Children's mental health is taboo. Children always need the care of their families, and there will be happiness and troubles in the process of growing up. The healthy growth of babies cannot be separated from the patient teaching of parents. In fact, children's world is very pure, so I will share with you the taboos of children's mental health.
Children's mental health taboos 1 First, don't spoil and pamper.
Never leave the "good" mouth, never leave the door, eat whatever you want and wear whatever you want, which will develop a child's wayward character. Parents "love children-drown children-mistake children" is often a trilogy in which some teenagers go astray in real life.
Second, avoid favoritism and connivance.
In daily life, children do something wrong in public, but parents know it is wrong, but they shelter and cover it up for various reasons, which will inevitably make children unable to treat shortcomings and mistakes correctly.
Third, avoid cajoling.
Some parents make up lies to deceive their children in order to be quiet for a while, which can easily make children imitate their parents and develop a hypocritical and dishonest character.
Fourth, avoid irony.
It is counterproductive to be cynical about children and think that they can "inspire" progress.
Fifth, avoid demanding.
Parents "hate iron and not produce steel" for their children, and everything should be perfect, and a little reprimand will make them feel at a loss and suppress their bondage. After a long time, their children may go to the opposite side and go their own way.
Sixth, avoid letting things drift.
If you don't guide and educate your children, let yourself go, do whatever you want, and fail to fulfill your parental responsibilities, the consequences will be unimaginable.
Seventh, do not beat and scold corporal punishment.
In real life, some parents believe in the creed of "don't beat the abrasive", instead of convincing others by reasoning, they beat and scold and punish them by physical punishment. The result of this will not only fail to achieve the purpose of education, but also damage children's self-esteem and often lead to emotional opposition.
Eighth, avoid distraction.
Let children choose suitable games and sports, cultivate their ability to concentrate and concentrate on completing a job, exercise their perseverance, and do everything from beginning to end. Don't repeatedly ask your child to change the content of the activity.
Ninth, avoid insufficient adaptability.
Cultivating children's ability to adapt to the environment is very beneficial to their development.
Tenth, avoid being out of control.
Children should be trained to control their emotions, including their unreasonable demands and wishes.
Eleventh, avoid melancholy silence.
It is necessary to cultivate children's optimistic and humorous personality and avoid unhappiness.
Twelfth, avoid dependence.
Let children experience certain difficulties, learn to overcome them, and temper their body and mind (character and physique). Cultivating children's independent ability from childhood is the key to children's mental health.
Taboos of Children's Mental Health Two Key Points to Ensure Children's Mental Health
1, caring, not doting.
The warmth of maternal love is the primary factor, such as the mother's smiling face, caressing action and kind language during breastfeeding, which not only provides the baby with material nutrition, but also cultivates mental health. In addition to maternal love, there are family members, nursery nurses and so on. It also gives the baby mother-like care and care, makes the baby happy and has trust in the people around him; Instead, it makes the baby dull, timid and fearful. Children's lack of care and attention due to their parents' divorce or widowhood will affect the formation of their healthy personality.
Don't spoil your mouth, don't leave "good", eat whatever you want and wear whatever you want, which will develop your child's wayward character. Father's "loving son-drowning son-making mistakes" is often a trilogy in which some teenagers go astray in real life. And don't be partial, don't indulge. In daily life, children do something wrong in public, but parents know it is wrong, but they shelter and cover it up for various reasons, which will inevitably make children unable to treat shortcomings and mistakes correctly.
2. Parents should set an example and exercise proper discipline.
Set a good example. Parents should develop good living habits and help their children establish good behavior patterns. Don't cheat, often lie to children, and don't keep your word. Some parents make up lies to deceive their children for the sake of temporary peace, which makes them deaf and makes them imitate their fathers and become dishonest.
Allow children to express their feelings freely without interrupting or censoring comments. Children should not be forced to take the side of their parents or try to control their emotions and love.
Don't use corporal punishment to discipline children. Some parents rely on the creed of "don't fight weapons, don't convince people by reasoning, just beat and scold". In this way, they not only fail to achieve the purpose of education, but also hurt their children's self-esteem, often putting them in an emotional opposition with their parents. Whenever parents do something wrong, they should apologize.