A friend said, at first, his family has many brothers, the situation is not very good, it is difficult to marry a wife, because they can not afford the bride price money. Just by introduction, and foreign girls fell in love, and finally parents meet, their families are good to say anything, is to be a friend to do the door female daughter-in-law.
The woman's family as a result of tight family planning, gave birth to two girls, belonging to the two women's families, a sister age is still small, is attending school, parents are also older, we have their own difficulties, but he loved the girl, can only be the next best thing, into the woman's family, life.
At first, life was good, everyone was polite and courteous, but for a long time, due to living habits and other aspects of the contradiction between everyone came to the fore, he said that food, wear, with, almost all the women's families are supplied, but then he was diligent, earned some money, but the days are more and more uncomfortable.
Inverted door day is not good, really feel like far "married" his country, sometimes he really want to move out of the family of three living together, but in this family, unrealistic, the girl loves to listen to his parents, in fact, her parents are really a hand, sometimes he really want to go away, but for the sake of his wife and children still! The company's website is a good source of information about the company's products and services.
Other people look down
While we are now very emancipated, the degree of acceptance of this matter is obviously much better than before, but due to the influence of traditional thinking, we are still scoffing at the matter of the family member, the family member and the daughter-in-law of the same door, their own family of the mother's family, back to the family, and always feel awkward, the brothers also feel that they are not now a family, the heart The brothers also feel that they are not a family now, and in their hearts, they can't get over a hurdle. In the husband's home, they are looked down upon, they always feel that eating others, with others, we must be called around, as the old bull, not good enough to hit on the two whip.
Our own heart is tired
Despite the relationship between the two families is very good, but there is a kind of feeling, eat others, with others, that is, they do more, but also feel that there is no inner support, quite sad, genuinely and eat soft rice is not the same.
Maybe my friend is too traditional, I always feel that his heart is tense one day, not a moment is able to relax. The words 'married daughter, spilled water, door-to-door son-in-law tired of broken legs' are not at all false! The heart is not solid, there is a kind of people under the roof, had to bow the head of the sadness in it, especially with the daughter-in-law quarrel, people bossy look, let a person suddenly have a kind of leave feeling.
Speaking without weight, it is difficult to make decisions
What to listen to them, I can not have any opinion. After joining the family, what to do, face to say is to discuss, in fact, is to give him a gas, long ago booked, agree or not, or implemented, so he seems to be a puppet, face to face is half a son, in fact, is only an outsider, there is no way to really integrate into it.
Some of his own views were refuted by his family, he did not have a way, if the fight, that day there is no way to live, the family's spend seven spend eight they need to pay, but how to use the money he said does not count.
No face
To put it bluntly, inverted door is considered to be no money, no ability, no ambition and speculative men, to do something outside, if people know the identity of the always be subjected to a lot of blank stares, and daughter-in-law out of the okay, especially a big man out of the house, the father-in-law and the mother-in-law is the absolute leadership, as if he is the princess's extra horse harnessed by the side of a team.
Last name is not negotiable
The child was born with the woman's name, no doubt, this is the most painful.