It seems that we are very close, but in fact, we are very far apart.
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When we "croak" the moment we landed, the world has a more happy. Parents take good care of us, in order to let us grow up; they are on our way to grow up, paid countless hard work, left countless tears. But as the loved ones, we are getting farther and farther away from our parents who granted us life.
Segment 1:
"Why are you back so late? Where have you been?" Just as soon as he entered the door Xiaoming was sternly drank by his mother, "There was something at school, I came back late." He prevaricated, made it up, then made it up, made it up round. Don't think I don't know your school hours, tell the truth, where the hell did you go?" "Are you guys annoyed, going there is my freedom, no need for you to care." Xiao Ming angrily replied and slammed the door into his bedroom. What followed was a heated conversation between the parents ......
Clip 2:
"Mom, you went through my drawers, didn't you?" Hong asked suspiciously, having just entered the bedroom. "No way!" Mother replied in disbelief. "Why are you like this, how can you go through someone's stuff without their consent? It's so unethical!" Ah Hong questioned angrily. "Little brat, I'm your mother, why can't I look through your things, you still have a point!" The mother was also exasperated. "I'm also a person with self-respect, ah, the person who tramples on other people's self-respect is wrong, not to mention that the wrong person is still the parents." After saying this, Ah Hong abandoned his bag and left ...... followed by his mother's deep contemplation.
In fact, one of the main reasons why these two clips arise is because of the lack of communication between parents and children. Crossing the river without communication this bridge can not reach the other side. Communication is one of the important bridges between people, build a bridge to cross the river, and family members to reduce friction is critical. Children are in adolescence and parents are entering menopause. This will rub unpleasant sparks, but also may lead to the parents and children between the "crisis" outbreak, so let the children and parents of the heart far, far away.
The distance of the heart is getting farther and farther, and how can we understand our parents?
Love has no distance
2008 was a year of disaster for China. At the beginning of the year, we encountered a hundred-year freezing disaster; and in May, we accepted the "test" of the magnitude 8 earthquake; in August, we successfully organized the Olympic Games. This year, China has experienced the wind and rain, but also see the rainbow. The storm has passed, but it has left many unforgettable moments.
Fondly remembered May 12, 2008, 14:28, that second, the whole of China are "shaken", although the degree of different, but all felt the tremor. The next day through the news to realize that the earthquake hit Sichuan. The collapse of houses, the rising number of casualties, the people in the affected areas cried out to the sky, all deep in the minds of the people.
And at this time, people from all over the country reached out to help, to do their own modest efforts, to the people in the disaster area donations. A steady stream of supplies arrived in the disaster area, and tears of gratitude from the local victims kept pouring out of their eyes. How many volunteers went to Sichuan without fearing the danger of aftershocks, and how many front-line doctors and nurses tried to save every survivor without fearing the harsh medical conditions?
People's hearts are linked together, and donations are being made from all over the world. I remember this picture: a little girl of about seven or eight years old walked to the donation office with three piggy banks and poured all the money in the piggy banks into the red donation box. Everyone there was touched. How could we not be proud of a child who had saved her pocket money for four years and given it to the disaster area without reservation? How can you not be touched by the girl's good deed?
At this moment, the people of the country, no matter how far apart they are, have their hearts linked together, cheering for Sichuan and praying for Sichuan. Across thousands of kilometers of blessing and anticipation, in return for Sichuan to stand up again the majestic. This just proves: distance can't hinder the heart to get together. It is also the distance closer, so that the Chinese people more united, more friendly, more harmonious.
Believe, distance is not going to keep love away.
The distance of the heart
In the morning, the crowded public **** car that can hardly close the door can be said to be a landscape in Beijing.
Although air-conditioned buses are expensive, affluent people still covet their coolness, so crowding is inevitable.
The conductor looked at the two elderly men hesitating under the bus, "Get on, when you get off after these two stops for work, you'll have a seat in a while."
So the old people with their little granddaughter stepped up.
The child was not quite tall enough to buy a ticket, and breathing seemed to be a problem when sandwiched between the adults, but none of the people seated around them had the slightest idea of standing up. The ticket seller also seemed to be well aware of the phenomenon, so none of them made any move to encourage people to give up their seats for the child.
In fact, I was already surprised by this indifference. According to this air-conditioned car is mostly some office building office, but also a relatively highly educated people, the fashionable saying is "white-collar" class. But the indifference of the expression and the body of the high-grade clothes seem to have a kind of rejection of the meaning.
The car after two stops, finally a pregnant woman to get off, when the conductor signaled to the child to wait for a seat, I was thinking that the child finally do not have to be squeezed again, but a thing I did not expect to happen so - pregnant women sitting next to a middle-aged woman naturally to the inside of the empty seat! A middle-aged woman sitting next to the pregnant woman naturally moved to the empty seat inside, and a fat man sat down in the process.
I think the only way to describe my expression at the time was one of dismay that this man, who didn't look the least bit ill or unwell, had taken the seat of a child who was less than a meter tall, and was so comfortable with it that I couldn't think of any words to describe him.
I don't want to guess whether this person who came to Beijing for sightseeing has a reason to sit down, and I don't want to guess what effect this will have on the little girl, who may become a member of the so-called "white-collar" class in the future, and may be happy to give up her seat to someone else in the future, or may not give up her seat to anyone. Maybe she will be happy to give up her seat or maybe she won't give up her seat to anyone. There is nothing wrong with her because it is the reality of society that educates a person to grow up.
And people's minds drifted another step away between this one seat ......
The beauty of rubbing shoulders
Another beautiful night.
I was walking home from the plaza with a book in my arms, a popsicle in my mouth, and a small breeze blowing.
There were three men on two bicycles, riding head-on. I didn't see who they were because I wasn't wearing my glasses. It was only when a familiar voice reached my ears that I looked up at them. It really was him! It really was! I wanted to say hello, but a voice stopped me, "No need, it's just this boy, hasn't he been ignoring you for months? Why pay attention to him! Save it! I was conflicted, should I say hello to him or not? How embarrassing it would be if my hot face gets stuck on my cold ass! Forget it!" I swallowed my words, turned my eyes to the side, took a step, and you brushed your shoulders ...... walked past you, and could not help but look, saw your back, you rode your mountain bike hard, "running" to your destination, until you could not see your back, only to I can't help but look at you and see your back. I can't help but feel a tinge of regret.
And you did two years of classmates, the second year of gradual and close to you, to understand your learning methods, to share your mood. Of course, in my loss, you also enlighten me, so that I have optimism. I couldn't believe it when the teacher put you and me in a group. Since then, you and I have had more contact opportunities. In the group, a one-to-one approach was adopted, and I took charge of you. I was very responsible and conscientious because I really wanted to get you out of the "top" ten, and you were very cooperative. I helped you and got to know you better. Because of your naughty, your optimism so that my learning also has some improvement with grateful eyes appreciate you, found that I really not as good as you
Maybe this is the distance between the boys and girls it.
This didn't last long, probably only two months, and you changed. You became isolated, unapproachable, and your impatience manifested itself more severely. Not saying a word to me at all made it a little hard for me to adjust. I don't know what happened to you, I don't know what's in your heart, and you don't listen carefully in class, and you've been ordered by the teacher over and over again, and you always want to find fault with me and make me embarrassed, the present you and the former you are completely different, and it seems that there is not a trace of connection, and it is precisely in this way, that I played poorly in the exams, and from that day onwards, I knew that there was no more friendship to be talked about between you and me! This also led to the face to face with you and I no longer say a word, and also appeared in the opening scene.
The regret of rubbing shoulders, really regret, but there is no regret medicine, I do not know how to do. Maybe you don't know, make a male friend is how difficult maybe you can't appreciate my feelings, maybe you simply don't take me as a friend, I can totally give up, but I have lost a good friend, I don't want to make the same mistake, as far as possible to redeem, redeem the loss, redeem my friendship with you,,, but, this wish may not be realized... ...
Are we really that far apart?
Zero distance to low-carbon life
"Low-carbon" is one of the most popular words in the world today, and "low-carbon life" has become the hottest slogan now. It seems that anyone who does not know is outdated, low carbon is energy saving and emission reduction, the significance of which is to protect the environment.
When I first heard the term "low carbon", I felt that low carbon was very far from my life, and I had a kind of vague feeling that it was something that scientists and environmental protection workers only considered, and that it had nothing to do with ordinary people like us. Later, I found an explanation of the concept of low-carbon living on the Internet: the so-called low-carbon living, that is, living and resting when the energy consumption should be minimized, so as to reduce carbon dioxide emissions, in order to protect the Earth's environment.
Life is full of low-carbon activities, such as driving less, biking or walking more; using energy-saving lamps, using biodegradable plastic bags and lunch boxes, and using laundry water to flush the toilet or wash the mop, which is what my mom does in our house. In the past, I used up used batteries are always thrown into the trash, since the neighborhood has a used battery recycling box, I let them "return to the original place", so as not to pollute the environment. I also read from the book to see a knowledge: a short period of time without a computer, enable the computer's "sleep" mode, energy consumption can be reduced to less than 50%; turn off unused programs and speakers, printers and other equipment; less so that the hard disk, floppy CD-ROMs work at the same time; appropriate to reduce the brightness of the monitor, the power supply is not used in a timely manner to unplug, these practices can be All these practices can reduce energy consumption. Dad is the person who uses the computer most and for the longest time in the family, but he pays little attention to these details and often falls asleep with the computer on at night. I told my dad about low-carbon living, and I really hope that he will join me in advocating low-carbon living.
As an ordinary person, although my low-carbon behavior can not change the world's environmental pollution, but at least it can narrow the distance to the low-carbon lifestyle, slowing down the deterioration of the global environment. We are so far away from "universal low carbon", and low carbon life is so close to us!
Love life, love low carbon. Let's start from the small things around us, cherish the resources, reduce energy consumption, let the low-carbon life with us zero distance contact, let us live a better life, let the fresh air covered every corner of the world.
Chinese folklore has long circulated the myth of Chang'e running to the moon, but now the modern Chang'e has run to the moon twice, and people's imaginations have now become reality.
On Oct. 1, 2010, China's third moon probe satellite, Chang'e-2, was successfully launched from the Xichang Satellite Launch Center with the command to ignite. When we see Chang'e-2 lifting off, we naturally won't forget Chang'e-1, which was launched in October 2007, and which successfully completed its scientific mission on March 1, 2009, when it crashed into the moon at a predetermined location. This time, Chang'e-2 is heading to the moon again with a more important mission.
That is, to conduct high-resolution imaging of the future Chang'e-3 landing area, Hongwan, and to explore a landing site for Chang'e-3's landing on the moon, which brings us closer to the moon. The distance to the moon is even closer, and the moon will no longer be so unfamiliar!
The launch of Chang'e-2 is the first step in the second phase of China's lunar exploration project, which will be followed by Chang'e-3 and Chang'e-4, which will represent China's first trip to the moon, which people have fantasized about for a long time, and which will take place around 2013, which is so desirable! The third phase of the lunar exploration project brings us even closer to the moon, when the probes won't just be limited to landing and not returning, but will return to Earth with samples of the moon.
These things not only show that we are closer to the moon, but also show that people are closer to other planets, and maybe in the near future people will be able to live on the moon as Chang'e does.
People say that reform and opening up is the way to strengthen a country, which can make a country richer and more harmonious. I think that reform and opening up has brought people closer to communicate with each other. Let people and people know each other, know each other, in fact, the development of computer fully reflects this.
People in the past, separate is long, miss is also very deep, the way of letters is too cumbersome, the way of the phone is too costly. And now there is a computer, a little bit, you can chat, e-mail, and even video, although the distance is far, far away, but through the computer, as if the loved ones are around. The development of computers has driven the trend and given some people more ways to get to know others.
There is an example of this: a pair of brothers who have been separated for nearly a decade have been able to understand each other and recognize each other through QQ chat. This example may be very rare, but it is real. This pair of brothers through the network to find their relatives, visible computer development is how fast. It allows people separated by thousands of miles to recognize each other, allows people who don't know each other to become friends, and allows people with the same blood relationship to be reunited, bringing the distance between heart and heart closer.
As the saying goes, "planning can't keep up with change", change is endless, never guess what will happen next, big change also brings a lot of benefits. It has brought people closer together and created new wonders.
Distance? Life
Seemingly, we are close, but in fact our hearts are far apart.
Teacher-student love
The rustiness and curiosity of the first meeting, the stumbling of getting along later, the reluctance to leave each other. This is a so-called friendship between teachers and students, but this friendship is better than family.
Remember the scene of our first meeting: I rushed to the door of the classroom, shouted a report, open the door to meet me is a face of puzzlement of the middle-aged man, a pair of small eyes, a big nose into him. He seemed to be disgusted with this uninvited guest. With a serious face, he said in a voice voice with mockery, "Late on your first day, you've got a lot of nerve!" I don't know how to answer him, just thinking: this time it's bad, I'm sure I can't get through it well, and die miserably in the hands of this teacher .... I spent a few days in fear, but nothing happened, which made me feel uncomfortable. I was afraid that he would "abuse his power" to restore his dignity as a teacher, but nothing happened. I always thought, "I will fall into his hands one day".
It was true. When school started, I had to pay for some subscription materials, and I forgot to bring them. My parents were at work, and there was no way they would send the money to school for me. I could only knock on the door of the office, he was the only one there, I shivered and walked towards him, looked into his narrowed eyes and told him about my situation. Without saying a word, he reached into his pocket and handed over the money to me, saying in a serious tone, "I know you're afraid I'm going to give you money. I know you are afraid that I give you small shoes, do not worry, I am not that kind of person. It's okay to make a mistake, the key is to learn to correct it, understand? How to do in the future, you should know!" I was so moved that I didn't say anything. At this time, I realized the teacher's love and care for students, perhaps, this is a teacher's standard.
You are like a match that ignites knowledge and harvest; you are like a key that opens the door to do and revelation; you are like a drop of manna that moisturizes the seedlings of desire and success. Teachers, you and students of the distance between the close, but also eliminate a child for the future of the panic.
The closeness of the distance between each other gives both sides everything...
Care = Zero Distance
Nowadays, China's North China and Yellow Huaihuai areas have been in a persistent drought since last year, with rivers cutting off, farmland cracking, and millions of people's production and life being seriously affected.
The distance between the Party and the masses has been brought closer by the disaster. Under the strong leadership and unified command of the CPC Central Committee, all relevant departments have mobilized urgently and acted quickly to mobilize human, material and financial resources to support the disaster areas. The cadres and masses in the drought-stricken areas are doing their best to combat the drought and to save themselves. In the face of the great drought, a *** Party member is a flag, a Party branch is a fighting fortress. Thousands of Party members and cadres work day and night in the drought relief front line, organizations and lead the masses in the drought area to transfer water, transport water, find water, drilling wells ...... mechanical motors roar, hand-pulled shoulder sweating like a pig.
The distance between the government and the people has been narrowed by the disaster. The government has allocated funds to the affected areas to carry out artificial rain-boosting operations and told local governments to do a better job of fighting the drought and preserving seedlings.
The distance between people across the country and those in the affected areas was brought closer by the disaster. When a party is in trouble, eight parties will support it; work together to **** through the difficult times. Spontaneous donations from all walks of life came, mineral water came, a variety of relief supplies came. Full of love "timely rain", is sowing confidence and hope in the drought area.
We also contributed to the people in the disaster area, although our ability is limited, but more people have more power, but also for the people in the disaster area to do a little contribution to it.
The disaster has great love, we must protect the environment in our lives, start from small things, save water, and care for the home we live on. Natural disasters are something we can't stop, but we can unite as one,*** together to resist the damage that natural disasters do to us.
While distance produces beauty, love will draw the distant distance between each other. Heart to heart, *** suffering, *** with the fight against disasters, I believe that tomorrow will be better!!!!
Take the scars as dimples
I stretched a little, looking out the window at the cloudy sky, it is about to rain, and it is nearly dusk.
The mood was good. Yes, I had moved.
There was a book sitting on the table, and one of the chapters, the title of which was boldly "Treating Scars as Dimples", and just as I was about to look at what was behind the title, my father called out to me: go out and find a scrap-picker to come, there was a pile of old, unused stuff going on in the house. Downstairs, I walked down an extremely mundane street. The vulgar people that some elegant people despise are all together on this street, first five stalls, then a row of food stalls, and then the farmer's market. These people sometimes do vulgar, such as their tricycle hit you but do not say sorry just a strange expression of a smile; such as you buy things with their bargaining to the end they will be brutally said, I do not sell. Later, I gradually figured out that the former is because they have not yet learned the city's cumbersome language of politeness, so they can only throw an apologetic smile, but this smile was met with the city's cocked corners of the mouth and haughty eyes, so this smile suddenly tasted bad; the latter is better to understand, because the city's people cut down the price is already more than the bottom line of their acceptance.
An old man walked slowly past me. He was holding a dog in one hand, rubbing an exercise ball in the other, his back stubbornly straight, and a humorous smile at the corners of his eyes.
The connotation of this smile is being silently annotated by this ordinary street.
The rag-picker was finally searched by me here. The old man's hair is all white, I rarely see such pure white, a kind of benevolent feeling overflowing in his face. Behind him, leisurely followed by a child, this is the old man's grandson.
The sky was darker, some rain began to fall on our faces, the three of us walked in silence, never spoke again. Arriving home. The old man instructed his children to wait, then followed me upstairs. As I entered I noticed that the old man's shoes were dirty, and I didn't want him to bring dirt into my new home. The old man seemed to understand, took off his shoes and came in barefoot. Although it was already autumn and the weather was turning cool. My father told him to take a seat and went into his room to sort out the junk, leaving him and me alone in the living room. Suddenly, I remembered that I had to attend class in the evening, so I left the old man alone and went to my room to get dressed.
Then I got ready to go. I thought I should put on my watch. A middle school student's time, if not cherished, could easily slip through his fingers.
By this time the old man had finished his stuff, paid for it, and was ready to go. When his father saw that it was raining heavily outside, he asked him to take a short break. He didn't excuse himself, so he and his father talked casually.
His grandson's parents died. The grandson was eight years old and not yet in school. At this point, they hadn't eaten.
Tolstoy said that happy families are always similar, while unfortunate families have their own misfortunes. I think the opposite is true. Wealthy families are able to create different environments, so there is variety; unfortunate families are always similar because they are homogeneous.
I was looking for my watch when they said those words. I hate to think that the old man took my watch. For there were two proofs: one, I remembered that my watch was sitting next to the chair where the old man was sitting; and two, the old man's trouser pocket showed a piece of silver glitter, which I thought was my watchband!
I don't despise the poor, but we don't have to pity the poor if they don't know how to respect themselves. And I don't have time to wait. With that in mind, I said with good grace, Old man, please give me back my watch.
I think it was the most euphemistic thing I have ever said in my life to minimize the damage to him. I did it because I thought he might have just been confused and taken it in passing, and we didn't have to make a big deal out of it.
The old man looked at me in sad silence. I think he must have felt shameful for the revelation of his crime.
However, my father had not yet understood what I meant, and surprisingly asked me, "What are you talking about? I repeated it calmly.
The father ordered me to shut up. Then he ordered me to bring him his bag, knowing that things might change a little subtly.
Opening the bag was my watch, it turned out that my father had seen my watch quit at work today and had taken it to the watch store to get a new battery.
Why was I so hasty to think that the old man took the watch? I said I don't despise them, yet at heart I still trust them but. Yes, I'm being petty-minded.
Just as I was about to apologize, the old man laughed. It was a humorous laugh, a déjà vu. I do not know why he laughed, the connotation of this laughter, is being watched silently by his hand reaching into his pants pocket. He pulled out a stainless steel spoon, not what I would have thought of as a "strap"!
I don't know how much my words hurt him. There is no greater insult to a poor man than to say that he has used improper means to escape from poverty.
And yet this hurt I did him was turned into a smile. I haven't read the article "Wounds as Dimples" yet, but I've found the best explanation.
The rain got heavier, and the grandchildren pushed the car along. An early star rose in the sky, and the night, too, watched everything quietly from behind a heavy curtain, not holding back. Angels will give you the warmth
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