The biggest problem of left-behind children is the lack of affection. Although there will be grandparents to take care of them, it is difficult to assume the responsibility of children's education when they are old. Basically, it is the responsibility to take care of them to eat and wear warm clothes. Some young left-behind children in remote areas even have to take care of themselves or younger children at home, and older children have assumed the responsibility of "parents".
In addition to the lack of care in daily life, there is a lack of mental and psychological aspects. Children are prone to problems such as indifference, depression, emotional instability and weak self-control, which affect their subsequent growth and life. If you really can't take your child on a long trip, how can you maintain your child's mental health?
1. Before you leave, you should be mentally prepared for your children. Don't leave suddenly, leaving the child unprepared will make him feel uneasy or cheated. Where is Dad going? The first season ",Jimmy Lin and Jimmy and his son, are very typical examples. In the previous issues, Kimi will have a strong resistance to all activities that need to be separated from his father. He can't do without his father. The reasons behind this behavior: Xiao Zhi often travels around the world because of his work, and often Kimi's father has secretly left after waking up, which leads to his strong sense of insecurity and resistance to separation from his father;
2. Keep in touch with parents and children, and regularly separate parents and children by phone or video to understand their children and their recent situation. If conditions permit, you can take your children to your side during the winter and summer vacations;
3. Express care for children. After leaving their parents, young children can easily feel that their parents don't love them. Parents can often express their concern for their children.
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# Pay attention to the psychology of left-behind children and walk through the years left behind together #
For various reasons, there are a large number of left-behind children in both urban and rural areas (especially in rural areas). Some of their parents go out to work and live in the country with their grandparents; Some parents buy or rent a house in the city, then go out to work, leaving their children and the elderly to study and live in the city.
"Companionship is the longest confession", and the companionship of parents is the biggest demand of left-behind children. As teachers, we can't take the place of parents, but we can do some work to pay attention to the mental health of left-behind children:
1. Boot correctly.
For many left-behind children, their hearts are gray and they don't understand why their parents left them. At this time, correct guidance is very important. You can let your child know that it is a last resort for parents to go out to work by chatting. For a better life for everyone; The harder you study, the more likely your parents will come back early.
This will ignite the child's inner hope and let the child exude vitality. I once taught a left-behind child. Her parents had been working in other places during her primary school, but her heart was very sunny. Her college entrance examination is the first in our local science department. Come to me for good news when her grades come out.