0 1, language violence
Verbal violence is a common form of violence besides physical violence. The party who uses verbal violence will often attack each other with words, insult and abuse each other. No matter what you do, it is not correct in the other person's eyes. He will always try his best to find reasons to scold you.
My cousin had such a bad experience before. Her husband wants to divorce her without a good reason, so he always finds fault with his cousin on some trivial matters. Then "take this opportunity to attack" and say something unpleasant and hurtful to my cousin. Finally, my cousin couldn't stand it anymore, and the two divorced.
The lethality of verbal violence is no worse than that of physical violence, which will have a great impact on our hearts. Some people suffer from language violence for a long time, which may lead to JS obstacles, or even more than one.
02, emotional violence
Emotional apathy is the most unacceptable mode of getting along in marriage. If the other person ignores your love for a long time, you will lose confidence in this relationship sooner or later. Feelings need the joint efforts of two people, and no one can sustain them.
A love I talked about in college was also due to emotional violence and eventually broke up. At that time, my ex-girlfriend had someone she liked and wanted to break up with me. But she didn't feel justified and didn't want to take the responsibility on herself, so she chose to ignore me. As long as I send her messages, she basically chooses to ignore them. Even if I reply sometimes, it is a simple "hmm".
03, economic constraints
In family life, it will be very bad if the man restricts the woman's economy, especially if the woman is a housewife. As housewives, women have no economic income. If the man limits your daily expenses at this time, it is tantamount to telling you that you must listen to him in life, and you may be inseparable from him.
Some men always feel that the whole family depends on themselves and the woman has no contribution to the family. So many small details in life will show disrespect or even contempt for the woman. I have such an example around me. A female friend of mine resigned to take care of her family after giving birth. The man not only doesn't appreciate the woman's efforts at all, but also thinks that the other person is "eating white rice", so their lives become insignificant.
If you suffer from domestic violence, then you must not speak out timidly and bravely, and learn to use legal weapons to safeguard your legitimate rights and interests. This is your most correct choice.