Because many families are only children, parents and elders love their children too much. The child was wronged at school, and the old man protested first. Many times, parents' education for their children is "If others are sorry for you, don't accommodate others." Parents' feelings are understandable, but this practice tends to make children narrow-minded.
What should parents do? The correct way is to let children know that there should be a spirit of cooperation with others in reality. For them, this is not conducive to their desire for control. Children should have a broad mind, on the premise that they should not be mean and haggle over every ounce, but tolerate others. Only when children learn to be tolerant can they learn to respect and understand. With tolerance, they can learn good character, help reduce violence and prejudice, and at the same time really let children treat others with tolerance and prejudice. Only compassionate children are kind-hearted, while people who lack tolerance are often narrow-minded and difficult to get close to others, so it is difficult to get along with others. Therefore, parents should not neglect the cultivation of children's endurance.
Teaching children to forgive others' mistakes is a very precious quality. As long as it is reflected in forgiving others' mistakes, most modern children are only children, and they will pay too much attention to their own children. Once they suffer a little injustice, they will feel extremely distressed and will try their best to vent their anger on their children. But educating children in this way will not only lead to bad interpersonal relationships, but also make them stingy and vengeful.
Correctly treat the conflict between children and their peers. When children have disputes with their peers, parents must treat them correctly and let children know that contradictions and conflicts between people are inevitable. Only calm handling is the best policy. Children should also understand that being good to others is good to themselves, and being more understanding and tolerant to others is good to themselves. Teach children to treat others with peace of mind. If children are sharp-tongued and quick-thinking, they can always find omissions that others can't notice, and they always don't express their displeasure, which will hurt others' self-esteem.