She left when our lives gradually stabilized! '
It has been more than eight months since Zhang Jingjing died. Husband Han always thinks of her tragic death after returning from aiding Hubei, and her heart is as dull as being hit by a boulder. However, he still has to handle things well at home and be a' pillar'.
While he was working abroad, his daughter was always taken care of by his wife and father-in-law. After his wife died, her parents-in-law who had been proud of her daughter could not accept this reality. Han entrusted his daughter to them for the time being, hoping that the old man would see his children better.
My daughter has never known her mother's departure. Children often ask adults, "Where is mom?" The adults all said,' Mom has gone on a mission.' A five-year-old child can feel that there is a problem behind this answer, but he can't find the answer. Adults want their daughters and cousins to be happier every day.
Han usually goes to work on time, and the hardest time is when he goes home. Every detail in the family has a wife's shadow. He hopes to keep the things in this house intact and leave more memories for his children and himself. Every Friday night, Han usually drives to her parents' home to spend the weekend with her daughter.
The happy life of an ordinary family was changed by a sudden change on the morning of April 5.
Zhang Jingjing was born in the lunar calendar1September, 987. He is the first batch of medical team members in Shandong Province to help Hubei Province, and also the head nurse in the Department of Respiratory and Critical Care Medicine of Qilu Hospital. 65438+1At 2: 30 in the morning of October 26th, she arrived in Hubei with the first batch of medical teams in Shandong Province. After completing the task of aiding Hubei, she left Hubei on March 2 1 and returned to Jinan, where she concentrated on medical observation for 4 days.
The quarantine expired at 5 pm on April 4, and the medical team originally planned to return to China on the morning of the 5 th. On the morning of 5th, the bus home was already waiting at the door, but Zhang Jingjing was found to have a cardiac arrest in his hotel room. Finally, the hospital tried its best to treat him and died on April 6 18: 58.
Last July, Zhang Jingjing went back to his hometown with his children to help the elderly grow garlic.
Rural girl
Zhang Jingjing was born in an ordinary village in Juye County, Heze City, Shandong Province. She has a younger brother who is three years younger than her.
My mother is almost 60 years old and has always been in good health. She didn't find anything wrong when she had a physical examination at the end of last year. In July this year, the elderly found signs of coronary heart disease and needed medical treatment and regular observation. The doctor told him,' Don't be angry and don't be too sad'.
My sister is very filial. She said that when my parents were old, she would take them to live in Jinan, or go back to their hometown to buy a house for the elderly. My mother also said that when she was older, she would go to my sister and let her take care of her. My brother Zhang Guosheng (not his real name) recalled.
After working for several years, Zhang Guosheng bought a house in the county and the whole family moved to the county. My brothers and sisters all spent their childhood in their hometown in the countryside.
My sister has always been afraid of the dark. Zhang Guosheng remembers that she had a big cock at home when she was a child. From the kitchen to the living room, she had to cross the yard where the rooster moved. As soon as the rooster comes near her sister, she gets scared. Sometimes when my parents come home late at night, she dares to sleep with the light on.
When I was a child, adults were busy working. My brother and sister usually go to school together. After school, they must cook by themselves. At first, my sister cooked and my brother helped. There is also a small supermarket at home. Later, my younger brother became a' chef' and my older sister was responsible for selling things in the supermarket.
From a very young age, Zhang Jingjing was a' little expert' in farm work at home.
Mom clearly remembers that there was still a lot of land at home when I was a child. In summer, before the wheat harvest, she must plant cotton in the wheat field. Her father dug a hole in front of her and she planted seeds behind her. Dad moves quickly and runs ahead. He got up and looked back. His daughter, shorter than wheat, was hiding in the wheat field.
Last July, Zhang Jingjing went back to his hometown with his children to help the elderly grow garlic.
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My timid sister has been doing well in her studies. I remember that the wall of Zhang Guosheng's bedroom was plastered with letters of recommendation from his sister. From primary school to junior high school, there are basically every level.
However, when Zhang Jingjing took the college entrance examination in the first year, her grades were not satisfactory, so she chose to repeat. Zhang Jingjing and Han, classmates of Grade Two and Grade Three in Senior High School, became classmates in the next class in the year of repeating their studies.
Travel photos of Zhang Jingjing before his death.
long-distance relationship
In 2005, Zhang Jingjing was admitted to Jining Medical College, majoring in nursing for five years, Rizhao Campus for two years and Jining Campus for three years, and Han went to other provinces to study.
They had a crush on each other in high school, and Zhang Jingjing sometimes took them to see Han. It was not until the freshman year that the relationship between men and women was officially confirmed, but they were separated by 1000 kilometers, so it was difficult to meet each other.
Thanks to those years, Labor Day and National Day have a week's holiday. Han takes a 24-hour train to see Zhang Jingjing every holiday. Usually, both of them contact by phone. To this end, he also saved a lot of phone cards, which were later lost with repeated moves.
At the beginning of 2009, Han, who was about to graduate, originally planned to work in Yantai, Shandong. Zhang Jingjing said at that time,' I will go wherever you go' and applied for an internship in a hospital in Yantai. Later, Han planned to work in Jinan, and Zhang Jingjing found a school teacher and changed the internship city to Jinan.
In the first half of 2009, Zhang Jingjing started her internship in a provincial hospital in Jinan. In July this year, Han joined a state-owned enterprise in Shandong, and the two ended their long-distance relationship.
Before I went to work in Jinan, she made me a phone card. Han is still using the mobile phone number that Zhang Jingjing gave him in her name.
The two chose Jinan as their hometown. After the internship, Zhang Jingjing was admitted to Qilu Hospital. 20 1 1, the young couple bought the first suite. 20 12 After the handover, Zhang Jingjing participated in every detail and decorated the wedding room at will.
On March 20 14, the couple got a marriage certificate and held a wedding in their hometown the following month. On March 20 15, her daughter was born, and soon Han was sent to work abroad.
"That time was the running-in period of our life together, and it was inevitable that we would quarrel, but they were all spices of life. Our relationship has always been very good." Recalling the five years from 2009 to 20 15, Han's heart is full of memories.
After working abroad for more than ten weeks, Han Cai was able to return to China to rest for more than twenty days, and this life lasted for nearly five years. Family, get together less and stay more.
2019165438+10/5, it's time to go home. Han flew back to Beijing, and Zhang Jingjing, who was studying in Peking Union Medical College Hospital, met him at the airport. Then they returned to Jinan together.
After two days, life was sweet. Zhang Jingjing returned to Beijing, Han was alone at home with his daughter, and Zhang Jingjing's study ended on June 30th. 165438. The family of three spent the last month together.
"I have stayed abroad for a long time and feel indebted to them, so every time I return to China, I hope to do more, washing clothes, cooking and helping them cut their nails. When Zhang Jingjing is free, our family of three still go shopping by electric car. Isn't that how ordinary people live? " These daily lives have become beautiful memories of Han.
12 On February 29th, Zhang Jingjing put Han on a plane going abroad, and that separation became their farewell.
Four or five years ago, Han played a joke on Zhang Jingjing and said, "In case of war, I might become a deserter because I want to protect my wife and children." . Zhang Jingjing's reaction is very serious. "Go away, you're going to the battlefield, and you don't have to take care of your family." .
"My sister is warm-hearted. After working in the hospital, someone in her hometown went to the hospital to see a doctor, and she took care of it enthusiastically. " Zhang Guosheng said.
Zhang Jingjing (first from left) participated in medical activities before his death.
go one's own way
Zhang Jingjing is still timid as an adult. After graduating from Zhang Guosheng University, he worked in Jinan for a period of time. At that time, he and his sister rented a house on the fifth floor, and her sister often worked the night shift until twelve o'clock. Every time she goes downstairs after the night shift, she always calls her brother and asks him to meet her downstairs.
Such a timid person has quietly made a bold decision.
This year, 65438+1October 24th is the 30th of the twelfth lunar month. My daughter has followed her grandfather back to her hometown, and Zhang Jingjing is working normally. The original working hours were from 8 am to 8 pm.
However, at seven o'clock in the evening, when Han had a video call with her, she found her at home and asked why. She explained that "she was transferred here with her colleagues", but Han didn't care, just wanted to go home early on New Year's Eve.
In fact, that afternoon, she had volunteered to join the first medical team in Shandong Province.
It takes about three hours to drive from Jinan to Juye. 65438+1On the morning of October 25th, Zhang Jingjing, who usually likes to sleep late, started driving around five o'clock, got home around eight o'clock, just played with his children for a while, and got a call from his colleague at ten o'clock, "I'm leaving for Hubei in the afternoon".
When her parents knew that she was going to help Hubei, they cried their eyes out. Mother advised her, "Are you too hasty in making this decision? The child is so young and the husband is not at home. What can you do if something goes wrong? "
"If this doesn't go and that doesn't, someone has to go." This is what Zhang Jingjing said to his mother at that time.
Then, she drove away in a hurry, which became the last time her parents, daughters and brothers saw her.
Zhang Jingjing wouldn't let his parents tell Han that he was in Lion Rock in Africa. After getting up at six o'clock in the morning at Lion Rock Time, Han called his wife as usual. It was 2 pm Beijing time, but she didn't answer the phone. She thought she was in her hometown, just like calling her mother-in-law, just for the next year.
After the call to his mother-in-law was connected, he asked her, "Mom, be quiet." At first, the old man tried to hide that he had returned to Jinan and had something in the hospital. Han thought his wife and mother-in-law were at odds, so he asked what had happened. He tried to persuade a few words, but the old man couldn't hold back and cried and told him the truth.
Han Wen Tao in Sierra Leone was shocked to hear the news. He also watched foreign news and knew how critical the situation was in Hubei at that time, and he was very worried about his wife. He said, "I cried there for two days."
However, he can only passively accept this reality, so he immediately sent a message to his wife, "Daughter-in-law, no matter what happens, I will wait for you to come back."
To Han's regret, when he set off in Jinan, his whole family was not in Jinan. Many other colleagues had family members to see him off, and Zhang Jingjing was the only one.
Photos of Zhang Jingjing's aid to Hubei.
Years of assistance to Hubei
On the evening of June 25, 2020, the first batch of medical aid teams from Shandong flew to Wuhan from Jinan Yao Qiang Airport.
This is an uncertain voyage. Before departure, everyone only knew that the destination was Hubei, but we didn't know which city, hospital or local epidemic situation.
What makes me even more uncertain is the families of these medical staff. "We can all feel the seriousness of the epidemic in Hubei from the daily news, and it was clear at that time that the virus was highly contagious and there was no effective drug treatment, which aggravated our concerns." Korea said to:
In fact, the situation of epidemic prevention and control in Huanggang City, Hubei Province, where Zhang Jingjing and others were assigned, is far more severe than expected. 65438+1At 2: 30 in the morning of October 26th, the plane landed at Wuhan Airport and was immediately taken to Dabie Mountain Medical Center in Huanggang by bus.
"Shandong medical team was assigned to Huanggang City, and the epidemic was very serious. The key is that the local protective equipment is not enough. They only brought a change of clothes, and the suitcase was full of protective equipment. " Zhang Jingjing wrote in his diary on the first day of his arrival in Huanggang.
Even so, medical supplies are still in short supply. A member of the first batch of medical aid teams in Shandong Province revealed to this newspaper (www.thepaper.cn) after returning to Shandong that they had collected a large amount of medical materials through public channels, but it was difficult to transport them to Huanggang. One member once risked driving hundreds of kilometers to Henan to get supplies.
While trying to solve material problems, medical staff must quickly carry out rescue work. On October 28th, 65438/kloc-0, Zhang Jingjing wrote, "Because girls' long hair is easier to sweat and hide viruses, it is not convenient to wear protective clothing. In order to take better care of patients, I cut my hair to an inch long and cut a boy's hairstyle. "
She said that before coming, she was going to shave her head, and dozens of female comrades in the Shandong medical team accompanied her. "At this stage, in the eyes of girls who love beauty, it is more important to contain the epidemic as soon as possible than beautiful long hair. I don't regret making this decision. "
In the diagnosis and treatment work, Zhang Jingjing found it difficult for Shandong medical team members to understand Huanggang dialect in Hubei, and the communication barrier between doctors and patients needed to be broken. So she wrote a nurse-patient communication book herself.
Zhang Jingjing found that there were obstacles in communication between Shandong medical team and local patients in Hubei, because many Huanggang people spoke in a very strong dialect, and the southern dialect was very different from the northern dialect. Sometimes the patient can't understand what she said, and the patient can't understand what she said. Therefore, Zhang Jingjing decided to write a nurse-patient communication book to facilitate the work of the medical team.
Soon, the preliminary book of nurse-patient communication in Dabie Mountain Regional Medical Center (Shandong Medical Team) was published, which contained simple answers to questions that they often communicate with patients in their daily work. When the language is unreasonable, they take out the nurse-patient communication book so that patients can understand their words when they see the words.
Zhang Jingjing's heart, the patient is the most clearly seen. On one occasion, when she was on the night shift and drew blood from a patient in her fifties at 6: 30 in the morning, the patient's blood vessels were hard to find. She looked at it for a long time, carefully looked at it again and again, trying to find a foolproof needle under the blood vessel, so as to avoid bleeding when one needle goes down, and further puncture will increase the patient's pain.
While she was searching for blood vessels carefully, the patient said, "Don't come too close to me, son. You are so young that you come to Huanggang from Shandong. I don't want to pass on the disease to you. "
"At this time, I understand the patient's mood very well. I will reassure the patient that the disease can be treated. I hope that patients can enhance their confidence in overcoming the disease." She wrote in her diary.
During the period of aiding Hubei, the patients also moved Zhang Jingjing, who is concerned about the motherland.
Sudden arrival
During the period of aiding Hubei, the patients also moved Zhang Jingjing, who is concerned about the motherland.
On the afternoon of February 4th, the first patient cured in COVID-19, Dabie Mountain Medical Center, was discharged from the hospital, which was one of the first patients admitted by Shandong Aid Hubei Medical Team. Zhang Jingjing participated in the treatment of this patient.
Another patient told her, "at four o'clock in the morning, I was very relieved to see you still there." You are really a light in the dark, helping us find our way home. "
"I may remember a girl named Zhang Jingjing all my life. I remember how you pulled us back from the brink of death step by step. I cannot thank you enough. " Another patient said this.
Han often took the initiative to make video calls with Zhang Jingjing. Sometimes she is busy and can't get through. He will call again later. "I was very distressed to see the indentation caused by wearing a mask for a long time on her face and realize the acne."
On the afternoon of March 2 1, Shandong Province assisted the second batch of returnees in Hubei Province, supported the Huanggang epidemic prevention and control front headquarters and assisted Huanggang medical team members, successfully completed various tasks, flew from Wuhan to Jinan, and Zhang Jingjing returned to Jinan on the same day, and concentrated and isolated medical observation according to regulations 14 days.
Liu Jiayi, secretary of the Shandong Provincial Party Committee, greeted them at the airport and said, "You are the pride of Shandong and an example for the cadres and the masses in the province to learn from. Today, you went home safely and healthily, and you all want to taste the taste of your hometown. Next, you have to rest in isolation for a while, and we will try our best to provide service guarantee for everyone. "
On April 4th, the last day of centralized isolation, Zhang Jingjing was told that "all three nucleic acid tests were negative". Han and Zhang Jingjing had a video call. She was in a good mood and said, "I'll go out for a walk later.". In the afternoon, some medical team members did see Zhang Jingjing strolling outside the isolation hotel.
At about 5 am Beijing time on April 5, Han, who was in Sierra Leone, made a video call to his wife before going to bed, but no one answered. He thinks his wife may be packing or still awake.
At 7 o'clock in the morning on April 5, it was time for everyone to gather and go home, but Zhang Jingjing never came out of the room. Colleagues opened the door and found her in cardiac arrest. She was first sent to the nearest hospital where the isolation hotel was located, and was transferred to the intensive care unit of Qilu Hospital that morning.
Han got bad news from his family, but the straight-line distance of more than 10 thousand kilometers made him helpless. On April 5, Han said in a circle of friends, "Do you know how much children miss their mothers? Wake up, daughter-in-law. I have been immersed in the fantasy that you will see the children soon, and suddenly I know this change. I don't want to believe all this. How can a kind person like you suffer such a change? Wake up, wife. I am willing to trade my life for your happiness! "
April 6 is after 1 1, and Sierra Leone is after 3 am. Han sent a message to a circle of friends, saying, "We expect miracles, and we still have a happy rest of our lives."
However, something unfortunate happened. On April 6th 18: 58, Qilu Hospital organized experts from the whole hospital, exhausted all possible means to treat the disease, and declared Zhang Jingjing dead. The hero's life ended in the hospital she once knew best.
A friend sent a message to Han, "I'm sorry for your loss." He was suddenly confused because he always had the illusion that his wife was still alive. Then he confirmed the bad news from the news.
Zhang Jingjing returned to Jinan on March 2 1 for centralized isolation medical observation according to regulations.
Rough back to China
People from all walks of life deeply cherish the memory of Zhang Jingjing after his death. On the evening of April 7th, hundreds of citizens and medical staff in Huanggang held a candlelight festival in the North Square of Dabie Mountain Medical Center where Zhang Jingjing once fought.
On the same day, the Shandong Provincial Health and Wellness Committee also stated that it "expressed deep condolences to the unfortunate death of Comrade Zhang Jingjing and sincere condolences to the family of Comrade Zhang Jingjing."
Han once promised Zhang Jingjing that he would take her home no matter what.
The realization of this promise is not easy. On the afternoon of April 7, Han told the newspaper, "Now, the higher authorities, my unit and Qilu Hospital are actively trying to help me get back as soon as possible. It is difficult to go back, and I understand. "
Subsequently, the Embassy of China in Serbia said, "We have contacted Mr. Han and expressed our condolences. We are now urgently coordinating all parties to help Mr. Han return to China as soon as possible."
On the evening of April 7th, Weibo, an official of the Arms Control Department of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, issued a document saying that Han would fly from Sierra Leone to Brussels, the Belgian capital, on April 1 1, and return home from Brussels.
On April 8, with the assistance of the Embassy of China in Sierra Leone, Han moved from his work city to Freetown, the capital of Sierra Leone. April 1 1, arrived at the airport from Freetown by sea, flew to Brussels, Belgium, and arrived in Xi 'an from Brussels on April 12. After 14 days in an isolation, he finally returned to Jinan, which was troubled by dreams, at 6 am on the 26th.
On the morning of April 27th, Zhang Jingjing's body was cremated in Jinan, and Han sent his wife on the last journey. He said at the memorial service, "Zhang Jingjing's funeral should be simple, with no farewell ceremony and memorial service. As a husband, he will take care of the elderly and raise children. "
Zhang Jingjing Jiayijiao
Raise a daughter
"She is ill and I can't take care of her all day. This is my biggest regret." For several months after Zhang Jingjing's death, Han blamed himself, especially in April and May, and needed to rely on alcohol to anesthetize himself every day.
In Han's view, if his wife is still alive, it should be the happiest time for their small family. "We have worked for so many years, and we have survived. There is no pressure on the economy. The children are growing up slowly, and the old man is also very good. She is so young! "
"She basically bought everything at home." How do you feel when I go home and turn off the lights? "At that time, Korea often walked outside for a long time before going home at night, because everything in the family had not changed, but the people waiting for her were gone. He kept the original appearance of his home intact, hoping that his daughter would see it in the future, get to know her better and understand her.
Han said, "Last year, I planned not to go out again after returning to China, and I didn't make it; We also thought about having another child, but it didn't happen. " If one of these two ideas comes true, the ending may not be like this.
"I owe them too much and hope to make it up to the children." When Zhang Jingjing was born last year, Han was still abroad; For his five-year-old daughter, he didn't give her a birthday because of his work; Going abroad for five years, only spending the Spring Festival with my family at home; Everything at home is arranged by Zhang Jingjing. He doesn't even know how to pay the water and electricity bills at home.
He asked himself to cheer up and continue to support the family.
Before the couple went out together, Zhang Jingjing was driving. Han can neither drive nor know the way. In the last six months, he learned to drive in his spare time, which was also the requirement of Zhang Jingjing before his death. Now he has completed this task.
Han entrusted her daughter to her parents-in-law for the time being. First of all, children need company. If you are with yourself, your mood may be affected. In addition to taking care of the elderly, in-laws have cousins of similar age to play with. Second, this incident has a great influence on the two old people. They should feel better with children to take care of.
My daughter didn't see her mother on her fifth birthday, and she mentioned her mother from time to time.
Zhang Guosheng revealed that once when she was playing a number game with her niece, she sorted her family. "Brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, parents" When talking about her mother, she convinced herself, "Mom went to earn money, and she went to do experiments".
Zhang Guosheng also found that there were three bedrooms in his house, one of which was unoccupied. My niece sometimes goes to that room quietly, alone, which her mother has never done before.
Han usually goes to his father-in-law's house by bus after work every Friday to spend the weekend with his children. He hopes to change the negative influence of this imperfect family on children's growth as much as possible.
Zhang Jingjing was recognized by all circles after his death. In June of this year, 65438+ 10, the commendation object of Shandong's fight against COVID-19 epidemic was publicized, and Zhang Jingjing was listed; In June this year, Shandong University posthumously awarded Zhang Jingjing the title of "Outstanding Contribution Award for Building Hubei Province to Fight the Epidemic" and recorded his merits.
During her assistance to Hubei, she made a video and gave it to Han. There is a lyric in the soundtrack, which happens to be a portrayal of Zhang Jingjing's life. "I have been to this world before. Don't tell me what eternity is. I was destroyed at the most brilliant moment. Don't cry, my favorite person. "
All medical staff in Qilu Hospital mourn for Zhang Jingjing.
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