Enlightenment Collection of Psychological Short Stories (12.29)
It's never too late
Ni Wenna:
My feeling is that it is never too late for us to do anything. In fact, it is never too late to do anything, as long as you start. As long as we work hard and persist, we will win.
Wang Kewang:
This semester, Mr. Zhou told us many psychological stories, but what I remember most is Never Too Late. I was very moved after listening to it, because of the persistence of the old man and his understanding of the sentence "It's never too late". Some people study badly and think they can accomplish nothing. Some people, even if they got a score or even a zero, did not give up their final efforts and finally succeeded.
The Complex of Poor Students: Humble is from Germination magazine.
Zhang Zhibin:
In my opinion, poor students also have a good side. We can take a good look at the good side of poor students, not to mention that good students will continue to get better, and poor students will not turn over for a day. The teacher's indifference at that time may make the poor student discouraged, but I envy this poor student and his new hope for learning.
The story of nails
Yu Xiaoxiao:
From this story, I understand that even if I pull out the nails that I was angry before, there will always be traces of children's temper, just like the traces of nails nailed on the fence, which will never disappear, so I will try to lose my temper as little as possible, which is good for people and myself.
Zhang Jiena:
This semester, I listened to many "psychological stories", but my favorite story was the story of nails. The inspiration of this story is that every time I lose my temper, I leave a deep hole in people's eyes. There is no way to erase this hole, even if it is erased, there will be scars. When I lose my temper in the future, I must think of this story first and control my emotions. In the past six months,
A fishing rod and a basket of fish
Yu Jiali: This story tells us that we should not only have ideals, but also combine ideals with reality. If we only have dreams in our minds and don't combine them with reality, it's just a daydream. Without ideals and goals, people will be confused, so while we have ideals, we must take actions step by step in combination with reality, so that our future will be bright.
Three little golden statuettes
Wang Tianran:
It taught me more valuable knowledge than gold, that is, God gave us two ears and one mouth to listen more and talk less.
Without this psychological story, I wouldn't have heard the speeches of my classmates in class, if it helped me; Without it, I won't believe others that everyone is not perfect; Without it, I can't hear other people's advice to me. So this little story has brought me a lot of benefits and brought me a lot of happiness. I sincerely thank you, thank you for this story and thank you for bringing us this useful story.
Zhang Yibin:
Since Mr. Zhou told us the short story of "Three Golden Men", I have been very careful in class because I want to be the third golden man. The third gold man keeps what others say in his mind, unlike the first and second gold men, who let others go in one ear and out the other, or let them all flow out of his mouth. I believe everyone will choose the third gold man to motivate themselves like me.
Chen Jia:
Of all the short stories told by Teacher Zhou, I like the short story "Three Golden Men" best. Since Miss Zhou told us this little story, I have been serious in class, because I want to be the third golden man.
Zhao:
In class, we can take this story to remind ourselves that we should insist on being the third golden man in our class.
Zhang Qingqing:
This story tells us that you can't go in one ear and out the other in class. The first gold man must never do it, and the second gold man is also not worth learning. Slip out of your mouth if you don't listen. To be the third golden man, you must turn knowledge into food, and after digestion, it becomes your own thing.
habit
Chong Wang:
"Dad, it's time to turn." So that the cow who didn't understand human language turned a corner and finally pulled the cart and turned away. The cow in the story got into the habit of hearing "Dad, it's time to turn". This shows how important it is for us to form a good habit, which can benefit us for life. Good habits will benefit you for life. That bad habit should be thrown away, and you can't let it ruin your future.
It's beautiful to hold your head high
Chong Wang: People can't live without self-confidence. When taking exams, they should be confident. Be confident when performing. Confidence is everywhere. Be confident at all times. But without confidence, almost nothing will fail. A confident person can take the first step, the second step and the third step. ...
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Chong Wang:
Tell us to cherish time, an inch of time and an inch of gold, every second can not be wasted, and every second should not be cherished.
Psychological height
Kim:
In fact, as long as we don't give up halfway when pursuing our dreams and stick to the end, success is ahead! In fact, our greatest enemy is ourselves. As long as you overcome yourself, you will succeed. It doesn't matter if you don't win the first place in the competition. As long as you overcome the difficulties, you are the winner! Because the important thing to participate in the competition is the process. From now on, I want to make friends with victory and perseverance.
Second, a short story about mental health.
1. Father and son passed the gate of a five-star hotel and saw a very luxurious imported car. The son disdainfully said to his father, "People who ride in this kind of car must have no knowledge in their stomachs!" "The father replied airily," People who say such things must have no money in their pockets! "
Q: Does your view of things also reflect your true attitude? )
After dinner, mother and daughter wash dishes together, and father and son watch TV in the living room. Suddenly, there was a sound of breaking dishes in the kitchen, and then there was silence. The son looked at his father and said, "Mom must have broken it."
"How do you know?"
"She didn't swear."
We are so used to seeing others and ourselves by different standards that we are often strict with ourselves. )
3. A third-grade elementary school student said in his composition that his future wish is to be a clown. A teacher denounced it as: "Without ambition, you can't teach a boy!" Another teacher said, "May you bring laughter to the whole world!" ! "
As an elder, it is not only easy to ask for more than encouragement, but also easy to define success more narrowly. )
In the Palace Museum, a lady said impatiently to her husband, "I said why you walk so slowly and always stop to look at these things."
Some people only know how to run on the road of life, and as a result, they lose the opportunity to see beautiful flowers on both sides. )
My wife is cooking in the kitchen. Her husband has been nagging: slow down. Watch out! The fire is too big. Turn the fish over quickly. Shovel it up quickly, there is too much oil! Level the tofu! "Hey," the wife blurted out, "I know how to cook."
"Of course you know, madam," the husband replied calmly. "I just want you to know how I feel when you are chattering around while I am driving."
It is not difficult to learn to be considerate of others, as long as you are willing to seriously look at the problem from the other side's point of view and position. )
6. A bus full of passengers is driving down the hill quickly, and a man is running after it. A passenger stuck his head out of the window and said to the car chaser, "Dude! Forget it, I can't catch up, take the next trip! " "No, I must catch up with it," the man panted. "I am the driver of this car!"
Some people must work very hard, because otherwise, the consequences will be very tragic! However, it is precisely because we must go all out that the potential instinct and unknown characteristics will finally be fully displayed. )
Socrates' wife is a bitch, very powerful. Once Socrates was giving a lecture to his students, and his wife somehow scolded him. Socrates thought it was enough to scold a few words, so he didn't answer her much. His wife was even more angry when she saw this. When she mentioned a bucket of water, she threw it at Socrates. Socrates was soaked to the skin, and the students were even more dumbfounded. Who knows, Socrates said, "I know it will rain after thunder." The audience was relieved, and a crisis was gently resolved by Socrates.
A psychologist in the former Soviet Union said: Whether you can laugh is an indicator to measure whether a person can adapt to the surrounding environment. Friend, have you been humorous recently?
"Three" Psychological Stories
The story of fisherman and philosopher
A philosopher crossed the river in a fisherman's boat. While sailing, the philosopher asked the fisherman, "Do you know anything about mathematics?" The fisherman replied, "I don't understand." The philosopher asked again, "Do you know anything about physics?" The fisherman replied, "I don't understand." The philosopher asked again, "Do you know chemistry?" The fisherman replied, "I don't understand." The philosopher sighed, "What a pity! In this way, you will lose half your life. " At this time, there was a strong wind on the water and the boat capsized. Both the fisherman and the philosopher fell into the water. The fisherman shouted to the philosopher, "Sir, can you swim?" The philosopher replied, "No." The fisherman said with great regret, "then you will lose your life!" " "
This story contains a very profound philosophy of life: a person who has not learned to swim in the long river of life cannot survive in this long river of life, even if he has learned more other things. Because he lacks basic adaptability and viability.
The more stories about psychology, the better!
In the first year, 10 apples were produced, 9 apples were taken away, and 1 apple was obtained. The apple tree was indignant at this, so it cut itself down and refused to grow. The next year, it produced five apples, four of which were taken away, and it got 1 apple. "Ha ha, I got 10% last year and 20% this year! It has doubled. " This apple tree is psychologically balanced.
However, it can also be like this: continue to grow. For example, in the second year, it produced 100 fruits, 90 of which were taken away and 10 was obtained by itself.
Probably shot 99, and got 1. But it doesn't matter, it can continue to grow in the third year, bearing 1000 fruits. ......
In fact, how much fruit you harvest is not the most important thing. Most importantly, the apple tree is growing! When the apple tree grows into a towering tree, the forces that hinder its growth will be too weak to be ignored. Really, don't care too much about fruit. Growth is the most important thing.
In the first year, 10 apples were produced, 9 apples were taken away, and 1 apple was obtained. The apple tree was indignant at this, so it cut itself down and refused to grow. The next year, it produced five apples, four of which were taken away, and it got 1 apple. "Ha ha, I got 10% last year and 20% this year! It has doubled. " This apple tree is psychologically balanced.
However, it can also be like this: continue to grow. For example, in the second year, it produced 100 fruits, 90 of which were taken away and 10 was obtained by itself.
Probably shot 99, and got 1. But it doesn't matter, it can continue to grow in the third year, bearing 1000 fruits. ......
In fact, how much fruit you harvest is not the most important thing. Most importantly, the apple tree is growing! When the apple tree grows into a towering tree, the forces that hinder its growth will be too weak to be ignored. Really, don't care too much about fruit. Growth is the most important thing.
In the first year, 10 apples were produced, 9 apples were taken away, and 1 apple was obtained. The apple tree was indignant at this, so it cut itself down and refused to grow. The next year, it produced five apples, four of which were taken away, and it got 1 apple. "Ha ha, I got 10% last year and 20% this year! It has doubled. " This apple tree is psychologically balanced.
However, it can also be like this: continue to grow. For example, in the second year, it produced 100 fruits, 90 of which were taken away and 10 was obtained by itself.
Probably shot 99, and got 1. But it doesn't matter, it can continue to grow in the third year, bearing 1000 fruits. ......
In fact, how much fruit you harvest is not the most important thing. Most importantly, the apple tree is growing! When the apple tree grows into a towering tree, the forces that hinder its growth will be too weak to be ignored. Really, don't care too much about fruit. Growth is the most important thing.
The rose withered, but the bee still sucked hard because it had sucked sweetness from this flower before. But now, on this flower, bees are sucking venom.
Bees know this because poison is bitter and tastes very different from before. So, the bee took a sip of it and looked up and complained to the world. Why has the taste changed? !
Finally, one day, I don't know why, the bees flapped their wings and flew a little higher. At this time, it found flowers everywhere around the withered rose.
The rose withered, but the bee still sucked hard because it had sucked sweetness from this flower before. But now, on this flower, bees are sucking venom.
Bees know this because poison is bitter and tastes very different from before. So, the bee took a sip of it and looked up and complained to the world. Why has the taste changed? !
Finally, one day, I don't know why, the bees flapped their wings and flew a little higher. At this time, it found flowers everywhere around the withered rose.
(4) Expand the reading of psychological stories.
Once upon a time, there was a shepherd boy who went to the mountains to herd sheep every day.
One day, he felt bored and came up with an idea to make fun of everyone. He shouted at the farmer who was farming at the foot of the mountain, "The wolf is coming! The wolf is coming! Help! " Hearing the shouts, the farmers rushed to the mountain with hoes and sickles. As they ran, they shouted, "Don't be afraid, son, we will help you kill the wolf!" " "
The farmers rushed to the mountain panting, but there was no sign of the wolf! Wahaha, who was herding sheep, laughed: "That's funny, you were cheated!" The farmers left angrily.
The next day, the shepherd boy did the same thing again. The kind farmer rushed up to help him fight the wolf, but there was still no sign of the wolf. The shepherd boy couldn't bear to laugh: "Ha ha! You've been taken in again! Haha! " Everyone was angry that the shepherd boy lied again and again and never trusted him again.
A few days later, the wolf really came and broke into the sheep. The shepherd boy was very scared. He shouted to the farmers in despair, "The wolf is coming! The wolf is coming! Help! The wolf is really coming! " When the farmers heard his cry, they thought he was lying again. Everyone ignored him and no one helped him. As a result, many sheep of the shepherd boy were killed by wolves.
Main content: A child often uses wolves to fool people and make them stop their work to save him, but later everyone doesn't trust him. When the wolf really came one day, no one believed him. Finally, many of his sheep were killed by wolves!
Wu's mental health story and knowledge.
(A) good at listening
A long time ago, a Mongolian tribal emissary came to China to pay tribute to three identical Jin people. The golden wall was brilliant and the emperor was very happy. But the tribal ambassador was unkind and gave the emperor a question: who is the most valuable of the three gold people?
The emperor thought of many ways, and invited the best jeweler in the country to check the golden villain, weigh him and see his work. The results of all measurement methods are exactly the same. What shall we do? The messenger is still waiting for a return. A vast country, you don't even understand this little thing?
Finally, an old minister who abdicated said that he had an idea. The emperor invited the emissary to the main hall, and the old minister confidently took three straws and inserted them into the ears of three gold people ... into the ear of the first gold person, and the straws came out from the other ear. The straw of the second gold man fell out directly from his mouth, and the straw of the third gold man fell into his stomach without any noise. The old minister said: the third gold man is the most valuable! The messenger was silent and the answer was correct.
This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most talkative person. God gave us two ears and one mouth, which was supposed to make us listen more and talk less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person.
(2) Don't stare at the cup.
On one occasion, several of our classmates went to the university to visit their teachers. The teacher asked us how our life was. In a word, everyone is full of complaints, and everyone is complaining about the unsatisfactory life: the pressure of work is great, the troubles of life are many, the business battle of doing business is not smooth, and the career path is blocked ... For a time, everyone seems to be an abandoned child of God.
The teacher smiled without a word, took out many cups from the room and put them on the coffee table. These cups are all kinds, including porcelain, glass and plastic. Some cups look noble and elegant, others look simple and cheap ... The teacher said, "They are all my students, and I won't treat you as guests." If you are thirsty, please help yourself to water. "
We were thirsty, so we picked up our favorite cup and poured water. When we all had a glass of water in our hands, the teacher spoke. He pointed to the remaining cups on the coffee table and said, "Have you found that the cups you chose are the most beautiful and unique, but no one is like these plastic cups?" We're not surprised. Everyone wants to have a nice cup in his hand.
The teacher said, "This is the root of your troubles. What people need is water, not a cup, but we will choose a good cup consciously or unconsciously. This is just like our life-if life is water, then work, money and status are all cups, and they are just tools we use to hold the water of life. The quality of cups cannot affect the quality of water. If you spend your mind on a cup, how can you taste the bitterness and sweetness of water? Isn't that asking for trouble?
(3) Master performers
Before a master performer came on stage, his disciples told him that his shoelaces were loose. The master nodded his thanks and squatted down to tie it carefully. Disciple turned his back and squatted down to untie his shoelaces. A bystander saw all this, puzzled to ask:
"Master, why did you untie your shoelaces again?" The master replied, "Because I play a tired traveler, I can show his fatigue and haggard through this detail and let his shoes go through a long journey."
"Then why don't you just tell your disciples?"
"He can carefully find that my shoelaces are loose and enthusiastically tell me that I must protect his enthusiasm and encourage him in time. As for why I untied my shoelaces, I will have more opportunities to teach him to perform in the future. I can talk about it next time. "
People can only do one thing at a time, and only by grasping the key points can they become real talents.
Lu's psychological novels
1, the wealth of wealthy businessmen
There is a story about a wealthy businessman who spent a lot of money and collected many precious antiques, calligraphy and painting, pearls and jadeite. In order to guard against theft, he installed a strict security system, and rarely went in to enjoy it on weekdays, only showing it off as part of his personal wealth.
One day, the rich businessman had a whim and decided to let the building cleaner come in and open his eyes. After the cleaners went in, they did not show envy, but slowly browsed and appreciated them carefully. When he walked out of the thick iron gate, the rich businessman couldn't help but say proudly, "How's it going? You didn't live in vain after reading so many good things, did you?
The cleaner said, "Yes, I feel as rich as you and happier than you." The rich businessman was confused and looked unhappy. "I have seen all your treasures, but aren't they as rich as you? I don't have to worry about those things. Isn't it happier than you? " The rich businessman was speechless at once.
Feeling:
Happiness is like a treasure. If you close the door, happiness will not flow to you. When you open your heart, happiness, wealth and true freedom will enter your heart.
4. Happiness is the bowl of water at this time.
A rich man and a poor man are talking about what happiness is. The poor said, "Happiness is now."
The rich man looked at the poor man's hut and shabby clothes and said contemptuously, "how can this be called happiness?" My happiness is a hundred buildings and a thousand slaves. " A fire destroyed hundreds of mansions of the rich, and the slaves went their separate ways. Overnight, the rich became beggars.
In July, a fire broke out, and sweaty beggars passed by the poor man's hut, trying to beg for water. The poor man brought a big bowl of cold water and asked him, "What do you think happiness is now?" The beggar said eagerly, "Happiness is the bowl of water in your hand at this time."
Feeling:
Happiness is now. Only by stringing together the happiness of the present can we have a lifetime of happiness.
Step 5 stay in the green hills
Once, a man called a counselor for help. He said, "It's all over. I'm finished. I don't have a penny, I lost everything. " The counselor said, "Can you still see it?" He said, "I can see." The counselor asked, "Can you still walk?"
He said, "You can still walk." The counselor said, "You can still make phone calls, so you must still hear them." "Yes, I can hear you." The counselor said, "Well, I believe you still have everything. The only thing you lose is money."
Feeling:
When we feel desperate to the extreme, we just lose some external things-money, power and honor, but we still have enough air to breathe and enough food to avoid hunger. Shepherd would rather lose wool than sheep.