You'll get completely different answers:
Mind: male doctors put me under more psychological pressure; I'm very conservative;
Don't mind: I can't afford to choose the gender of the doctor when I give birth to a child; most of the obstetricians and gynecologists abroad are male (note: there are more and more female obstetrician and gynecologists abroad these days, too); and the male doctors have better temperaments.
Mind: psychologically difficult to accept;
Don't mind: feel that male doctors have wider eyes and broader mind, better communication.
I. What do male obstetricians and gynecologists go through?
On one sitting, a 24-year-old female patient came in. As is my custom, I had her lie down on the bed for a routine examination. I carefully drew the curtains for her, "Here, take off your pants and spread your legs!"
"Huh? What?!" The female patient stared at me with suspicion.
"One pant leg off, please!" I could only emphasize again. Seeing this, the girl hesitantly and slowly took off her entire pair of pants! I was looking at it and it was super embarrassing. I made it very clear that it was one pant leg, not the whole pair of pants!
Finally, she finally put on one pant leg, took off her panties again, and put her legs up on the braces. I guessed that this girl should be cloudy because it was her first time to undergo a gynecological examination. So, I signaled her not to be nervous, wait for me to use a cotton swab ready to dab a small amount of leukorrhea secreted from the vaginal opening will be fine.
But before I could get the swab, she screamed, "Ah, it hurts! So painful! Ah--" and then, the whole person curled up. When she did that, I broke out in a sweat with her.
With great difficulty, after half a day of pacifying her, she was willing to continue to spread her legs, and finally the sample was collected successfully.
But as I lifted the curtains and resumed my seat, I realized that there were a bunch of women gathered inside and outside the doorway of the waiting room, each staring intently at me.
I kept my head down, filling out charts and bills. That's when I heard the patients talking about how inconvenient it was to have a male doctor in the OB/GYN department!
It's not a bad idea to have a male doctor! Once in the work state, the female organs in my eyes and the operation of the internship model is not very different, and besides, every day repeat almost the same examination, much less any unhealthy ideas.
Second, the doctor's eyes do not distinguish between men and women
As a woman, when you go to see a gynecologist or obstetrician, if you meet a male doctor, you think of how to face the male doctor may be their own private parts.
It's normal to think this way, and it's not really necessary.
Inside the hospital, the sex organ is one organ, just one of many. Outside the hospital, it's the secular world, where secular views can be retained; inside the hospital, it's the medical world, where the organ is just an anatomical term, and what it has is medical significance. And, of course, hospitals have rules to help you protect your privacy and preserve your dignity.
For doctors, those who are generally very taboo about the terms of the sex organs, those parts of the network as a sensitive word, for male doctors in obstetrics and gynecology for a daily hanging in the mouth, I do not know how many times a day to say, how many times you have to write anatomical terms, and the same as a big cake, doughnuts (I'm sorry I said the wrong thing, it may be really different, hear the big cake, doughnuts a lot of male doctors will be get excited!) , are very neutral terms.
For male OB/GYNs, these are common anatomical parts, and these terms are just that: common. When they go to work, many male obstetricians and gynecologists automatically go into work mode, forgetting about their gender and automatically switching to the "third gender".
So, in the OB/GYN department, there are a lot of privacy and security measures, so don't think of your male doctor as a man, and you won't have to deal with this kind of embarrassment.