Recently, the uncivilized phenomenon exposed by the media has led people's perspective to the proposition of family building again and to the cultural practice of parents educating their children. Because many social problems are caused by family education. Parents' virtue will affect children's personality development, and parents' utilitarian myopia will also hinder children's vision and mind. Often petty profits in front of them will ruin their life pattern, and a wrong decision will bring lifelong regret to children.
As Adler, a famous Austrian psychologist, said, "Lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, while unfortunate people are cured by childhood all their lives." After leaving family of origin, everyone will bear the subtle influence of their parents on their lives, and then continue to build their own family.
"Home" is a social body owned by human beings, which embodies profound educational philosophy and life wisdom. It is not only closely related to everyone's growth, but also vital to the harmonious development of society. Parents not only give their children life, but also should be the most important growth planner on their life path. We should not only teach them the truth, goodness and beauty of the world, but also guide their growth direction with their own words and deeds. Therefore, in order to improve the art of parents' education for children and let children really shoulder the dignity responsibility of "parents love their children, so they are far-reaching", we must improve the practical logic of family construction.
Teacher Wang Jihua's Family Instructions teaches people to form a kind, honest and serious code of conduct on the basis of the "knowledge" system of being a man and doing things. It not only constructs the internal order of the family with the "civilized" rules planted by spiritual beliefs, but also fills the vitality of people's souls with the "cultural" ecology that leads fashion.
The systematic composition of its profound meaning is to think about the family's dignity responsibility in the era of serving the country and making contributions from the strategic height of "coordinating the two overall situations at home and abroad". It consciously raises the family problem to the height of national construction and national rejuvenation, not only following the logical wisdom of "those who do not seek the overall situation are not enough to seek territory, but those who do not seek the whole world are not enough to seek the moment", but also helping people to form a positive family position in cohesive cultural construction.
Its educational logic of perfecting personality and soothing the soul lies in scientifically guiding related family elements such as father culture, mother culture, children culture, and husband and wife culture through the epistemological theory of philosophical thinking, and speculatively summarizing conceptual cultural elements such as nourishing the spirit, being both wise and brave, being responsible for the country, being true, good and beautiful, and being happy. The governing function of philosophy is not limited to grasping the laws of education and guiding the direction of education, but should rise to a kind of high-order wisdom with profound knowledge and theory.
The paradigm of knowing and doing, which combines theory with practice, encourages parents to play the role of spiritual mentor to the maximum extent and improves the rules for the generation of family "moral classics". In the educational atmosphere of healthy psychology, love of beauty and Confucianism, it is also necessary to lead and infiltrate virtue through the direction of "Tao" and forge an aesthetic personality that is not utilitarian, does not worry about the world, and melts the ego into the big one.
In a word, the new era not only gives us a better and happier life and a more suitable living environment, but also gives us a great mission and ideological task necessary to realize national rejuvenation. The strategic mission of the cultural power era not only needs Li Zhuo's goal benchmark of "who to train, how to train people and for whom", but also needs to form a unique family talent training specification and directional overall planning in the life Dojo of family education, with the essence and ideological tension rooted in China and the internal mechanism of writing and casting the world, so as to broaden children's horizons, broaden children's spirit and cast children's personality and temperament.