: "The fate of the people is not so much in the hands of those in power as in the hands of their mothers. Parents' education should begin with their mothers. "With the growth of age, the contact with the father increases, and children often receive education from the image of their father. Therefore, the father's manners and moral qualities have left an impression on the children's hearts. Parents should pay attention to themselves in front of their children, pay attention to their own image and set a good example for their children. 3. Improve parents' educational ability and level. Parents should teach their children well, understand the psychological characteristics of children of different ages, keep in touch with schools and teachers, and keep abreast of their performance and ideological trends in all aspects. Parents should strive to improve their educational ability, master effective educational methods and prescribe the right medicine. Therefore, our education department has the responsibility to use all opportunities and ways to guide some family education, help parents to establish a correct tutor orientation and master scientific tutor methods. Especially for the education of some children who have psychological deviation from their parents, we should not engage in "paternalism" or "patriarchy", but always be aware of the actual existence of psychological deviation from children, and fully put ourselves in the dual perspective of children and ourselves to rationally adjust their educational behavior, which will play a very good role in improving the quality and effect of children's family education. 4. Help parents to establish a correct view of education. With the growth of economic conditions and the increase of only children, the proportion of parents doting on their children is increasing, and the attitude of doting on children has spread. Therefore, we must try our best to change parents' educational attitude, prevent and correct the unhealthy educational phenomenon of doting and indulging children in the family, restrict material enjoyment, oppose doting, remind parents to exercise necessary restraint when providing living conditions for their children, and at the same time give children necessary opportunities for exercise, labor and self-service. Parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's excellent personality. What kind of person do you want your children to be? What children need in the process of growth is encouragement and help. Parents should help their children build up strong self-confidence and enterprising spirit, especially when they encounter difficulties on their way forward. We should be good at discovering their bright spots, teaching their advantages, forgiving their shortcomings, discovering their talents and potentials, paying attention to them, praising them, letting them face their mistakes bravely and inspiring them to move on. The above is the author's superficial view, which needs further discussion with colleagues. Generally speaking, family education is an indispensable part of life education, which directly affects people's life. It plays an irreplaceable role in school education and social education. Behind many great people, there is a great mother. I call on all our educators and education departments to seriously study and care about family education. I also hope that each of our parents will spare no effort and work together for the success of your children and the quality of our next generation. References: 1. Learn to survive-today and tomorrow in education. 2. Sociology of Education in Lu Jie. People's Education Press. 3. On Zhou's self-education. Education research of central institute of education.
How to build a harmonious and happy family
Communication is the secret of building a happy family and ensuring a perfect marriage. This is very important for a happy family. Communication is based on mutual respect and equality.
How to build a harmonious family?
Tolerance, understanding, forbearance, always keep a good mood, communicate more, and the family will be happier.