On the news, we often see a child jumping from the upstairs, a child shutting himself in the house, a child running away from home and so on. These phenomena reflect not the willfulness of children, but the importance of mental health education.
Let's look at a case first: Lele was originally an optimistic and cheerful child, but at the age of nine, his parents divorced, and his parents took less care of him, just quarreled constantly. Lele seems to be a different person, no longer talking and laughing, and no longer playing with his classmates at school. He just sits alone in his seat, and the teacher communicates with him, but he doesn't say a word. Later, Lele had a fight with her classmates, and the teacher called Lele's mother to school. Lele's mother scolded Lele in front of the teacher without asking why, and the teacher quickly stopped her. Lele kept his head down, and the volcano in his heart seemed to erupt at once.
"Lele mom, why don't you ask the children why they fight first?" The teacher said.
"Sorry, teacher, I have many things at home, and I …" Lele's mother said.
"There is nothing to vent on children." The teacher finished watching Lele, whose eyes were still low, and said, "I asked him, but he didn't say anything. You are his mother, so ask him. "
Lele's mother knelt down and asked, "Lele, why are you fighting?" Tell mom. "Lele didn't speak. Lele's mother asked again, but Lele still didn't speak. Lele's mother saw this and her temper came up again. She snapped, "Go ahead! Why did you fight! "This sound completely made Lele's inner volcano erupt." Why? ! He said my parents divorced! He called me a wild boy! Why do you have to divorce! Why do you have to divorce! Why! "Lele cried, and so did her mother.
Nowadays, the phenomenon of parents' divorce is quite common, which brings more and more family problems. In the face of parents' divorce, children can do nothing. Do they want this? Of course not. When parents who have been with them for many years leave like this, children will inevitably have various ideas in their hearts. They may think that their parents don't want them, or they just don't want to be apart, or it may be for other reasons. These strange ideas of children will inevitably affect their lives, break their existing living habits, make them feel disgusted with love, affect their physical and mental health, and even affect their future lives.
In this regard, we can't change the fact that our parents divorced. What we do is to make children accept the reality. Therefore, first of all, parents should cultivate their children's ability to resist stress and let them try their best to accept the facts. Parents should not spoil them too much, that is, spoil them, especially their elders. Overindulgence is like a flower in a greenhouse, once it leaves, it will wither. Secondly, parents should properly let their children know what love is, treat their parents' love and divorce objectively and correctly, and let their children know that this is a matter for their parents and will not change their love for them. It is worth noting that don't repeatedly emphasize each other's mistakes in front of children, which will make children more disgusted and rebellious.
Children's mental health education is very necessary for contemporary children. Only good psychology and healthy psychology can bloom brilliant flowers and avoid unnecessary losses. Here I also want to emphasize that parents should not always care about their children's grades, but also pay attention to their psychological activities, especially adolescent children.
Finally, I wish you all health, happiness and happiness!