Should I stay in the big city or go back to my hometown for the sake of my children? This question depends on what you consider to be the standard of "good for the children".
First of all,If you think that this "good" refers to the high official salary, or the executive salary, or the good future of the famous family, please stay in the big city.
If you want your child to have a career, or a well-paying job, or to be famous and have a family, or to be a self-starter, consider staying in the big city.
Because, after all, the big cities have more resources in all aspects, which can better help your child to get ahead or excel in the future. There are better educational resources for schooling and greater opportunities for work in the big city.
Secondly, if you think this "good" is to be close to nature and develop your nature, please go back to your rural home.
Because in the countryside home can face the soil back to the sky, you can look at the mountains and water, is the closest to nature, you can eat the most healthy food, drink the most healthy water, but also can breathe the freshest air, which is many modern city people aspire to the idyllic life. Without the cramped and depressing steel and concrete jungle of the big city, and without the high pressure and anxiety of city people, you can live a relatively easy and fast life.
Of course, whether you stay in the big city or go back home to the countryside, whichever you think is better for your children, but that's your own idea after all. When your child grows up, he may not necessarily think that the lifestyle you chose for him is good, or that the path you chose for him is the right one.
So, whether to stay or go, what needs to be respected is your own inner voice, what kind of life you want, not the kind you think is good for your child. Only by living the life of your own generation can you be better responsible for your children's future. It doesn't matter where you live, what matters is what kind of attitude towards life you have.
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