(a) beyond the self, cheerful and open attitude towards life, cheerful and open to the world (internal and external) and personal experience, not opinionated, not indifferent, not rigid, not locked, with a brand-new vision and life, brand-new concepts and ideas, unique appreciation. In daily life, you can repeat the mysterious psychological experience of awe, happiness, satisfaction and surprise, and you can feel the vast surge of emotion. Understand the endless changes in the life world, constantly seek the meaning of life itself in life, and hope to surpass yourself.
(2) full of energy, self-confidence, indifferent to fame and fortune, ignoring material enjoyment and attaching importance to the process of life. Clearly aware that life is a constantly changing process, aware that there are difficulties and risks in the process of change, but full of vitality. In the face of many changes in my life, I will not panic. I can tolerate the doubts brought by novelty and unfamiliar things. I think failure and frustration are part of life. I have a calm mind to face failure bravely and I am full of confidence in life. Don't care about material enjoyment and return. Money, fame and status are not the purpose of life. Although I know how to enjoy a rich and leisurely life, I don't pursue a luxurious life excessively. Have a strong insight into reality and a good relationship with reality, and have a keen vigilance against people and things in the surrounding environment.
(3) Quiet and far-reaching. I am eager to reach the realm of tranquility and far-reaching. Paying attention to and caring for the ecology can bring happiness from the power of nature. I have no intention of conquering nature, and I am opposed to using science and technology to conquer nature unilaterally and control mankind. I am willing to support science and technology to promote human development.
(4) Love, help each other, distinguish between true and false, long for real and reliable intimate relationships between people, be able to establish deep interpersonal relationships with others, be attractive, be appreciated and followed, and make friends selectively.
(5) integrate the mind, think about unity, and aspire to be an integrated person. I don't like the fragmented inner world and strive for a complete life. Personal thinking, feelings, body and mind, heart and soul can be well integrated in my personal experience.
(6) Self-acceptance Facing the reality, we can recognize and accept all kinds of shortcomings, imperfections, weaknesses and deficiencies in our humanity, and we will not be ashamed of our shortcomings or deny ourselves. We should not only accept ourselves, but also accept and respect others, so I won't criticize these shortcomings of others. Honesty, openness, sincerity, no posturing, no cover-up, no complacency. I am very concerned about myself, others and the present situation of society, and I am more concerned about how to improve the gap between reality and ideal. Spontaneous, not bound by traditional customs, not resigned to fate, not blindly following, not just rebellious. Its action motivation is not caused by external stimuli, but is based on the internal motivation of personal growth and development and the realization of self-potential.
(7) Pay attention to social due diligence and pay attention to problems. Mentally healthy people are not self-centered, but pay attention to problems other than themselves. More sense of mission is often based on doing one's duty, obligation and instinctive feeling, rather than acting according to personal preferences.
(8) Being detached and refined has the essence of detachment and needs to be quiet and alone. Mentally healthy people know how to enjoy lonely and retired moments in life, which may be related to a person's sense of security and self-sufficiency. When faced with something that will make ordinary people unhappy, you can keep calm and calm, and even act different and extraordinary.
(9) Self-cultivation and self-control have self-control and are not affected by cultural background and surrounding environment. Although they also rely on others to meet some basic needs, such as love and security, respect and belonging, their main satisfaction does not depend on the real world. What they value is not the general external satisfaction, but their own potential and personal resources are constantly growing. Mentally healthy people have high virtues. They clearly distinguish between means and ends, and let ends dominate means.
Modest, democratic, people-oriented and mentally healthy people respect others very much and will not discriminate against others because of class, education, race and color. Because he knows that his knowledge is limited, he is modest, willing to learn from others, respecting everyone, and thinking that others can help him improve his knowledge and be his own teacher at any time.
(1 1) Humor is a philosophical and invincible sense of humor. His sense of humor is not an ordinary sense of humor, but a spontaneous and thoughtful sense of humor that can completely show his personal life experience. This kind of humor is not hostile, romantic or sarcastic.
(12) Innocent and frank creative thinking is a kind of potential creativity hidden in everyone's heart, not those from special talents, but a fresh, naive and direct way of looking at things, with various types. But generally speaking, people's creativity is usually destroyed and submerged in the process of cultural edification.