Personal words and deeds are also important. People who speak directly don't like their colleagues because they often speak openly and blurt out. Although they meant no harm, they actually made enemies in secret. If you do it well, it is easy to become intimate friends with others. If you don't do it well, you may become enemies. The following article is a quotation from the circle of friends in the workplace that I have compiled for you. I hope it will help you.
1. All setbacks and sorrows can make us suffer and cry when they happen. However, when we look at them after a distance, we can feel a little sweet bitterness. The loss of that year has actually become the gain of today. Just wait patiently, let time run slowly and slowly flow into a wide river.
2, go to work every day, stay up late, wine is water, no spirit, people are in a daze, and their hearts are broken.
3. For bad reviews in the workplace, if you are angered by mean criticism, further let your emotions affect your work status, and then make further mistakes in your work content, then you can't do it. If we can put aside too many words and listen to our own critical areas, we may really improve the quality of our work.
4. Clean up the office network, starting with reading code words.
If you only pay attention to your boss and the vertical relationship between superiors and subordinates at work, but ignore the horizontal relationship with colleagues, it is difficult to improve the relationship with colleagues. If you don't get along well with your colleagues, you will find it difficult to get promoted.
6. Even among friends in the workplace, competition should be regarded as a normal, natural and positive objective thing, and no one can avoid it. The result of argument always leads to effective improvement of work. Competition can promote the improvement of ability, be modest but not give in, actively respond to competition or opportunities, and do your best when it is time to do it.
7, see the boss passive mew mew, this is forced out; Seeing the same level of laughter is false; Seeing the fierce crowd is a natural expression of emotions. Will improvise, vary from person to person, see the move, this is the foundation of the organization, but also the way to survive
8. Many communication in the workplace can actually be more personal. When the company holds activities, it can arrange more people to show their private side, which will help to close the distance between them. I have always longed for professional precision and tacit understanding in team work.
9. The subjective mistakes made by people who screw things up exceed the objective conditions, and there are three fundamental reasons for making subjective mistakes: vanity, jealousy and utilitarianism. In fact, these three factors affect each other. Individuals love vanity, but hope to get so much glory without so much contribution, and naturally they will break the law and put themselves in a contradictory position.
10, you envy others with a monthly salary of tens of thousands, but you don't know the hard work of working overtime until late at night. Envy the freedom that others can play around, but I don't know what he gave up for this freedom. Everything has a price, whether it is wealth, career, love or freedom. People are always others, and other places are always other places. When you walk by, the place where you are now will become another place for you. Don't live anywhere else, but live here.
1 1. All your boss's promises are actually empty promises. In the field, only what is done counts, and what is said is usually just nonsense.
12, the workplace is a dynamic existence, not static. Try to look at the so-called dilemma from the perspective of long-term career planning. With the improvement of personal comprehensive ability and career, personal development and salary will certainly have better development.
13. When you choose a career, you choose an attitude towards life. When you can't choose a career, first cultivate your love for work and find something interesting to do on the way to cultivate your love. In this way, work will become a part of your life, and you will become excited and enjoy life.
14, please don't think things too complicated, in fact, the answer is like this!
15. As a supervisor, if you want others to recognize your position, you should associate with your friends at the same level or higher. This is not a snob, but a reality. The concept of industrial social stratum is especially valued, and position and friends are symbols of status. If you pay attention, you will find that other supervisors have more contact with people at the supervisor level.
16, people often say that a person should "sit and stand, stand and stand", especially for the image, whether it can stand well is more related to the success or failure of the image. To think that standing posture is a simple matter, only a good standing posture can have a good image.
17, the elevator is the best occasion for an affair. According to my years of careful research, the place where I meet handsome guys in the workplace is either the office or the conference center. If you meet someone you like, you can take the elevator and smile at him, or you can accidentally bump into him. This is how office romance often begins.
18, any boss, at least some people. Our rich work experience and general strategy of interacting with people are worth learning, and we should respect their wonderful past and impressive performance. A boss is not perfect, and he doesn't necessarily just listen to the boss's orders, but it should also be remembered that giving advice to the boss is only a small part of his work, and the ultimate goal is to strive to improve and move towards a new realm.
19, take a tennis ball, a small rubber ball or something else with you. Squeeze and pinch when the pressure is too great to vent, which is obviously much better than pinching colleagues' necks, tearing waste paper hysterically and striking the table in everyone's dumbfounded eyes.
20. A real cow is not a born cow, but a person who keeps making progress through amazing efforts. In the world, unearned luck will never be abandoned. In the process of hard work, it is very important to know what you can do, and more importantly, what you can't do. Everyone wants to change the world, but few people want to change themselves. I am willing to change because I am afraid of the consequences. It's not that there is no chance, but that I won't choose.
2 1, Wang Xifeng in A Dream of Red Mansions gives us a clear answer: cleverness is mistaken by cleverness. Xifeng is clever as ice and snow, and she is simply the best among people. I'm afraid few men in the world can match her. All-round exquisite, all-round response to life, soft outside and rigid inside; She smiles at you on the surface, but she is putting a condom on you in her heart. Jia Rui, who secretly loves her, is turned into a lonely soul by her strategy; You Erjie, who secretly loves her husband, was forced to swallow gold by her duplicity; However, her "stealing the beam to change the bag" made Li stiff and her fragile life was lost.
22. Our heart is crystal water at first. It took a long time to discover that there was always painful dust falling. That glass of water is spotless, depending on how you use your intelligence and wisdom to filter impurities in your life. If the fruit is always stirred up and the scum keeps rising, the pain will fill our spirit. If the dust slowly settles down, only in this way can we make every day as clear as possible.
23. Every choice must be a transcendence, otherwise don't choose; Every time you give up, you must be a sublimation, otherwise don't give up. Choosing to give up means that we should be more perfect, and having shortcomings means that we should work harder. Giving up is a kind of wisdom, and defect is a kind of grace. Strive for new goals, life will be more exciting and life will be more fulfilling.
24.marketing It is very necessary to pay attention to the internal governance and norms of enterprises for many years. If you are stronger than the outside, you must first give it to the inside. Only by self-improvement can you be strong. In fact, I am most interested in the operation and management at the market level, because it is the most direct and can help more people with wealth dreams to succeed by legal operation. Every time I go on a business trip, I am willing to spend more time visiting the market, communicating with merchants and understanding the needs.
25. Perhaps many people take it for granted that messy environment easily interferes with thinking and judgment, but facts show that visual and psychological clutter will force people to concentrate, and at the same time, it will clear their minds and stimulate creativity. The famous scientist Einstein and writer roald dahl are both famous for their messy desks.
26. For a newcomer in the workplace, the secret of staying energetic lies in an empty cup mentality. In a new environment, you might as well tell yourself that I am an empty cup. I want to fill as much water as possible. Every time you feel full, you should return to zero with an empty cup, let new water be injected again, and always remind yourself that this cup will never be full.
27, as the saying goes: raise your hand and don't smile. When you get along with your colleagues, if you feel speechless about the topic they are discussing enthusiastically, then you should learn to smile and listen. Make eye contact when the other person speaks.
28. Life is a process, so is success. Satisfied with small success will promote great success. Great people know the hard process of growing up, so after a small success, they can continue to open the next "sealed bag" of life.
29. When you first enter the workplace, you should be calm and broad-minded; Work actively and modestly; Be low-key and do things seriously; Take the initiative in your eyes and be disciplined in your behavior; Be careful and concentrate; Always be optimistic and always be cautious. You have a successful career and smooth sailing.
30, to solve the problem, first of all, from the "analysis of the status quo, understand the status quo".
3 1, don't promise when you are happy, don't answer when you are sad, and don't decide when you are angry. Will listen, listening is a kind of wisdom, a kind of accomplishment, a kind of spiritual communication, calm is a state of mind, is a kind of maturity. Luck will not always be partial to you, nor will it always ignore you. It is because there is hope that you work hard, and attitude determines everything. What kind of attitude and what kind of future; Character determines fate.
32. When an employee works hard and has no distractions, he will really devote himself to his work and do his work better, and success will naturally come closer to him. Don't always relax your business study, learn to have expertise and become the backbone or "top" in a certain field.
33. In the workplace, learn to speak out, especially frankly about your inner feelings, feelings, pains, thoughts and expectations, but never criticize, accuse, complain or attack.
34. An example is better than a hundred teachings in the book, and a competitor is better than a hundred followers. Generally speaking, the more competitors you have, the stronger your motivation and the higher your enthusiasm for learning. The driving force of competitors is so strong that it will help you succeed all the way as long as you can make rational use of it.
35. Stand up to your enemies in the workplace. Your enemies can't wait to catch your pigtails. When you make a mistake, they immediately accuse you and won't keep you. They attack your most vulnerable place. Look the enemy in the eye, this is a good opportunity for you to mend your armor and make up for your shortcomings.
36. In the process of interacting with people, the power of love is enormous. This force is a kind of gravity, which makes the distance between people shorter. Children should make good use of the power of love to change our interpersonal relationship.
In life, everyone has self-esteem. If we take care of others' faces, their self-esteem will not be hurt. Sample, others will respect you more, and everyone's feelings will naturally be closer.
38. As far as workplace experience is concerned, the following points are very important. First, we must clearly understand the goals of superiors and departments; Second: study more and combine what you have learned with your post; Third, pay attention to data and look for opportunities from data changes; Fourth: take responsibility and do your best; Fifth: Don't make the same mistake; Sixth, be passionate, have a positive work attitude, be kind to others and be good at communication.
39. "Like" and "Don't like" go home! Otherwise, no salary will be paid! Pay the tuition!
40. People who are full of doubts about others but full of confidence in the workplace tend to be paranoid, good at expressing their views and prone to ideas that are inconsistent with others, especially when interacting with partners or colleagues. Poor communication can easily lead to conflicts between customers and colleagues.
4 1, smiling is really important. Although some people smile beautifully, his smile is not reassuring. When we meet again, we should smile brightly, transparently and aboveboard. Don't make the other person feel psychologically exhausted. Let the other person feel that you are not demanding of her. Only in this way can she relax and accept you.
42. Entanglement and noise can't make love last. Sometimes, persistence is embodied in wordless patience and silent acceptance. Seemingly unloving, it can make love free and immortal. Adhere to eternity, only care about what you once had. Actually, it's just despair of eternity. Love is the communication between love and affection, and the echo of love and affection. You don't need to go hand in hand, you need to be soul mate.
43. Losing a relationship is bound to be painful, but no matter how painful it is, remember to go to bed on time, get up early, eat regularly, exercise regularly, meet friends, communicate with parents and enjoy the brightest sunshine in the world. Use the precious time of life to shed tears, and that person will no longer feel sorry for your tears. If you remember that he doesn't love you, you should love yourself more.
44. Try to go further than others-the accumulation of experience is an important and necessary lesson for everyone in the workplace. It is the most important link in our career accumulation to extract and summarize replicable experiences from a large number of materials and use these experiences to solve problems properly. For the same information, everyone's salvage experience is very different, which is not only the difference of professional attitude, but also the embodiment of ability.
45. Starting today, force yourself to think of an idea every day, and you will easily find opportunities to make money everywhere.
As bosses, if we don't work wholeheartedly, who will do everything for us? On the contrary, if the staff see us working so hard, they will be full of energy.
47. Nowadays, office workers get up earlier than chickens, sleep later than dogs, work more than cows and eat worse than pigs. Hey, they really deserve this salary. Overtime. See you tomorrow! No, overtime. See you every day!
48. Managers with strong affinity have close relations with subordinates, are easier to approach and communicate, and have more prestige, so their words carry more weight. With affinity, the misunderstanding and estrangement between cadres and masses can be solved easily. Therefore, affinity is the adhesive between leaders and employees, and it is an important factor in the formation of the cohesion of the whole team.
49. Don't delay things that can be answered or solved immediately.
50. Don't let your parents accompany you. In the talent market, parents should not be allowed to make suggestions around, otherwise it will leave a bad impression of "lack of independence" for employers.
5 1, action spirit-resist pressure and never give up. Frustration and hardship are God's disguised gifts. Who can stick to his wisdom and courage until he opens them, and will surely get the precious wealth inside!
52. Successful people are diligent in practicing basic movements.
53. Distinguish levels-In order to better enhance managers' sense of leadership responsibility, managers at all levels should inform their department heads and arrange changes in addition to immediately correcting the mistakes in their subordinates' work. The disadvantages of leapfrog management outweigh the advantages, which will only disturb the normal management order and weaken the management responsibility of the specific person in charge. Never interfere in other people's affairs. We advocate step-by-step reporting and leapfrog complaints; Oppose leapfrog reporting and command.
54. Speak with data and do things with passion-success requires your passion. The hardest thing to do is to do simple things repeatedly!
55. Public servant leadership, open management-public servant leadership: guide, coach, cheerleader; Sincerity, equality, harmony and education.
You can try to spend a day praising others instead of blaming them. You will find that when popularity is established, you will easily gain respect and happiness. When good things happen to you, you will feel happy, and establishing a good working environment will make your work easier.
57. The king of the workplace refers to a narcissist who is excellent but difficult to serve. Some of them are aggressive, critical, passive and talk endlessly about themselves. But now, Tianhou and her male counterpart are everywhere, and they are everywhere in the workplace, social occasions and public places. Researchers say that these are unhealthy divas, and their narcissism usually stems from inferiority complex: they have been trying to cheer themselves up.
Missionaries, researchers and bystanders. I have been trying to be a preacher, imparting management knowledge and spreading management ideas; I have been playing the role of a professional manager, experiencing and testing my experience in practice. I have been working as a researcher, just like a doctor, diagnosing enterprises, providing solutions to enterprises and guiding them to implement. Of course, he is also a bystander. It is more rational and real to look at the world coldly and look at the enterprise from the perspective of a third party.
59, 1. Do high-profile things; 2. Maintain relative independence; 3. Control moderate voiced sound; 4. If you tolerate others, you will show your true colors; 5. If you are a low-key person, you can turn around; 6. Misfortune comes from the mouth, so don't bother yourself; 7. Don't be too explicit; 8. Use the right to silence.
60. The fairest place for everyone is time. Everyone has 24 hours a day. Clever use of time arrangement, so that these 24 hours play the greatest role, has become the key to personal difference. What you want in the workplace is to improve salary efficiency.
6 1. In your career, you should first be strict with yourself at work, and then learn to deal with colleagues. In this process, we will inevitably meet some unpopular workplace villains, who may become a rock on your road to success, because measuring personal performance is not only about your own performance, but also about the coordination with the surrounding environment.
62. Health is our greatest asset. Only by having a healthy body can we spell out a bright road in the highly competitive workplace. If you invest a certain proportion of money in the services you need for health, you will get a lifetime of health, so that you can work better.
63. Pay attention to the mistakes. "Young people make mistakes, and even God forgives them." This is a proverb in western countries. When reading, we often hear the teacher teach us that it doesn't matter if we make mistakes, but we can't make the same mistakes, let alone some low-level mistakes! It is human nature to make mistakes. It's normal to make mistakes, but you shouldn't make them again. Leaders can accept your mistakes, but they can't accept that you make the same mistakes.
64. A supercilious attitude, elegant body language and lively humor all belong to the art of language. Of course, it is more important to have a little confidence. Knowing the art of language can help you to be more confident. Skillfully using these language arts will make your career and life more successful.
65. Sports psychology research shows that all sports activities require athletes to have a certain degree of self-control. Therefore, targeted physical exercise is an effective psychological training method to correct the personal psychological defects of professionals and cultivate a sound personality.
66. Spring is not only the peak period of job hunting, but also the peak period of training and charging for professionals. At the same time, we should pay attention to the pertinence of training. Take MBA as an example. The first is time correlation. Certificates obtained in a suitable period of time should be conducive to their own development and allow them to grow in related positions.
67. When there is a big gap between people in the workplace, it is impossible for ordinary people to surpass outstanding people through slow progress. It is necessary to "evolve" as soon as possible to have a chance to catch up. Pay attention to efficiency in everything
68. There is no airtight wall in the workplace. What you say to one person today may be known to the whole company tomorrow, so don't express any opinions to the company leaders at will, and don't express your views on your career with others at will. An unintentional move is likely to bring unexpected results. We newcomers must be careful.
69. If you want to get rid of poverty and busyness, you must set goals in your work and improve yourself. Pay attention to financial management in life. When young people enter the workplace, don't think too much about material conditions or additional conditions. It is best to choose your favorite career.
70, 10 fatal mistake in the workplace: ① There is no hurry now, we will talk about it later; ② Try and experience some avoidable mistakes; ③ No career planning; ④ Personality assessment as career planning; ⑤ Only the direction is clear, and there is no realization path; 6. Have no opinion and rely on others; ⑦ Take things as they are and treat change negatively; 8 believe in high education; Pet-name ruby think national unit development is more secure; Attending always feel too difficult to succeed.
7 1, as the vast majority of people in the workplace, want to get broad prospects and excellent opportunities in their careers, they need the insight of noble people to lead and promote their rapid growth. Having noble people will naturally get more opportunities and make it easier to achieve professional success.
72. Good workplace habits of social etiquette: ① Maintain passion. Only passion can inspire you and infect yourself and others. Focus on things. Grasp a point accurately, and then drill down like a nail, making it deep and thorough. 3 execution. Not only know, but also do it! 4 study habits. Learning is the cheapest investment! (5) the habit of reflection. It is nothing more than three things, and often reflecting on your own gains and losses will make you succeed faster!
73. Each of us should have such a belief in our hearts-"Since God has given talents, let them find jobs!" . As long as we live in this world, we should have the meaning of our existence. Don't give up on yourself because of temporary frustration, let alone be full of inferiority because of temporary low tide. I believe that one day the sun will light up our lives.
74. If you want others to be nice to you, you must first make yourself better. If you can't even be a man yourself, then others won't have a good relationship with you. Although regular communication is a process of interacting with others, your behavior determines the success or failure of communication.
75. People who are pleasing to the eye do not necessarily make people feel very elegant. Temperament is not equal to appearance, and good temperament makes appearance higher. Only by doing well in many aspects can individuals improve their temperament and image.
76. I have just been employed for half a year, and I am most afraid that I can't see hope in my eyes and have no hope in my heart. You have to understand that life often tests you before it is given to you. What you expect may seem far from you, and what you cling to may hurt you deeply. Only by deserting from the army and gritting your teeth can you find that there is a beauty hidden behind the ups and downs.
77. When you enter the workplace, if your immediate supervisor can decide your position and salary, then of course, he is also your noble person. If the power of your direct supervisor can't determine your position and salary, then you should also find out who is your noble person.
No one wants to wait for others, and neither do you. People often say, don't expect me to arrive early, but I'm never late. It is very strong to be punctual and give people a sense of time. Other special workplaces.
79. To be a low-key person, don't always show your edge in front of others. If the mountain is too high, there will be a feeling of refusing to be a person thousands of miles away. Being hidden can make others more accessible and willing to approach.
80. Determination, work and achievement are the three elements of human activities. Ambition is the door to career, and work is a journey into the room. At the end of the journey, there is a success waiting to celebrate the result of your efforts.
8 1. Turn a friend of a friend into your own friend, so that your circle of friends will snowball and your social network will be wider. This is how friends accumulate and make friends.
82. Although many bosses don't like flatterers who talk too much and do too little, praising the boss from time to time will leave a good impression on him and promote him faster. Of course, flattery should pay attention to language art.
83. Keep your desk clean and don't throw waste paper everywhere.
84. The best way is not the avenue, but the care; The most dangerous road is not a steep slope, but a trap.
85. Networking is not how many people you know, but how many people know you! The key is how many people recognize you!
When you join a company, you must be loyal to it. Be sure to be professional before you leave.
87. In life, many things are like this. In life, many feelings are like this. There is no reason and no reason. Love is love. Like is like, no result, no result, no regret.
88. A song is sung all over the world, a dance is danced all over the world, a skill is played all over the Wulin, and it is spread all over the world. One soul stays on vacation, and one person does it. One thing must not be sloppy, and one letter remembers one soul. The holiday has passed, so work with peace of mind!
89. Instead of complaining, change your mind and work hard.
90. It is not a man who prevents a woman from getting married, but herself and a woman who is faster than her.
9 1. In today's market, I dare say that no enterprise is smooth sailing and has never encountered difficulties. Therefore, from managers to every employee, there must be a sense of difficulty that is ready to face difficulties at any time, and there must be a feeling of being pushed to a cliff.
92. The establishment of man's great achievements lies not in knowing, but in being able to do it.
93. You can ask for a raise, but the fewer times you ask for a promotion, the better. If you can take on greater responsibilities, the company will not let you be idle.
94. For customers, a good result is always more important than the process. Deliberately avoid overemphasizing the hardships in the process. The best way to show off is to get shot.
95. The word impossible (French is a word) can only be found in a fool's dictionary. Author: Napoleon
96. If you want to succeed in the workplace, a high degree of education and strong financial resources are not shortcuts to success, but learning ability is the ladder to success. Study hard and wish you an early success!
97. College graduates are only looking for a job, not a career, let alone a career.
98. altruism! Everything is considerate of others, things will always be surprisingly smooth, and the heart will be calm and full.
99. Reduce the number of applications from others and learn to reduce the burden.
100, Four Life Lessons: Read thousands of books, Take Wan Li Road, read by countless people, and be cleared by famous teachers.