One night, I went to visit a framed friend. While eating, my friend answered the phone. I heard that someone wanted to tell my friend who framed him. My friend said, don't tell me. I don't want to know. I was a little surprised, my friend explained. What if I knew? Some things don't need to know, and some things need to be forgotten.
I appreciate my friend's frankness. Life is often unhappy. If you want to be happy, you have to decompress yourself. A good way to relieve stress is to learn to forget that the needs of life are affordable, and sometimes it is more important to let go. There is a story in the Buddhist scriptures that the young monk and the old monk go to alms together. The young monk looked at the master respectfully and walked to the river. A woman wanted to cross the river, and the old monk carried the woman across the river. The woman thanked him and left. The young monk has been thinking, how can master carry a woman across the river? But he was afraid to ask. After walking 20 miles, he couldn't help it. He asked master, we are monks. How can you carry that woman across the river? Master said flatly, I put her down after carrying her across the river, but you haven't put her down after carrying her for twenty miles.
The monk's words are full of Zen. If you think about it carefully, it is also the truth of life. A person's life is like a long journey. If you keep walking, you will see all kinds of scenery along the way. After a lot of ups and downs, if you keep all the roads you have traveled in mind and look at the past, you will add a lot of extra burdens to yourself. The more experience, the greater the pressure. It's better to forget all the way and keep the light. The past has passed, and time cannot go back. There is no need to worry except learning from experience and lessons.
Willing to forget is a kind of psychological balance, and it needs to face life frankly and sincerely. Some people can forget the embarrassment and embarrassment when they are frustrated, but they relish the pride when they are in good times. Don't you know that success and failure will stay in the past? They always dwell on the past and can't let go. They often say that if I were young, I would look at yesterday's yellow flowers as the beautiful scenery in front of me, let the passing clouds stay in my heart forever, be complacent and complacent, get stuck in myself and vanity, and then make no progress and hesitate. It is reasonable for heroes not to mention their bravery in those days. And chewing the pain of the past repeatedly is a look of eternal misery. Indian poet Tagore said, "If you cry for missing the sun, you will also miss the stars." I'm worried about trifles, but I'm afraid that the ship of mind can't bear it, and the ship of memory can't bear it, so that the painful past can contain the future. An old saying goes well: Being angry is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes. Always obsessed with the shortcomings of others, in fact, it is oneself who suffers greatly, and those who let bygones be bygones are happy and relaxed people.
It is necessary to forget the choice. Some people have things you will never forget in your life. You should not forget them. Ali, a famous Arab writer, once traveled with two friends Gilbert and Martha. When the three of them passed through a valley, Martha slipped. Fortunately, Gilbert pulled him hard and saved him. Martha wrote on a big stone nearby: "Gilbert saved Martha's life on a certain day in a certain year." The three of them walked on for several days until they came to a river. Gilbert quarreled with Martha over a trivial matter, and Gilbert slapped Martha in the face. Misha ran to the beach and wrote, "On a certain day, Gibb slapped Misha." When they came back from their trip, Ali asked Martha curiously why he carved the story of Gilbert saving him on a stone and the story of Gilbert beating him on the beach. Martha replied, "I will always be grateful to Gilbert for saving me." I will remember that. " As for the fact that he hit me, I just forgot all about it with the disappearance of the handwriting on the beach. "This story tells us that it is a duty to remember the help of others and forget the bad treatment of others.
Many people like such a vernacular poem: there are flowers in spring, a moon in autumn, a cool breeze in summer and snow in winter. If you don't mind your own business, this is a good time on earth. Remember some things and some people, forget some things and some people, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, be free and easy in life, and you will feel that life is so beautiful.
Life-life perception log
People don't feel life because they get a lot of love, but because they pay a lot of love, the more they affirm the value of life, the more they get real happiness.
Each of us is like a clown, playing with five balls, which are your work, health, family, friends and soul. As long as one of these five balls is made of rubber, it will rebound when it falls and walks, and that is labor. The other four balls are all made of glass. If you lose it, it will be broken. This passage deserves our deep thought.
If you are completely carefree, you don't know what carefree is. If there is no difference, you will not know how to cherish gathering. If you don't die forever, you don't know how to control your life.
Open your luggage, walk on the stage, regardless of all the applause and boos, then walk off the stage, return to the hotel, pack your bags and go to the next stop in your life. Improving their lives may be just a stop in their lives. What a beautiful curtain call line-"No regrets in this life!"
Teenagers seem to get sick and grow up once in spring after a rain and a heat. The old man seems to have fallen, rained, caught a cold, got sick and got old.
Are there some characters hidden in every other soul, accompanied by joy and desolation? Usually locked up, I dare not touch it, let alone let others know. Until one day when the soul is clear, or when the light comes back, the secular heart is weak and can no longer be locked, and finally the characters are displayed. Will one day, when we leave, we suddenly realize that the person we love most in life is the one who has been forgotten for many years? ......
Remember to praise people who work together. When correcting others, we must first maintain their self-esteem. Focus on what you are doing and try to do your best. Think about whether today's embodiment is comparable to salary. I am very happy to accept this day, and I am sincerely grateful and satisfied. Arrange your life according to your own karma, but don't compare with others.
Isn't it fate to be together every day from birth to death Don't! From strangeness to acquaintance, from gathering to shaking hands, from love to hate, this is fate! The more you look at the joys and sorrows, the more unclear it is, and the deeper the pain! Fate brings us together, understands each other's interests and cherishes each other. I'm glad we met in this life. I hope I can meet you again in the next life, the next life and the next life. Excerpt from short message encyclopedia
Before his death, a famous Indian philosopher threw all his works into the fire, leaving only one comment on life-if life is divided into two parts, the philosophy of life in the first half is "no hesitation" and the philosophy of life in the second half is "no regret". Facing life, we should not only make up our minds, but also have the courage to never regret!
Man is born as empty as a piece of paper, knowing nothing but the instinct of foraging. Therefore, we often regard the baby as ignorance. And sell a person who has never learned a language, is not a toddler, has never studied, and has a certain degree of familiarity with the world, so we say that he already knows. Actually, this is not really known. Only when a person has a certain breadth and depth of understanding of life can he be called understanding.
When we study, fall in love, get married and work, we often have to face the challenges of ups and downs, failures, diseases and disasters, so life is full of ups and downs. In fact, there are many bumps, failures, diseases and disasters that can be prevented. However, after we have experienced great twists and turns, our mentality and lifestyle have undergone qualitative changes, and we will understand that as long as life is the most precious. Unfortunately, we often know that life will come to an end.
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Perception of life
I've lived for so many years, and I've never understood it this way. Although sometimes I can't help but feel sad, my heart is surging, and my heart returns to calm, as clear as a cloud and as bright as moonlight. Think about how many stupid things I have done, how many things I shouldn't have said and how many unnecessary troubles I have caused in my life. But from now on, none of this exists. I don't care about everything around me, I only care about whether my heart is sincere. What belongs to you in life is your own heart, and keeping the innocence in your heart is not in vain. However, the world is strange and unpredictable. Facing the reality, we often doubt, often retreat, often give up, and lose ourselves involuntarily. "If a person does not touch Buddhism, his life will be in vain." Someone once told me. How terrible it is to think of it. I almost stood on the edge of the cliff. If it weren't for this sentence, I might break into pieces. Fortunately, I got lost and walked in the sunshine in a warm and brilliant mood. I don't know what I did in my last life, but I can't make any mistakes in this life. I won't hate anyone and I won't argue with anyone again. I will listen carefully to what others say. Nod if you are right, and don't get angry if you are wrong. I regard the happiness of others as my own happiness, and the happiness of others as my own happiness. I don't care if my colleagues have a problem with me. If my mother criticizes me, I won't contradict her again. And my students, if they fail in the exam, I won't lose my temper with them again. If you worry others because of yourself, it is not others who are wrong, but yourself. If the previous confession was adulterated with falsehood, this time, I am sincere. I really realized that I was wrong. I want to say sorry to all the people I have hurt. I want to thank all the compliments; I appreciate all the humiliation. I appreciate everything life has given me, because setbacks can temper my will, and patience can make you strong. I will bear whatever hardships I encounter, and do everything wholeheartedly, without thinking about what I will get in return. Thanksgiving life, thanksgiving four seasons. I will never pick flowers again, because they are also life. How precious a season is, if you destroy beauty, you will destroy yourself. Moreover, we should learn to care about others and take care of small animals. Love all the creatures in the world, and this love will make you beautiful forever. I used to be afraid of wind and rain, of other people's gossip, and of ghosts wandering in the dark. Now I am not afraid of anything, because Buddhism has taught me confidence and fearlessness. How hard it is to be a person, because you can learn and know a lot of truth. Go to study while you are still alone. It's no use regretting missing this life. Don't think Buddhism is superstition. When you walk in, you will find the true value and meaning of life. If you see me standing in the sunset glow for a long time, it is my heart silently repenting; If you see my eyes full of tears, it's my heart beating gently …
Perception of life
Time has passed quietly year after year, and looking back after several years, I am not alone. ...
Indeed, I am not alone. I have the love of my family, the company of my friends and many people who love me. ...
I have traveled a lot, and slowly I began to mature and learn to bear everything that life has given me! Learn to bear the blessings that let me know the moment of parting from my friends, not the sadness! Learning to bear allows me to cherish when I am away from my family, instead of crying. Learn to bear, let me smile when facing pressure, be calm when facing deception, and slowly heal when facing pain!
After a bumpy road, I learned to be strong. Passed, understood, let me know how to let go of everything that doesn't belong to me! Putting down is also putting down the shackles of yourself for many years! Only by relaxing can we walk out of a more exciting life!
Along the way, I became more and more aware of the power of smiling! A smile can make family fly with peace of mind, a smile can bring friends closer, and a smile can make many people feel warm. Smiling can let those who hate you know that you will not be defeated, and smiling can make those who hit you unable to start! A smile, I just need a smile, so that all those who love me will no longer worry about me!
I want to smile at all the people who love me, and I want to smile at all the people I love …
Feel life, mood diary.
Life is like a dream, time flies. I'm a little emotional during this period. Just graduated for more than a year, moved from Shanghai to Hangzhou, and will soon move from Hangzhou to Ningbo for development. Career prospects seem brighter and more promising. What's even more ridiculous is that a wife falls from the sky ... everything is so sudden and incredible ... I can't believe the truth. Daydreaming, I'm afraid.
But even if I am happy, I am afraid it will come too soon. I have already lived in this luxury apartment when I was still attached to my single dormitory. Before I get used to the beautiful city of Hangzhou, I will leave in a hurry ... I feel a little unspeakable and even a little chest tightness. I made all kinds of decisions with my ability to distinguish things from things. I know these decisions are right ... but even if they are right, I still feel deeply uncomfortable. Do I feel sick?
I have never doubted my IQ, but I know I can't be a great man. Love is life to me, and I can't live without feelings, so I think I can only be a high-end technician, not a businessman or a leader in the end. The beautiful scenery in my heart is still wandering around on bicycles with my beloved at sunset, still chasing by the sea, and still two white-haired old people watching the sunset for me at the top of the mountain.
I want a child to make him/her a happy person. Think about the grievances he/she suffered during his/her growth, and let him/her live with love and ease. Like an angel, he/she will be as handsome as me, as beautiful as a wife, as smart as snow ... and surpass me and her.
Think about the past, think about the future and often fantasize about trying McDonald's.