Mother opened her son's textbook and his blood pressure soared: Why do children like to draw little people?

Two days ago, a mother in Chongqing attended the parents' meeting of her son in junior high school. When she opened a pile of books on her son's desk, she found that the lower corner of each page was painted with little people by her son.

When turning continuously, these little people's movements are not only coherent but also smooth, which looks like a secret book of Wulin, making their mother's blood pressure soar.

When the mother looked through her son's art exercise book again, she found that every page was full of pictures, either a whole page of guns arranged neatly or dinosaurs of different shapes.

At this point, the mother had completely given up her son and quipped sarcastically, "In the future, my son will sweep the streets of the whole city."

Ha ha ha ha! There is no need for the mother to be angry. Netizens have commented that your son is a talented person, and some even suggested that the mother send her son to learn painting at once!

Another netizen appeared and said, "What's the matter? When I was a student, everyone liked it. At that time, the students around me asked me to draw. "

In fact, even if children paint just for fun, parents don't have to be too nervous. Isn't it good to give children a small decompression space under the heavy study condition?

After all, parents want their children to have a better mental state than learning, so that they can really have the last laugh in the long learning journey.

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Children all like to draw little people.

Why should I persuade this mother not to be angry? Because I have a son with the same paragraph. The exercise book is full of all kinds of guns, which is called "drawing gun book". He also enthusiastically explained to me the purpose of each gun.

As for textbooks, he will draw little people in many small corners. When I found him, I asked him when he painted it. He said with a smile that it was painted in the self-study class because he had nothing to do after finishing his homework.

When I first found out, I was angry and funny. I tried to warn him not to draw in the future, but he said, "All the students in our class are drawing. Boys draw guns and girls draw princesses. "

I asked Xiao Min doubtfully that she had a daughter. As a result, she said with a bitter face: "Don't mention it, I have cleaned her up several times for this!" " "

It turned out that Xiao Min warned her daughter not to draw any princess pictures in the textbook, but her daughter pinched her neck and said, "I didn't draw them in class, but only after class!" "

Seeing that her daughter disagreed, Xiao Min threatened, "I want to see your paintings again. Do you believe I tore up your book? " The daughter still said firmly, "If you tear me up, I won't go to school!" "

I was so angry that Mandy almost turned her back. How can her obedient and clever daughter stubbornly draw small pictures? She doesn't want her daughter to waste her time on these idle hours, does she?

Lao Pan, a master of the Central Academy of Fine Arts, believes that the age of four to seven years old is an important period for painting narrative expression, and its significance lies not only in the superficial effect of the picture, but more importantly, this process helps children's thinking and emotional growth, which can make them more independent and free to express themselves.

In fact, when children draw all kinds of guns, dinosaurs and princesses, they not only express their happiness freely, but also release their emotions and relieve their depressed mood.

In the process of children's arbitrary creation, they can freely express their feelings, and can release various pressures such as learning through the pen in their hands, so that physical and mental fatigue can be alleviated.

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How do parents treat their children to draw villains?

In the "20 19 Special Investigation Report on Outside School Counseling Market and Academic Burden of Primary and Secondary School Students", it is shown that the physical and mental health of primary and secondary school students is seriously affected by academic pressure, mainly manifested in lack of sleep, poor eyesight, obesity and suicide.

While in school, 50.0% of primary and secondary school students work for 3 to 4 hours every day, and 38.7% of primary and secondary school students can finish their homework within 3 hours. Every child faces great academic pressure.

Children in primary and secondary schools are in an unstable period of physical and mental development. Under the increasing academic pressure, it is undoubtedly a very quick and effective way to relieve stress by picking up strokes and drawing villains.

First of all, parents rationally treat their children to draw villains.

Many parents will criticize their children when they see their textbooks and exercise books in a mess. Some even asked experts online, "My son often draws little people and strange things in textbooks. What is the reason? "

In fact, as long as the children are not stubbornly immersed in it, parents don't need to be too nervous. This is the behavior that most children like. After all, they hold pens for a long time every day.

Of course, you can't stop the child rudely. You know, children are rebellious. The more parents don't let them do it, the more they want to do it, but their parents can't achieve the expected results.

Educating children should not be blocked. When parents realize that drawing a villain is just a trivial matter, children will feel the respect of their parents and will not be too addicted to drawing a villain.

Secondly, parents allow their children to doodle.

I asked my son why he likes to draw models of various guns. The son said, "I am very happy when I draw a gun, and I will forget that there are so many homework to write."

The children's words are simple. They just want to temporarily escape from the study state and relax their brains and bodies by drawing a few strokes during the intense and heavy study process.

Dr. Sheldon Cohen, a professor of psychology at Carnegie Mellon University in the United States, believes that constant stress will reduce the sensitivity of immune cells, reduce the ability to resist inflammation, and double the chance of catching a cold.

Therefore, parents allow their children to doodle, in fact, they allow their children to relax properly. Knowing how to relax will enhance their memory, reduce the symptoms of depression and help them face their studies in a better state.

Third, parents help their children plan their time.

Someone in Zhihu asked: What kind of experience is drawing in class? In more than 400 responses, many people proudly displayed their paintings in class.

However, class time is not what you want to do after all. A netizen said that he could not extricate himself from class regardless of whether it was painted. His academic achievements range from being a bully in junior high school to a scum in senior high school.

Finally, he didn't take the college entrance examination. Even though he can be self-sufficient now because of technology, he still suggests that everyone listen carefully in class. If he doesn't want to take a career path, he must not neglect his studies.

Parents need to warn and guide their children. They can draw whatever they want after class or after finishing their homework, but they still need to concentrate when they should concentrate on their studies. This is the bottom line and principle.

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A mother posted a photo of her child writing the number "0" on Weibo. At first glance, there is nothing wrong with it. Why did her mother write "It is estimated that the team of villains will be drawn in the textbook in the future"?

Take a closer look, it turns out that the child drew an equally big "0" next to the bold "0" in the upper left corner. Most importantly, the child also drew hands and feet. He is a lovely little person!

Don't think that children are young and start drawing little people just after they can hold a pen, not to mention those children who went to primary school. Someone has published his own primary school textbook. Although the two horses are not well drawn, they look happy. Is it?

Some people have exposed many pictures of tampering with textbook illustrations, putting their bodies and limbs on their heads, riding motorcycles and poets, and changing writers into superman costumes. Nothing is unexpected for children.

Drawing villains is a precious and unique memory in the process of children's growth, which allows children to leave more beauty and happiness in their study career, not just the bitterness and pain of academic depression.

A study by the University of London in the United Kingdom shows that people who were restricted too much by their parents and interfered with their privacy in childhood have poor independence, strong dependence and low happiness index when they grow up.

For the healthy growth of children, parents should give their children time and space to draw villains, so that children can grow up happily all the way!