Therefore, people who are good at gratitude are often more popular and will get the support of many people. Yale University once said that gratitude ability is a core competitiveness, and people with this ability often have more development prospects.
Gratitude is very important, because gratitude actually runs through every stage of our life growth. Gratitude also makes it easier for us to live in harmony with others and helps us live a more meaningful life.
1. Grateful parents: Know how to drink water and think about the source.
Once in front of an Apple product store, a girl was holding an iPad (tablet computer) with a sad face. Not far away, a middle-aged woman squatted in the corner, holding a tissue in her hand and sobbing from time to time.
According to the salesperson, this girl is about to go to college in other places, and today she came here to buy digital products: "She will buy three sets of apples, i Phone4, iPad3 and Macbook, and they must be well matched. The expenditure of more than 20,000 yuan made her mother a little overwhelmed. " Just after saying this, the girl roared: "If you don't buy it for me, let me go to college, shame!" Then he left his mother and walked away.
It can be said that this girl is a microcosm of modern children. Many modern young people actually lack the consciousness of thanking their parents. They often ignore their parents' efforts and care, and are not grateful for their parents' upbringing. Some modern people only ask their parents blindly, but don't know how to care, be considerate and repay their parents.
And those who know how to be grateful to their parents will really know how to think about drinking water. When we were born, our parents raised us selflessly. In the growing years, they have been sailing for us. No matter what setbacks or failures we encounter, they are always behind us, giving us understanding and support. Whether we are rich or poor, they love us deeply and tell us that in their eyes, we are the best!
"But how much love an inch of grass has, and I got three spring rays." Grateful parents remind us that we need to drink water to think about the source of life, which is also the foundation of our human conscience. He built the core of our life.
2. Grateful teachers and students: know how to grow and know how to lead.
Teachers are our guides on the road to growth. Teachers teach us to do things, teach us to be human, and guide us to the road of life. When we encounter setbacks, the teacher helps us to hold up the sails of progress;
When we are confused and confused, the teacher gives us guidance. When we are proud of our achievements, the teacher's timely on-demand makes us awake and grateful. It will always be a poem in our hearts.
Lin Qingxuan once said that he was always grateful to his Chinese teacher. At that time, his grades were very poor, with only 30 points in mathematics. But once when the teacher invited him to dinner, he said to him, I dare to swear with my life that you will definitely make great achievements in the future. Lin Qingxuan was deeply moved, and the teacher's approval ignited his inner dream. He vowed never to live up to the teacher's expectations.
Later, he realized that his Chinese teacher was not only talking to him, but also talking to everyone in the class. How can such a teacher not be touching?
It can be said that a good teacher is sometimes a noble person in our life, giving us the direction of growth, telling us how to choose and giving us the warmest support.
3. Learn from your friends: Be grateful to your friends.
A TV host also said: Friends are the people you forget most easily, the people you look for first when you are in pain, the people who help you but don't say "thank you", the people who don't have to feel guilty after being disturbed, and the people who will never change their names when you are promoted step by step.
A philosopher once said that the people you travel with are more important than where you want to go. Friends are like-minded people in our lives. Having like-minded friends can often make our limited life shine.
What your friends say and do is also a mirror for you, which can expose your shortcomings. Similarly, you are a mirror of your friends, and this mirror can never lose the principle of being a man. Being kind to friends is to build a bridge to the future for yourself and a tower of happiness for yourself.
Lack of true friends is the saddest thing in life. Without friendship, you can only live in the wilderness without lights in your life. No wonder some people say, "It is enough to have a bosom friend in life, and we should treat it with the same heart."
Generally speaking, the beauty of human beings is presented by love, and gratitude is the most beautiful seed in human hearts. After it germinates, it blooms and bears fruit, bearing the fruit of love. In this sense, people who know how to be grateful must have great love in their hearts and will take care of, comfort, care for and love others. This is the key for them to go further.