What kind of sex life is healthy?

Healthy sex life means that both parties can relax in the ocean of sexual desire and feel the romantic ocean paved by the other party, and they will feel very happy. In this process, men pay more attention to shooting, because medically speaking, holding back shooting will cause prostatitis, which is very harmful, while women pay more attention to the process. This requires tacit communication between the two sides. Of course, you can't just let the other person figure out your mind and what you want to achieve. Hope to adopt. Thank you.