After 00, it is in the period of physical and mental development. If their mental health is not well developed, it will easily lead them to go astray. So how to solve the psychological problems after 00? I hope I can give you some help below.
? After 00? How to solve psychological problems?
The age of teenagers after 00 is in a special stage of physical and mental development, which is called psychologically? Storm? 、? Big winds and waves? Period, there are also psychological weaning period, personality rebellious period. The psychological development of teenagers after 00 is particularly eye-catching and has attracted much attention from all walks of life. After 00, psychological growth problems frequently appear, psychological precocity and naivety, psychological contradictions and imbalances are worthy of attention, which require our parents to think deeply, study independently and actively guide.
Now, there are many problems, such as juvenile delinquency, running away from home, suicide and so on. Because children have no right to speak, they can only express their disappointment, helplessness, anger and rejection of education in various ways. This is also closely related to children's early psychological education, because children's psychological problems always have external reasons. The younger the child, the more obvious the influence from the external environment. In preschool education, family education is the core issue. Parents' doting, parents' being too strict and the unstable relationship between parents may all lead to children's psychological obstacles. The more these seemingly subtle changes in the early stage grow, the more prominent the problem becomes.
The occurrence of psychological obstacles and psychological problems is mostly based on childhood experiences, especially the attachment and interpersonal relationship generated by children when they grow up to a certain age, which is closely related to parents' early education and companionship. If a child doesn't have a happy childhood, he won't have a happy life.
Therefore, as parents of the post-80s who grew up in the social transformation period, we should pay more attention to the psychological development education of the post-80s children while clarifying the growth and psychological problems of our generation, and don't impose their negative understanding of social interpersonal relationships and money on children who have not yet understood the society, let alone copy the parents of the post-80s? Looking forward to success? The old road, let your children live in a closed environment, can not stand a little wind and rain.
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How to solve the sexual psychological problems of teenagers
With the growth of age, more and more teenagers begin to contact what is sex and what is sexual life, but they dare not cross the line because of psychological barriers. So, what kind of heart should these teenagers who have never experienced sexual life have?
How should boys and girls prepare for sex?
A large part of the population will have an inexplicable sexual fear, and they will fall into a contradictory psychology for men's sexual impulses. Some men will think that this situation is because women are shy. As long as they have the courage to break the psychological barrier for the first time, they will naturally be fine in the future. This is a wrong idea, which not only causes psychological harm to women, but also experiences the ignorance of some men. Behind this understanding, the seeds of future conflicts often lurk, which is the root of tragedy.
So what kind of psychology should be prepared for people who have never experienced both sexes?
For women, the sense of chastity and self-loss after the first sexual intercourse are hidden psychological factors that lead women to fear premarital sexual intercourse. A girl enters sexual development from 13- 14 years old, and it takes 10 years before and after marriage in her twenties. 10 years, while maintaining chastity, women also formed a complete self-reliance psychology and independent personality. 10 years ingrained in women's minds is not easy to change.
Even though some women may have the motivation to break through the shackles of traditional ideas at that time, due to psychological intolerance, they often feel fear and anxiety after the incident, showing strong dependence for fear that the other party will alienate themselves. As long as the man is slightly negligent or his enthusiasm drops, the woman will feel anxious and lost. This psychological change, the first love of men are in the product? Forbidden fruit? Later, I often don't know anything and I don't know how to mediate.
For men, the impulse to have sex for the first time is often very strong and difficult to control. In most cases, the man's orgasm has ended and the woman's sexual desire has not been aroused. The rupture of the hymen will make the woman feel some pain, thus further aggravating her nervousness. Especially the first sexual intercourse before marriage, it is more difficult for the woman to feel happy because of the restriction and interference of objective conditions. Therefore, the first sexual intercourse may bring an impulsive and possessive satisfaction to the man, but it will not be a very exciting thing for the woman.
Some women are even afraid of sexual intercourse because of this, but they can't explain why, so both sides have doubts and anxiety. In this way, premarital sexual intercourse not only does not promote the deepening of the feelings of both sides, but also increases the psychological barriers of both sides, which will be more unfavorable to the feelings of both sides.
Therefore, teenagers in love, in order to better defend their pure love and their future happy marriage, had better not try sex in ignorance.
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